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Life is too easy when you have money, you can buy anyone with money. Here's a rule: people do not act altruistically, they act based on self interest. 
If you have money you can lure people in by appealing to their self interest, all the while giving them money, in exchange for what you want. 
If you're a women, you can appeal to men, by giving them your pussy. 
It's kinda unfair if you're a young man, you can't sell your pussy, and you don't have money, so the question becomes, how can you make people act in accordance to your self interest, when you have nothing that serves their self interest like money or pussy. 
All you have is ambition and testosterone, so you better get to work hard, otherwise you die. Because we're fundamentally a cokmunal and social species, we can't survive on our own, we need others and to get what you want from others you have to appeal to their self interest.

Here's a rule: never tell to others you're a virgin if you're a virgin. People will use it against you, they won't sympathize but ridicule you, always lie about your body count, making it higher than it actually is. Nobody can know whether you're lying or you're legit, so might as well use that to your advantage.

Here's another social rule: 
Never challenge people's worldviews.
People value their worldviews more than they value their children.
That's why it's foolish if you're parents are fundamentalist christians, jews, muslims, hindus... To tell them you're gay. They will disown you, or they will deny it. Never tell a religious person you're an atheist. And never tell an atheist, you're religious. You should be sort of a cameleon, that fits in in any context, without challenging people's perspectives, and making them uncomfortable. 
Your religion, politics and sexuality should always be congruent with the group you're a part of, otherwise they'll ostracise you.

Here's another social rule: 
Be a challenge to people. Don't always reply instantly, compliment too much, or be always available. 
A high value person, is the opposite of that. You should give people bad comments in a playful way, do not become a bully. But you should master the art of being disagreeable and at the same time challenging. However without ever challenging people on a deep existential level, on topics like religion, politics or sexuality. When it comes to those topics always try to fit in with the established culture. However when it comes to availability, you shouldn't always be available. And you should challenge people, sort of teasing them, in a playful way, on superficial non important stuff, this will make you stand out. And this is why women fall for assholes, narcissists and psychopaths. Because they're challenging in a cool way, not a worldview challenging way.

Another social rule: 
Do not critize that which people cherish deeply. If someone shares with you their favorite movie, or book. Always be respectful of it. And even go out of your way to consume it, and share your positive feedback about it. This will create a sentiment of intimacy with the other person. And it will be very beneficial in that the person will start connecting and relating to you on a deeper level, and you'll become closer with the person.

Another social rule: 
Avoid toxic people. People who judge you based on your nationality or ethnicity. 
Those people are far too gone, to get them to like you. No amount of efforts will convince a nazi to like a jew. So might as well leave maintaining your dignity.

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Don't worry so much about the rules, worry about the implications and the underlying frames. Once you have more social gravity you can break most rules and get away with it. It's all about offering value. 


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