Finished the LP course

[Jannes]

I felt a bit emotionally unstable in the gym today and right now as well. 

Not sure why. Maybe because I lowered the dose. Or maybe because I am not in my routine anymore. 

[Jannes]

Got through the seminar today. 

The situation with the girl was weird, well I made it werid but I handled it. In the end she was talking with someone else and didnt make any gesture towards wanting to leave with me so I shaked my hand and said goodbye. It felt freeing and healthy. Like I was vibing with her but I wasnt glued to her. Good to make that dynamic conscious. And I wonder if thats still the momentum I have from Berlin. 

[Jannes]

Have 3 options to go to today, 2 meetings from my university or my usual social spot. And I dont feel like going to any of them but I dont want to miss out on chances. I think I would be most comfortable with my usual social spot but then I run into the same problem, its stagnating there. 

[Jannes]

So I went a little late to my social spot today. 

The proud girl didnt greet me, whatever she seemed to realize last time, it seems to be over. If I only knew what it was. 

Its sad, she is the hottest girl there and kind of the only gf material.

That kind of put me a bit into a rage, I am loosing opportunities left and right because I want to do things fairly, because of the wpmi-girl I lost the mario kart n chill opportunity etc. 

So one time I got out of the table tennis round I saw a girl I saw plenty of times and just talked to her. She is kind of friends with a whole group I am hesitant to approach because the guys seem super protective at times but really they are mostly just fuckboys themselves. Well the talk went okay but something else confused me way more. Another girl I previously talked to but was blocked by from one of her friends super smiled to me and entered the conversation. She almost hugged me for a goodbye but then just waved when I didnt go along. She seemed so happy that I approached the girl, because I guess that builts a bridge for her. It was so wild. 

The guy then came to kind of protect her as well. She giggled a lot. He is good. But he cant keep them all to himself, he is around like 4 girls.

If I crack that group then I will really drown in possibilites. But really I would just like to have one gf when I am honest with myself. 

[Jannes]

Going out so late yesterday was just so much, I dont want to socialize today but I am gonna force myself to do so. 

I also opened up this new opportunity with this group of some girls. I am kind of afraid of it, maybe I cant handle it. 

I dont know where all this exhaustion is coming from. In Berlin I was exhausted as well but I was also in flow. Here not so much. Although when I approached that girl I experienced an Up for some time. I think I know that I need to make shit happen and I dont want to fail. 

[Jannes]

I dont really make a distinction of how I treat a relationship partner to how I treat a stranger. Well I "learned" to make a bit of a distinction. Uncivilized me didnt make a distinction. And it confused me how people could select whom they shower with love and who they leave out.

Adhd medication makes distinguishing more possible. And life experience as well, I loose when I spread my love like this. 

Awful world. 

[Jannes]

Socializing went well today. Should have come earlier though. Generally I felt like I was more confident then usual. I feel like that time in Berlin helped so much, the momentum is still going. 

There is a girl I kind of vibe with and I didnt talk to her directly but we played a groups game so we built a bit of contact through that. 

Still have problems with whom to hug and who not to hug. There are some obvious choices and grey zones and I cant handle the grey zones at all. And the people in the grey zone seem confused as well. Aaaaagh 

[Jannes]

My sleep routine is getting out of hand, slept like 10-11 hours today. I dont really feel refreshed afterwards. 

Maybe socializing just costs me so much energy. 

[Jannes]

Progress: i actually notice how thinking screws me in RV

wanting to do it "right", is doing it wrong. NO THOUGHTS!

..

Didnt help with my RV results though, still shitty. 

[Jannes]

Did 2 RV sessions today and 2 yesterday, so I am free for the weekend. Am at home with my parents for a change and will either stay or go to berlin or back to my city, not sure yet. I am sure I am going to love to make that decision tomorrow. 

[Jannes]

I had an insane dream a few days ago on 4.12. and I still havent written it down yet so here we go. 

So I had some great insight into reality, I saw how reality actually is, like that reality has different states and these states all happen simutaniously .. and I dont remember the rest. 

I felt like I was in my genious zone, like I didnt just feel intelligent, I actually felt like I grasped some absolute intelligence because what I was grasping was the actual fabric of reality which IS intelligence. 

So I wanted to write that gold down. Unfortunately I only had a smartwatch on, so I typed extremely slowly on there. Then I messed it up and had so start all over again. Then some dude came in talking shit and wanted something and I just said the few things that were nessecary to remain conscious of my insights while also getting him out of the room. So I got him out and was just about to finally write it down then some random ass fat women with warrior spit screamed and ran at me, jumping at me with a lethal attack, and I was so annoyed by it all, I was like, just kill me, I am going to write it down now and this wont break my fassade. So she made her lethal jump and my determination made it so that she was like a hologram, not fassing me. I think I even remembered resemblance to how my mom once broke me out of a deep meditation. Only after the third time she jumped me did I wake up from the dream. Not sure if I woke up in a new dream or actually woke up. I couldnt write down my insights anymore though. Well I wrote down that highlighted bit.