Possible partner dances Bachata

[Elliott]

23 minutes ago, Howtolive said:

She mentioned dancing till early in the morning and also sometimes that there are events yes.

Dancing takes lots of and fairly regular practice. The ones I go to go until 2 a.m.. time goes by fast, it's not really a bad indicator alone, some people only dance once a week or couple of weeks, so you go, maybe do a class at 8, take a break, and have a dance social until 2. It combines practice with a night out, nothing inherently deviant. Lots of young people that like a late night out once a week.

Edited Monday at 04:06 PM by Elliott

[mmKay]

I've been dancing sensual bachata for 2.5 years going out 3 to 7 nights a week. If it bothers you that she goes out dancing every other night she will most likely choose dance over you, unless you provide very high value to her life somehow 

The local dance scene tends to be pretty reserved, since everyone knows everyone you don't want to build a bad reputation.

Normally  you dance pretty much non stop so rarely you can use the dance as an opener to talk to her for a long time before the next guy snatches her.

Also most dancers don't drink or barely drink since they must keep their coordination.

The hook-ups happen either if you stay until closing of the venue late night or if you go to dance Congresses where everyone travels to a different part of the country or continent and stays at the same hotel for 3 to 5 nights.

Theres plenty of girls with boyfriends that go out dancing every other night and the stay in the same relationship for a good while. Normally they're both dancers but I know of dancer-non-dancer relationships

Either accept and trust her doing her dance thing, start dancing yourself or find a different girl. But you would be better off just letting go of the worry of her cheating , since somethng along these lines will be a recurring situation in all of your relationships 

Latin dances are great for building a social circle. For hook ups bars and clubs are almost better if you've got some game.

In order of least to most hookups --->

Salsa -- Bachata/Zouk -- Kizomba 

Edited yesterday at 05:24 PM by mmKay

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, mmKay said:

In order of least to most hookups --->

Salsa -- Bachata/Zouk -- Kizomba 

You have the ratios calculated out. Ahahaha 

[Howtolive]

1 hour ago, mmKay said:

I've been dancing sensual bachata for 2.5 years going out 3 to 7 nights a week. If it bothers you that she goes out dancing every other night she will most likely choose dance over you, unless you provide very high value to her life somehow 

The local dance scene tends to be pretty reserved, since everyone knows everyone you don't want to build a bad reputation.

Normally  you dance pretty much non stop so rarely you can use the dance as an opener to talk to her for a long time before the next guy snatches her.

Also most dancers don't drink or barely drink since they must keep their coordination.

The hook-ups happen either if you stay until closing of the venue late night or if you go to dance Congresses where everyone travels to a different part of the country or continent and stays at the same hotel for 3 to 5 nights.

Theres plenty of girls with boyfriends that go out dancing every other night and the stay in the same relationship for a good while. Normally they're both dancers but I know of dancer-non-dancer relationships

Either accept and trust her doing her dance thing, start dancing yourself or find a different girl. But you would be better off just letting go of the worry of her cheating , since somethng along these lines will be a recurring situation in all of your relationships 

Latin dances are great for building a social circle. For hook ups bars and clubs are almost better if you've got some game.

In order of least to most hookups --->

Salsa -- Bachata/Zouk -- Kizomba 

Thank you for the insights.

She mentioned going to different city’s for these bachata evening. First there is teaching from 9-12 and then there is open dance 12-6 in the morning. 
 

She also was part of events where you go to different parts of the world or cities. You say they are more used for hook ups ?

I would say it’s a very special hobby if you also want a stable relationship.