Communication Skills: The Ultimate Life Purpose Power Tool

[Wisebaxter]

As life purpose is such a fundamental aspect of our path towards self actualisation, I'd like to share a recent insight I've had that has given me a real boost, which is that charisma and communication skills are at the heart of everything. I think this ties in with Leo's great video on marketing. 

I know this seems obvious and rudimentary to some, but like me you may be shocked by how far you can go with it.

I love the Podcast Diary of a CEO as Stephen Bartlett is so good as distilling pure wisdom out of his guests. I especially want to reccommened the following  interviews regarding communication skills and charisma because as I mentioned, they're the most important thing beside actual talent, apparently even more important, as people often see others with less skill getting more opportunities because they know how to market themselves or connect with people, to gain trust and make others feel a certain way. We're all wearing a mask, so why not wear an appealing one and make people feel good whilst getting your needs met.

Here are my top recommends for Charisma training. If you watch these and take notes, work on it..you will see your life change. I've already landed a job using this stuff. Went into that interview glowing, dealing out competencey cues left right and centre, a pause here, a head tilt there, some choice facial expressions, hand movements, slowing down my speech. It's just gold. Please don't disregard this. I say that as I care about my self actualising brethren and I just wish I'd known about this shit sooner. Notice how incredible each of these people are at communicating. Also notice how authentic they are. It's as if the mastering charisma allows you to come across as more natural and authentic. They are almost hypnotic to listen to and watch. 

 

 

 

 

With this one, pay more attention to McConaughey's way of communicating than the content, which is still very interesting and insightful. But really he's a poster child for charisma. 

I saved my favourite until last. Chase Hughes is something else. Look at how calm and controlled he is, whilst also seeming comfortable and relaxed. If you like it, look up his special operations manual. He's written a tome on covert tactics. Use what you can to get ahead as long as you look after people and leave them better off than before you found them. Really by mastering these skills you become more effective, more yourself, and more able to experience love and connection in every area of you life. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Wisebaxter

[LordFall]

It's true. If you come at it from a nondual angle then anything you want in life you can get by just getting better at cooperating with the rest of reality and that's mostly done through communication.

I'm working on nonviolent communication as my next big communication skill. As an INTP I tend to be overly logical and use it as a weapon against people that disagree with me or just have a different perspective and I don't like that in myself and others. It shows up even here on this forum and I apologize to people if I've been rude to you in the past. It serves as to highlight my insecurities usually and my lack of communication skills if anything.