What it's like walking down the street as a women

[enchanted]

This women in the video gets hit on over a hundred times throughout her day. No wonder attractiolve women are sick of men lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskTheWorld/s/KHzZXJ1oRA

 

[Recursoinominado]

My hot ex-gf would show her DMs to me often, and we would laugh at the dozens of hungry men hitting her up every hour. 

Every post, every story, she would receive dozens of DMs from men, even when we were in a declared relationship with many photos with me in her feed and stories. 

Women have a love/hate relationship with this harassment.

They find it disgusting coming from men they aren't attracted to but, at the same time, they measure their worth/attractiveness based on this harassment.

[theleelajoker]

1 hour ago, Recursoinominado said:

Women have a love/hate relationship with this harassment.

They find it disgusting coming from men they aren't attracted to but, at the same time, they measure their worth/attractiveness based on this harassment.

+1 the "from men not attracted to" 

That's what I observed and what women even told me when I asked them. Same words, in the same moment from a guy they find attractive or not is either seen as harassment or compliment that gets their juices flowing. 

And while there are definitely a lot of super creepy, disrespectful guys - let's not pretend there's only victims on the female side. I have seen it countless times that women use their looks, their sexuality and a faint promise of hook up or indication of sex to manipulate and to get their will. Can't throw a bone and then be surprised if dogs are chasing it (not referring to the video, but the general level of sexual display in our society)

What's shitty is that the women with integrity that don't do this suffer from male idiots, and that the respectful men suffer from the manipulation of those women described above. 

Re the DMs, I have similar story. My ex did the same, reading to me once a message: "Hi Baby, you want to have hard sex?" She said "look that's what I'm getting....man, learn how to approach a woman!"

While she said this, I noticed one thing: She did not complain THAT he wrote it, simply HOW he transmitted the offer. She also did not reject the very direct imagination of getting fucked hard, even coming from a stranger. I guess the guy texting her was hot 😄 After a moment I also managed to understand her signal towards me and knew what she wanted me to do 🤣

Edited Wednesday at 02:00 AM by theleelajoker

[Ramasta9]

She attracts "more of that" because that's the "programming" she received growing up and also "focuses" on that hence the video, hence its like asking the universe "show me more of this please". People don't understand how the universe works and don't see that reality is the mirror reflection of ourselves and our own programming. She needs to heal and change in order to see change.

I am sure there are many woman who walk by the same streets who simply don't attract or align with such responses. Its simply becomes a vibrational-mis-match. Sure some places are naturally more hood-ridden than others full of scums and slums and lots of trauma and darkness, but its not the reality for everyone, I've tested this myself.

The mind is a beautiful but also dangerous tool if you don't master it, it masters you then you blame life. 

[LordFall]

I quite believe that in 10 years from now we'll live in a much more opt-in version of this. Already you see people walking round with meta glasses, in 10 years it's gonna be ubiquitous and if a woman doesn't want to get hit on she'll show up as greyed out on a augmented reality interface and guys will be reported for harassing her. 

As people have said a lot of times this works out in the woman's favour so the opt-in consent is quite important. I run luxury dinners by cold DMing women on instagram, they seem to be quite happy about it for the most part lol.