Does rejection and heartbreak counts as experience?

[Dauntment]

Experience is itself (experience)......it would primarily only matter if you iterate based on your negative experiences. If you're getting rejected, "you're doing something wrong". May be: your appearance, your verbal game, youre not the girls type etc.

(For some more Harsh Truth....)  Also, just the fact that you are experiencing such emotions/feelings + created a thread asking strangers about it === You have serious room for growth. Good news - Your reality/experiences can be SIGNIFICANTLY better, Bad news - You have a sh*t ton of work/growth to do. Good luck cuz

[Rishabh R]

@Dauntment is reframing negative situations positively to overcome them a kind of growth ?

Edited April 23 by Rishabh R

[Yimpa]

On 4/23/2024 at 6:41 AM, Rishabh R said:

is reframing negative situations positively to overcome them a kind of growth ?

It’s also important to acknowledge how you feel honestly. Making a habit of masking uncomfortable feelings with thoughts is a short-term solution. What grows you is approaching what you fear and having a clearer picture of what you’re experiencing.