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@Judy2 Feel free to pm @vindicated erudite im assuming you are saying that social circle is better to get girls if so then thinking that way its better lets say but its not for personal growth which i put beyond girls...

@vindicated erudite In growing not even comparable..

Good man makes a good woman, shes in a long run reflextion of a man...

@Chives99 Ofcourse im selfish just like you ;),my job is to do what im set up to do, its not my job to care if shes gonna give me attention or not,im allowed to apporach, shes allowed to say no...but this attitude like omg shes so precious that i need to take care of her before myself is weak,and saying good luck having girlfriend: i would rather have my rights to put my needs and what i want first ,than to put her above me and do things for her just so she can be with me jikes ?

@Chives99 Why do you care about what she wants and not what you want...do you see you just made her more important than yourself?

You think like a female,you care too much about everyone but yourself... Its all about influence,impact,direction and thinking like this,how are you doing it in social setting, i dont get it...waiting for it to fall into place by situational happening? Im attacking the mentality because i dont get it so want an explanation...

@koyadr3 I see basically every point that you lacking, its not something shallow its deep rooted and it impacts every part of your life not just dating...but to answer it all here will take like 10 hours ?

Wow there is so much to unpack here ... im overwhelmed here and not even in your shoes ?

There are many points ,but main point that drives all others of being a good man is :being in control and influence of himself, not being influenced and controled by outside forces...from there comes understanding of yourself your path etc. This is a deeper topic of its own, its not just the normie advice control your emotions and yourself ,you dont have foundation for it , so in the end it will turn into passive agression and boiled up emotions etc.

@supremeyingyang Iq tests in my opinion just shows how good you are at solving iq tests, life is not that simple that iq tests will determine how you gonna go in it...

@supremeyingyang Yeah actually smart person rejects Iq tests, because for them is just braging rights that they see as stupid....

@supremeyingyang Because that individual is not looking at society or someone else to guide or show him who he is ,hes on his own. He is not following norms... thats the difference between alfa male(top dog but follows social norms hyearchy) and sigma(also alfa type that creates his own thing to follow)

Because you dont know yourself

Yeah,dont do things you dont want to do, just to get resaults thats a losing mentality...

Not even a sigma if you need test to say you are some type of man...the irony ?

@Something Funny Yeah you are bullshiting yourself ,because you dont make anything a problem because you are the problem, same thing also you trying to not masturbate thinking you are growing you really not, its for self development noobies starting out..it wont turn you into a man or something...nobody is forsing you to do it and calling it an addiction is bs, because you are choosing to spent all that time on it...

Bottom line is you are the problem from not consuming porn responsibly like anything else...

Congratulations you got saved by a friend!

If you come with that kind of judgment from the title no wonder...

@something_else You both have a low self esteem and would drag eachother down..

Why being friend with a loser?

@StarStruck You dont know what game is, your game is weak so you cant handle it ,you think shes valuable because she looks good sign of a weak game...Game fixes everything

Learn Game

@Leo Gura Ohh now i get it its totally different angle than i was looking at,that's how i was acting as a kid you love yourself but you want everyone else to love you to, if not you are mean to them.

@Jannes There is so much confusion here,why are you going with her on this "dates",why would she be explicit when shes getting free attention and you probably buying her stuff,its you not knowing what you are doing and making stuff happen then blaming her for that...you are like playing hope game...