Do men and women awaken equally ?

[theleelajoker]

@Natasha Tori Maru pretty much concept or labeling vs. direct experience and egoic structure driving this, yes.

Information for the sake of information, pathological thinking in form of labeling, desire of control disguised as "understanding", egoic identity forming through subjective "truths".

Could have been more short and precise in last post 😂 

@Xonas Pitfall tell the hot witch seductress to bring her friends, there are more use cases for them 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@theleelajoker Gotcha. As I read through, it seemed to me you were organically putting to text these concepts you were seeing played out as repeated patterns, in your own unique way. You gave me the ammo - I just simplified so I could better understand your perspective  

I find summarising back helps a lot to avoid misunderstanding.

Muchas gracias!

[theleelajoker]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@theleelajoker Gotcha. As I read through, it seemed to me you were organically putting to text these concepts you were seeing played out as repeated patterns, in your own unique way. You gave me the ammo - I just simplified so I could better understand your perspective  

I find summarising back helps a lot to avoid misunderstanding.

Muchas gracias!

Back then , I was too tired to structure the information in a high quality manner. Typing on cellphone did not help either.

Summarizing and paraphrasing are HUGE re right understanding, 100% agree.

Once I could see the patterns, it's crazy how dominant thinking, labeling, categorizing is in our culture.

Watching Joe Hudson in action doing coaching also left a giant impression on me. With a lot of love, and charme, and care he cuts through that. To paraphrase him in simplified way:

"I'm gonna stop you talking right here. If you continue this story, you just gonna make it harder for both of us. Ok you say you feel XYZ (anger, sadness, incompetence,...) How you know that?Where you feel that in your body? Ok, Feel that. Love that part. You can't ? There's resistance? Ok, feel that. Love that resistance.

You say don't know how to do that? You say you can't because reality is XYZ? Stop creating that story. You know how. You just did it. Stop the story, stop labeling,  just do it."

 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by theleelajoker