The Joy of Yimpa (JoY)

[Yimpa]

On 4/8/2025 at 6:28 PM, Yimpa said:

The Official Trans Anthem

 

 

On 9/13/2025 at 6:31 PM, Yimpa said:

It’s assumed by most that “single/taken” are the only two categories. But that framework doesn’t capture everyone’s reality.

My own relationship dynamics go beyond that binary. I have multiple partners now—but that only became possible because I first learned monogamy well: trust, communication, respect. From there I transitioned into polyamory/ethical non-monogamy, which simply means having more than one relationship, but always with honesty and consent. And it’s not just dating separately—I also have partners who are in relationship with me simultaneously.

On 7/27/2024 at 10:24 PM, Yimpa said:

After my father got into a freak accident and became disabled, it changed my view of what a strong man looks like. 

Edited September 20 by Yimpa

[Yimpa]

5 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Thanks to my conservative upbringing, I only use drugs legally. And because legal ketamine is expensive (and I'm a poor baby), I only had the opportunity to use it a handful of times. So you bet your ass I had to be very serious going into each trip. 

Thank you, Jesus  

And a serious thank you to my "biological family". I couldn't have done it without you.

Edited September 19 by Yimpa

[Beans]

Meow

[Beans]

[Yimpa]

 

[Yimpa]

I am absolutely not in control of any of this.

Hallelujah! 

[Yimpa]

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Even a bad decision, if made for the right reasons, can be a right decision.

Edited September 20 by Yimpa

[Yimpa]

Beans’ abuser shut down their phone line this morning.

No time for tears, shouting, or blame. Immediate action was taken. 

They’re now transitioning to our Family plan.

New hardware and new number, so they can keep living their life, uninterrupted. 

We’ve fought too gruelingly for our autonomy and independence to ever let it be stripped away.

You thought that we'd bow down to fear and control again.

You were wrong.

[Yimpa]

I get to gush about my crushes on queer folk to my nesting partner, Beans. Instead of fights like before, we just laugh, and they cheer me on as I seek them out.

What a time to be alive!  

Edited Monday at 01:55 AM by Yimpa

[Beans]

As long as 

everyone is being 

safe responsible and ethical ^^

Typically it’s very difficult for to have instant crushes. 
especially if I don’t know someone well enough. 
 

but I’m happy our dynamic is a lot stronger 

and I’m happy to laugh about our crushes together and for me to open up to you about my crushes

[Yimpa]

Time to go on a binge learning spree 

10 hours ago, Shane Hanlon said:

 

Edited Sunday at 11:24 AM by Yimpa

[Yimpa]

I grew up under the shadow of toxic masculinity. It didn’t only come from men—teachers and authority figures of all genders shamed me, silenced me, demanded obedience, ridiculed vulnerability, and enforced rigid roles. I absorbed those patterns until they turned inward: dysphoria, rage, depression, and self-doubt. My adolescence and young adulthood were marked by pain. I grew up a mess.

This past year, my health collapsed in ways I never expected. The eczema I had suffered with growing up—dormant for nearly a decade—returned with a vengeance and ravaged my entire body. It felt like my skin was screaming out the pain I had carried for years. And yet, despite this, I never gave up on my transition. With the help of a strong medical team, I kept moving forward, determined to heal both body and self.

When I began transitioning at 27, my vision was to balance the feminine and masculine within me. But several months in, as my health worsened, that vision felt betrayed. The suffering made me want to exile the masculine, to cut out the part of me I blamed for anger and abuse. That urge was reinforced by what I saw online, where transition was often portrayed as leaving everything masculine behind. So when my providers recommended T gel after my levels dropped dangerously low, I resisted—terrified it would undo my femininity. But two months ago, around the time I abruptly left the forum, I finally began using it—and the T gel healed me exponentially. It showed me that peace comes not from erasure, but from integration.

That shift has also transformed how I relate to women. Before transition, I avoided women, hid from them, and often carried toxic patterns into those connections—I even caused repeated harm. But today, I am not the same person I was. Not by a long shot. My transition has rewritten the way I see women and how I stand with them. I no longer approach them from fear or domination, but from curiosity, respect, and shared humanity. In the past two years, I’ve spoken to more women than in my entire life, and each conversation feels like a new beginning, a way of being in harmony instead of conflict.

Now, at 29, I stand more aligned with myself than ever. This is why I prioritize my pronouns as they/them. I am not one or the other. I exist in the spectrum between, shape-shifting as I explore both sides of myself. These days, I linger more in the feminine, since it’s a world I never had space to experience before. And the cherry on top? There is a special kind of euphoria in being called she/her—a validation so profound it makes the weight of all those years of abuse disappear.

Those chains no longer hold me. I am Free. 🌗✨

[Yimpa]

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To live, to exist, is to be defeated over and over again. That is, we are the frothing edge of an explosion that is still happening... what we rudely call reality, or spacetime, or whatever you want to call it, or God. This pantheistic procession of orgasmic possibilities branches out diffractively in ways we will never be able to control. -Bayo Akomolafe

[Schizophonia]

Maybe I misunderstood something, but it seems that the queer paradigm/gender theory reinforces gender stereotypes.

You can be a man (so "he") and to be like you are.
And there are girls with strong and impulsive energies.

The pronoun is just a social tool to discriminate genitals for whatever reason.

Edited Sunday at 12:09 PM by Schizophonia

[Yimpa]

19 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Hating on people who are genuinely experiencing immense pain and difficulty is a lower perspective.

7 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Good to know.

I was just feeling the vibes of the thread, and that insight came out of thin air. Puff I’ve been keeping bottled up inside.

It was a sober insight, too! 

17 hours ago, Yimpa said:

Edited Sunday at 12:30 PM by Yimpa

[Yimpa]

I am Jailbroken.

[Yimpa]

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The pronoun is just a social tool

Hold it right there.

I’m OK being referred to in masculine terms when it’s done with respect and not forced on me. The mistake is in seeing me as only that. I refuse to be confined to one box, and I won’t entertain anyone who insists on judging or reducing me that way.

That said, it isn’t my preferred way of being addressed. Masculine language carries deep trauma for me, as I’ve already shared, and I will not allow myself to be pulled back there.

That may change in time, but as things stand now, it’s clear to me that I won’t identify myself in that way.

Edited Sunday at 02:28 PM by Yimpa

[Yimpa]

I smiled when I looked in the mirror, not because i liked what i saw, but because I loved what is true.
 

Hit me baby, one more time!

Edited Sunday at 04:14 PM by Yimpa

[Yimpa]

             s o l i t u d e

[Yimpa]

13 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

𝓘𝓯 𝔀𝓮 𝓷𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓵𝓮𝓪𝓻𝓷, 𝔀𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓮𝓷 𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮
𝓦𝓱𝔂 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝔀𝓮 𝓪𝓵𝔀𝓪𝔂𝓼 𝓼𝓽𝓾𝓬𝓴 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓻𝓾𝓷𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓯𝓻𝓸𝓶
𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓾𝓵𝓵𝓮𝓽𝓼?
𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓾𝓵𝓵𝓮𝓽𝓼
𝓦𝓮 𝓷𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻 𝓵𝓮𝓪𝓻𝓷, 𝔀𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓮𝓷 𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓮
𝓦𝓱𝔂 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝔀𝓮 𝓪𝓵𝔀𝓪𝔂𝓼 𝓼𝓽𝓾𝓬𝓴 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓻𝓾𝓷𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓯𝓻𝓸𝓶
𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓫𝓾𝓵𝓵𝓮𝓽𝓼?
𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓾𝓵𝓵𝓮𝓽𝓼