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@ColeMC01 I leave you with some remarks: Everyone has intrinsic value. Do not rate people and put a label on them. Do not ask yourself if she can make you happy. Happiness comes from the inside. Ask yourself what do you like about her, instead. side note: consider both the personality and the body. side side note: Do not feel a shallow person just because you desire a hot woman, it's completely natural (just take into account also what you can "bring to the table").

Love this one ❤

Yes, I agree. Of course, I didn't mean to compare an online friendship to a real face to face friendship.

In a sense, aren't we all friends on this forum? I mean, we dedicate our time to each other, we are willing to give support as better as we can, we ask for help and advice when we have issues or when we just need to let off steam and be understood. Where I live, those traits are called friendship.

@ivory I agree. All I can say is that I'm really happy with the friendships I got. They are quite a lot and they come from various perspectives and points of view. Then of course I don't have time to hang out with all of them but I just connect with the closest ones.

I mean, I hope that people who know having STD will tell you... To be honest, I've never asked directly because I date a certain kind of girl, but you never know unless both of you have done the test recently. Use condoms, of course. It's not 100% sure but at least you reduce the risks.

I understand english quite well, but since I can't move to other countries, I never have the opportunity to actually speak and practice it. I noticed that if a tourist asks me for directions or stuff I really struggle to structure a fast and fluid response.

The "procedure" depends on the culture where you live and on your age, however, it is not so structured as you may think. I've had some one night stands, thanks to a proper logistic (that's fundamental), but I've had sex after 5 or 6 dates as well. There isn't a clear path, the important thing is keeping a "flirty" mindset, I mean funny and a little provocative, in order to avoid friendzone.

@SamC Bro, It is not going to be easy, but I'm sure you can do it ?

Thank you Leo, I really appreciate it. I'm also quite surprised to know we hear the same kind of music (especially chillout)

Ahahaha I never get mad, in fact... That's why I'm perfect ?

@Thestarguitarist14 Man, It seems I offended you somehow. Not in my intention anyway. As far as I can see, people in this forum are quite genuine and helpful. Don't get mad at them like that.

I didn't get who you are trying to convince here, me?

Not such a great discovery, I mean, if you have your shit together of course you are more likely to succeed with girls. Either you approach them or not.

I'm 22 years old and I have a healthy life: I sleep at least 8 hours per night, I'm a fit guy, I workout daily, no alcohol, no smoking, etc... But I really struggle with sleepiness after lunch. As soon as I finish eating, it's as if my brain shuts down for a couple of hours. This problem is becoming quite limiting lately. I've just started a Master's at university and I have lectures from Monday to Friday both in the morning and in the afternoon. I don't have time for the afternoon nap (as I used to) and, on the contrary, I need to be focused. I follow the lectures after lunch, but since I can't stay concentrated it's as if I didn't follow anything. My brain is so foggy that it cannot absorb any information.

Beyond the concepts of bad and nice guy, just focus on hanging out and having fun. In the beginning, I suggest to avoid heavy topics (such as politics, religion, serious emotional stuff, etc..) and don't invest too much time, energy and money on a girl. You can do it later.

It happened last night. I was going to have sex with a girl in my car, we were very involved, we had nice foreplay and so on, but... As far as I put the condom on, I lose my erection. She didn't put pressure on me, but anyway, I basically couldn't get it hard anymore (I mean, not as strong as required). I had this problem in the past and with a bit of patience I overcame it (or I thought I did), but now here we are again. Actually, I'm not experienced doing it in a car, in fact, I was quite unsure inside ? A bad row to hoe for my self-esteem ahaha Is it normal to have this kind of problem even after have slept with about ten girls? I'm 22 by the way.

If I said no then I would be justified, right? But sadly the answer is "yes, I have" ahahah

Zero ahaha I don't take coffee even if I was tempted to try, but I guess it would be just a temporary solution. At some point, the body will get used to it, so I'll still have my brain fog plus an addiction to caffeine. Right? ?

I've never been addicted to masturbation, even in puberty I used to jerk off 2 or 3 times a week at most. Now (I'm 22) I don't jerk off anymore. Just get some random sex when it happends and I'm fine with that.

I don't know exactly, but the most influencing food is pasta and carbs in general, I guess. I'll try to substitute them with some vegetables. I already do cardio and I'm not involved in porn, videogames, social media, etc... I think the problem is in the diet. Is keto diet also good for who does weight lifting at the gym? Unfortunately yes, I do. The problem is that, due to my workout, I need to eat a lot during the day.

Thank you @nistake Can you explain the intermittent fasting to me? ?

Actually no, I was trying to be funny...? Happy to see you back anyway ?

*and having nothing to say (I would add ahaha)

Ahahaha I love this guy