NoSelfSelf

Precisely why you are needy,insecure is because you give up on yourself and look somewhere else to satisy you,precisely because you dont know yourself and dont have a strong sense of identity you are lost and dont have game... The same part of the ego that makes you insecure because you give up on yourself is the same one writing this thread to keep you stuck... This thread is like digging dipper into your own hole...feeding that part of mind to go deeper next time.. How can you work on yourself in this way ?

@StarStruck Thats an amazing paradox, how can you be in a frame when you are mesmerized by her beauty,she owns you in that moment you are done from that point on,depending on her to have mercy on you...

@Ulax Its more than a pick up routine its a way of life...its something that makes me feel alive,grateful and ready to express everything i am in every moment,my universe is so wast and i made everything for myself to enjoy, then in the end make some room for you to be the part of that wastness that i am! so take my number if you are ready to come on that ride with me ;)... ?

You need to learn the technique to lean into the tension by relaxing yourself during tension .. You are not accepting things you are judging and rejecting...

Asking did it work revealed you...

@TreyMoney To help you not rot your mind and dig yourself bigger and bigger hole of pity ,then yeah its annoying in that way...

Do yourself a favour and dont even start thank me later...

@Schizophonia Simplest way to say it is: shes only thing that hes thinking about,since its too soon he wont be making best decisions and moves..hes clouded by the emotions that will make him weak, because he will make her the priority and putting her above him which will resault in what he fears...

You need to be subtle about this stuff and no self promotion...

You already lost.

There are many types of enlightment and how it manifestes, i think Leo has the episode about it...

@BlessedLion That's a disrespect,you helped me now,if that happens to me ill say : "oh guys ill leave you 2 together saw this sexy woman ,im going to talk to have fun cya ? Also having alternative date or place to go so in any moment you can just cancle this date if shes disrespectful like that...

@Antor8188 I dont see where is game here, its just girls wishing to grind and kiss, i dont see you making moves and organizing stuff for yourself or you leaving the most important parts out.. If you gonna dance you need to work on your dancing game... You are doing things thats great! and rest i dont see, what are you doing to critique it... It seems you are reaction off the enviroment not in your own game and just hoping something will happen mybe im wrong...

@Antor8188 thanks!

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Putting complete authority and guidence in your hands, to make the best life completely tailored to you....to get to that point you need to get rid of the group think,authority,following leaders...brutal self honesty,openmindendness,willingless to learn and listen without following.. Only then you can truly get the power and knowledge on who you are,with thinking and growing in your unique direction that is different than anbody on the planet,so nobody can help you here you are on your own! If you dont know you, in such a depth like a 1000 page book on some topic..you are no near knowing what best life is for you... If you giving general principles without this foundational principles i listed...then you are exactly in a group think, because for somebody something bad could be great and vice versa, nobody can say it but you...if you follow principles not made by you(tailored by your own design) also you are losing immidietly...

You need to hit her with video messages of you,voice messages of you,picture messages,texts...from all angles...to move her where you want it to go...

@Noahsteelers34 Nice one! Second step is now replaying in your mind in what way you want to talk to her, what did you do good and what you didnt then change it for yourself..again just doing it... Beware where is your focus was it on her looks and how cute it is or your action on what you have to do and just doing it... Game is basically like opening the door, you dont have emotional reaction opening the door you just doing it... Same with girls you just speak the way you want to speak and doing it just like opening door... You know how to open door ,how much pressure to apply, what angle to push thats being gamed up... Now you need that with girls...

@PenguinPablo This happend to you atm ??? ?

@UnbornTao Its so simple it cant possibly work !

You actually dont want to talk to them you just dont even know it...at one point you decided to talk to woman but years before that you have all the experiences and reason to not do it, cant be erased with just one decision... Your mind is trying to help you not to speak to women by "self sabotaging" you... Simple solution just do it

@LordFall im motivated by me and what im going to do for myself to grow myself...

First exercise is to see where your attention is going and on what, just observe as cliche as it sounds...

Weak ones are motivated by women and make it all about women..

There is no blockages when you are one with yourself! Now you are pulled by outside forces by your programing your past experiences... You actually want to block yourself but you dont even know it! Thats why game is about becoming one with yourself, where everything you do and think is your original thinking and now its enviroments thinking,girls thinking,expectations etc. All mixed up to create coctail of emotions...when you are connected to yourself there are no emotions its just your intentions your ways etc. its incredible how it works if your attention is outside you are having emotions if its by you there is no emotions of blockages..