Why Second Hand Experience Is Making You Angry?

[Ramasta9]

7 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

Can you clarify it? 

I am basically saying there is little to no experience in the (real world) so when it comes time to step out of the online world and actually "walk the talk",  most people who haven't developed their roots in the physical world will soon realize how full of shit and handicapped they are  

Especially when meeting a counterpart who has and is more embodied and aligned with his / her actions and words.

 

 

 

[CARDOZZO]

31 minutes ago, Ramasta9 said:

I am basically saying there is little to no experience in the (real world) so when it comes time to step out of the online world and actually "walk the talk",  most people who haven't developed their roots in the physical world will soon realize how full of shit and handicapped they are  

Especially when meeting a counterpart who has and is more embodied and aligned with his / her actions and words.

It is comical to see group think working regarding dating. It is like a spell or a genjutsu. Probably, there is someone laughing at me right now but for other reasons.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 hours ago, Ramasta9 said:

Especially when meeting a counterpart who has and is more embodied and aligned with his / her actions and words.

Indeed.

And many think they want someone fully grounded and embodied - and when they are faced with it they run a mile. Horrified at all of their shit being seen through instantly and games called out. Cards all on the table. 

That is when others realise they want someone who will enable their current paradigm over being challenged to grow in any real fashion.

I see this a lot when people say 'I want this, x y z quality and I am attracted to it' 

...and then end up with someone (and being attracted to) something completely different.

[Ramasta9]

10 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Indeed.

And many think they want someone fully grounded and embodied - and when they are faced with it they run a mile. Horrified at all of their shit being seen through instantly and games called out. Cards all on the table. 

That is when others realise they want someone who will enable their current paradigm over being challenged to grow in any real fashion.

I see this a lot when people say 'I want this, x y z quality and I am attracted to it' 

...and then end up with someone (and being attracted to) something completely different.

I am actually far more attracted to someone who will challenge me and is more grounded and embodied, that is magnetic and can only lead to more growth and expansion. Real likes real i guess...  

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 minute ago, Ramasta9 said:

I am actually far more attracted to someone who will challenge me and is more grounded and embodied, that is magnetic and can only lead to more growth and expansion. Real likes real i guess...  

There is what we SAY or THINK we will be attracted to - and what we ARE attracted to

And many do not welcome the growth and expansion the types of higher consciousness relationships facilitate when they really taste it!

[CARDOZZO]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

There is what we SAY or THINK we will be attracted to - and what we ARE attracted to

And many do not welcome the growth and expansion the types of higher consciousness relationships facilitate when they really taste it!

YEAHHH  

When I say to woman that I love a big ass chubby, they tell I'm lying.