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@Emrie It doesnt have to be compatible like it fits like a glove, it has to be compatible with you, so you can show her you and see if she digs it ,thats the whole point of a date...

@flowboy Great thanks! If you are not on brink of dying with someone its not memorable ?

Try not to post just the link video, give descriptions and value to discussion orherwise its like spam threads...

@flowboy do i need to go through navy seal program for frozen date idea, to not get hypothermia or how does that work ?

I mean you need to know deeper why you taking them there, where is it leading to, its not just picking idea and just go with it randomly hoping for the best...its more how you gonna present the experience of you in those situations mybe escape room is best to show who you are mybe its really bad idea etc.

@Emerald Interesting thing is that this post(statistics) is exactly that! feeding you fear so you can keep getting stuck and listen to the content that further put you down in a hole, rather to elevate and break free from it,all that ego is doing is taking information and then using it againts you,when for example approaching a woman to feel fear(thinking its helping you, because you heard on an internet women are bad and you should stay awy from them)..but its only helping to keep you stuck..

@flowboy Amen ?

By having your own opinion about yourself above others... i mean thats what game is for...

Gaslighting is making you think that what you are experiencing, saying,doing is not real while it is, blaming is when they saying things based on things you really did do, not trying to change the experience if that makes sense...but the goal is the same from the one whos doing it,consequences are psychologically different on the reciver...

@AJBrew Best part is that only you need to realize it, society can do what society does...

First you need to reasses your friends. Second guy is really insecure and afraid, thats why in this context he attacked you, that is unpleasent but also could a sign you doing good...

I dont get why "main character syndrom" is looked as bad its a progress in conciousness there are nuances to things....

@something_else Simping behaviour ? manipulation and tricking,i dont like pick up theory its not game

I dont understand how can you be with someone that you just sleeping with romantic? That just shows you are manipulator, you do things for girls to sleep with ,your whole mindset is losing from beggining, dont sell yourself like that... To me that sounds like :do i have to put a ring on her finger to be my girlfriend ...

@AJBrew There is only a need to be more awesome you,there is no need somewhere outside,so everything you doing is immidietly winning and is not determined by some kind of resault...

When understood that you can only do the action for the sake of action, without expectation of the end resault(which is a distraction) you know the response is not up to you,expectation before action kills the interaction...

When are you guys start to become men and stop looking what other men are doing and study yourself, its honestly ridicioulous...?

As far as i know asexual gets aroused only if hes in emotional attachment with someone.... I have few points on the list but im not asexual...

@Vrubel i dont get the point you are making ,like there should be no wars no world hunger but its happening and here is the forum to get the info...

@Vrubel Its natural for people to bully you if you show any kind of weakness they will attack its super normal...if hes in a process it will happen...

Yeah i know that it sucks...mind is making sure for you to stay in comfort zone and not ever do that again or soon after...if you are grateful for the good moments you had and keep answering to that negative voice with i dont care,i did what i wanted to do, no regrets it will slowly stop... There is a whole process beforehand(the nights out) to keep destroying the negative expectations and replacing with what you gonna do and say etc.with no expectations..

@mr_engineer it self destructed because you were doing it for her and not 100% yourself, thats why everything self destruct if you are not doing it for yourself but to get her (here her approval or something). Real asshole do it for himself and it doesnt self destruct and it works..

@CARDOZZO Nice post ?

@Myioko ??

@Myioko elaborate what you trying to say?