Thinking about doing a bootcamp w/ Owen Cook

[MonkeyMan]

Hey guys, I'm thinking about taking a 1 day bootcamp w/ Owen Cook. Does anyone have any experience? 

I went to a free tour last June, and honestly at first I thought it was a scam, he was talking about alpha males and beta males, and the audience was kind of incely. 

However, as he kept talking, it felt like I took 0.5 grams of shrooms. I felt like his "frame control" was insanely strong, like my unconscious mind was attuning to his. 

I really can't tell if this is an over-optimized autist who's doing a grift or if he genuinely believes this is his purpose. I believe he worked with Ken Wilber before. 

I didn't do the bootcamp that night; however, the next 2 days, people were definitely treating me differently. I was unconsciously projecting my voice, and my vibe was a bit better. 

I'm almost 24, but I don't think I need help with pulling girls. I am more interested in the leadership, frame control, etc. 

Over the past couple of months I've been going to networking events, and it's starting to click why he does his weird stuff, like how loud he is, his vocal projection, and the amount of aggression he speaks with. 

I think his 1 day ones are 1k but honestly I can't really see an ROI with just a day. I feel like you'd probably need a week immersed in the environment. 

From 19 to 23, I went from slightly autistic, negative, and missing social cues to now being called charismatic regularly. Most through my own effort, however, I started watching his content like a year ago, and it's definitely sped up my process/paradigms. 

[Raze]

He didn’t work with Ken Wilber 

[Lyubov]

He’s a powerful autist that can def teach you things to reach modern success but you need to have boundaries and know what your principles are and be firmly rooted in your own truth around such people or you will fall into all the traps he has and possibly spend a ton of money on his products that would of been better used elsewhere. If you have the cash to burn, go for it. If you’re really desperate sometimes blowing your cash on a guy sorta creates an artificial fire under your feet to create more of a vision for your life. Really at the end of the day all he is teaching is for you to create a vision for yourself and retrain yourself to focus and not waste time. I find his free videos that are intentionally shot to be more than enough to learn from him. But maybe you will find his paid stuff with it? 

Edited 23 hours ago by Lyubov

[LordFall]

On 4/11/2026 at 2:39 PM, MonkeyMan said:

I'm almost 24, but I don't think I need help with pulling girls. I am more interested in the leadership, frame control, etc. 

What does this even mean? Can you elaborate on what you're looking to experience there and get out of it?

I've never done a bootcamp personally but I've assisted a couple dating coaches with them. It is life changing if you don't have access to anyone like that in your regular life. $1000 for self-development is not really expensive. Just be clear what you want out of it though.