Cold approach success stories

[BlessedLion]

I’ve had so many lovers and girlfriends as a result of cold approach I can’t even fit the stories and examples into a book, it’s def worth it. 

[pablo_aka_god]

@BlessedLion So inspiring! How many opens did it take you to reach that level and you currently have a GF or still do cold approach?

[BlessedLion]

@pablo_aka_god Thanks, man honestly it took so many rejections, awkward moments, flakiness but all of that was worth the lovers or girlfriends that came of it. I’m glad I pushed through but these days I don’t put much energy into it because it does take time, energy, etc. But if you want a girlfriend it’s a great way to go about it- much better than online dating apps. 
 

No girlfriend right now, I travel a lot so it’s tough to maintain something solid/consistent which is fine for me now. 
 

Have you done many approaches?

[enchanted]

-Talked to a girl at an opera I had free tickets to dated few months 

-sandwhich shop girl asked my number for the order and I asked for hers as a joke

-girl moved into neighborhood and I welcomed her and offered to show her around

I'm married now and all that shit is behind me. 

Edited September 19 by enchanted

[bazera]

@BlessedLion

On 18/09/2025 at 8:19 AM, BlessedLion said:

I’ve had so many lovers and girlfriends as a result of cold approach I can’t even fit the stories and examples into a book, it’s def worth it. 

Nice. How did you start? What is your story, were you extroverted since your teenage years or introverted and had to develop those skills in a hard way like most of us.

How did you overcome all the fears? I guess with just action, trial and error and experience and not giving up.

I'm sure all those relationships and lovers would bring lots of drama in your life, didn't that distract you from other activities you were doing?