Exposing falsehood ≠ Truth

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Cred

Your insights are welcome.

Insisting on your one frame, while neglecting the myriad - nigh, hundreds - of other explanations, is not.

You approach this topic with open-mindedness. However, it is prudent to remain vigilant that frames are limited; and that you insisting on yours is closed minded. 

I perceive you projecting.

Your good intentions are noted 🙏

[Cred]

@Miguel1 Honestly, that sounds totally fair to me.

I'm in the process of differentiating between unmasked, authentic behaviour and unnecessary "bad" behaviour.

I have not had an online presence like this yet and still figuring things out. A lot of the things I've said, I wouldn't have said like this to someone in person. I'll maybe try to use this frame in the future.

I will spend time kontemplating intrusion, respect, dignity. I will likely become more careful about my rethoric when adressing an individual on this forum.

Thanks for your patience.

[Miguel1]

@Cred Yes, that is good.

There is a difference between being authentic and just being straight up an ass, who doesn’t consider anyone’s feelings, perspectives and respective journeys and the stages they are at.

As the old wisdom goes: meet people where they are at. The nuance is to do this authentically.

And finally, that is a very good insight: don’t say things here and in the way you say, if you wouldn’t do it in real life, especially to people you respect.