I'm so glad to have renounced romantic relationships

[Alexop]

If your are not born asexual, or aromantic (if there is such term), you pretty much have the need for romance. You can ignore it or cope with it but it is there. And no amount of spiritual shit will make it dissappear. Spirituality cannot change your biology. We naturally crave specific things depending on our biology. Crave for intimacy, love, romance, apreciation, purpose etc.

 

Edited Tuesday at 03:52 PM by Alexop

[BlessedLion]

On 5/12/2026 at 7:59 AM, Someone here said:

Make sure you’re not self medicating or trying to cope with failure of getting a romantic partner.

This....

I feel the whole "marrying myself" thing comes from narcissism and insecurity... people say things like "I deserve only someone who loves me as much as I love me." Without thinking about how they can actually be a high value and good partner, it's all about judging and expecting the world of others who have the honor of being in your amazing presence.

Cool, have fun being sexless and alone 

[LordFall]

It's 100% a skill issue and light narcissism. You shouldn't take this stuff too seriously in terms of internalizing shame due to being unsuccessful with women.

If you're naturally good at something you'll rarely get great at it

Workout, go out regularly, get some status through social media and make a list of the hottest single women in the world that are your personal 10 and make it a mission to cum in at least one of them. Enjoy sexuality, it's beautiful but when you internalize being an incel then of course giving up is gonna take a load off your shoulders momentarily. 

MGTOW is a thing for a reason and those guys all seem miserable and like they're coping hard lol