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This is even better than what I was saying. ❤️

I respect your honesty about yourself. We don't need to think something is wrong in order to change it, right? We can change something which is right into something which is even more right. The fact that you come off as arrogant is the issue you're worried about. But that's who you are right now, and that's exactly where you needed to be, because see, if you weren't at where you are at, then you wouldn't ask for help, right? There are always bigger plans for you at work by Love and Infinite Intelligence. Now, after acknowledging that, accept who you are without resistance, and then learn and apply practical advice on how to become more humble. I hope that gives you some insight and clarity. ❤️

@Paul92 Wish you all the best! Don't give up on playing the greatest video game: Life. All of your questions have answers, but the answers are on different levels of the game. Remember how you always had questions and you found answers to some of them, you will find the answers to the rest of them. It's all a play, we're here to play and enjoy. So, play and enjoy. ❤️

@cristopher91 You must have succeeded many times in the past. How do you feel after you succeed? Empty? Fulfilled?

Could you please elaborate?

@Gadasaa You're doing worse than others because you're deconstructing your illusions, while they ignore doing that, so their auto-pilot mode is driving them. After a while you will start figuring out what to do and how to do, you need some faith and patience. I think the best thing to do in your situation is to become clear about your goals. Do you really want success? Or do you want happiness? These two are polar opposites at first, but eventually they will go full circle and complete each other. Just make sure you don't harm your survival abilities while progressing, and also try to avoid debating, and be silent and observing, that's where most growth happens.

@LoveandPurpose You already love yourself, you're just shy enough to admit it. How do I know? Well, simply because you're asking. What is that but love? If you find this convincing, accept it. If not, let go. You can't not love yourself, because you are love. And I love you too ❤️

@now is forever I have this friend, the laziest guy on earth. He's never on time, always at least 15 mins late, once 2 hours late. These people are treasure for learning how to become patient and understanding. So, there's a positive side to this issue. As for the solution: There is no how. Just do it.

When you stop trying to make sense of life, you will enjoy it. Ta-da! Don't think life, feel it. @mandyjw It wasn't me though, it was always you ❤️

@mandyjw Exactly! The most mundane things are special. And despite all of our mundaneness, we are sacred and divine. Now, how do we make practical use of this insight? By merging what we want with what we need, using the guidance of our feelings. In the present moment, whatever needs to be done is exactly what we want to do. And what we want to do is exactly what needs to be. ❤️

@KenDo Let it happen spontaneously with time. Everytime you catch yourself clinging to something, observe and ask why.

To the present moment.

@Farnaby I personally have learned a lot about myself practising meditation while walking, with or without listening to music. I'd walk for 2 or more hours continuously, sometimes it can strech to 5 hours, it depends on how 'monkey' your mind is. Meditation is basically observation of the present moment. Acceptance is a whole other practice, but you can certainly combine both together. It does not matter the method, I suggest that you try many methods, and find out the best one for you. How do you know which one is better? Three very important questions: 1) How much does it make you learn about yourself? 2) How calm and peaceful do you feel right afterwards? 3) How much do you feel connected with the present moment and disconnected from the illusion of past and future right afterwards?

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Okay, first of all let's not create a debate here and rape this thread. It's true, I didn't choose to believe or not believe anything, but this is completely irrelevant to being able to believe or not. Free will is an illusion, but the illusion seems real. That's why it's called an illusion in the first place, because it 'seems' real. The post I created did not come from me, it had to appear, out of nowhere. And whether it makes sense or not, it's not really up to me or you or anyone else. You can believe in free will and be happy, I didn't say you can't. But it will be a neurotic kind of happiness. Or maybe I'm wrong about this. You claim that my word play will cause suffering, I tell you that it doesn't. At first, you will suffer, the ego-mind does not like to lose control, but eventually you will become free. I don't want to keep going with this debate, so I won't reply again, but if you have anything to add, please feel free to share, I'm all ears. Thank you.

@purerogue Then why am I very happy with my life?

@Inliytened1 There isn't a free will, but it seems like there is. This topic is very important, if you know that there's no free will, how can you suffer? If you know that it seems like there is a free will, how can you be a victim?

@Roch This is good, it means you are conscious of what causes you feeling bad about yourself. Now, dive in there instead of running away. Get head on with your emotions. Don't fight, just question and observe, then let go.

It's been the most dependable thing so far, so yes. Then where should the answer come from? Mind is a distinction.

@Paul92 Yes, death chooses when it's time for you to die.

This is the thought, it's a thought about the Absolute. To me it's just a thought, I haven't experienced it. And no, I can't trust anything at all. What is trust to begin with?

@Paul92 It's not the ego who decides to die. It's death that chooses you to kill.

Ego-death.

@Paul92 You don't know what you're missing, nothing is pointless, nothing is meaningless, and nothing is arbitrary. All of this is happening for 'you', don't believe me, just wait and see, and don't give up on life. The best part of the movie is the conclusion