Erection problem

[Ben_P]

I’m getting there guys, erections coming back, not quite as hard as I’d like but slowly slowly! 

[Breakingthewall]

That used to happen to me when I was younger, and I'd think, "Oh, how awful, I'm not enough," blah blah. The reality is, you're just not horny, period. Why? Whatever. You don't have to have sex if you're not horny. It's not your fault, or the girl's, or anyone else's; it's just a fact.

And spending half an hour giving oral sex when you're not horny... well... imagine the other way around: you're kissing a girl and she says, "I'm not horny at all." So what? Does she suck your dick for half an hour? I don't see it. 

Usually the problem is the there is tension, not real free connection, it doesn't mean that you are not masculine, it means that you are not a monkey who can have sex with anyone . Sex is not a competition, it's deep connection masculine feminine. It's much better being patient and find the high quality that go for the quantity to feel a winner. For me if the slightest feeling of being winner appears in sex the translation is a voice telling me: you are a pathetic mentally retarded, congratulations 

The feeling in sex is connection, expansion, life and power, but power doesn't mean win. Win is comparative, power comes from inside, it's the creative power of life, the nature of you. "Win" is always in relation with others, that's noise that prevents you to flow in sex. Win is perfect in competition, business, anything, but not in sex, thats obsolete.

Edited yesterday at 01:48 PM by Breakingthewall

[Breakingthewall]

Anyway, another way to see it is that a blockage exist and insisting and trying in some point it's necessary. It's easy to say that it's nonsense when you are not there, but sometimes effort is needed. Then the point is knowing when it's a blockage in you or real incompatibility. 

[Schizophonia]

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