NoSelfSelf

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  1. @gleb You are programmed with a virus that believes that she holds key to your happiness,to your worth as a man,if she leaves it means you are not good enough so you walk on eggshells so she doesnt leave you.What a bunch of bs,you manipulating so you fit into what you think you need to be for her as a man.Man doesnt act like that.He doesnt care if she leaves or not,he is fully himself why? because it pleases him not her and he if focused on her more than yourself then you are not in position to give her value but to live in reality that you need to be something for her,please her so you can get validated because you dont see that you are more important than any of women you can come across why? Because you are the value,the experience,the leadership,the pleasure.... Stop caring if shes gonna leave,stop caring if you win,stop caring what she thinks,stop care in general in life thats first step to get out of this hell... That's freedom,that's power!
  2. One reason is it increases metabolism so you dont get fat tissue that resaults in clogged arteries that could cause heart attack and other disieses.. Second reason: being weak,restricted makes you more prone to injuries and back pain that reduces life quality. Third reason: it makes you look younger through releasing waste with sweating, that's why saunas are great because it could fight the waste inside that causes alot of disieses including alzhemier later in life... Fourth example:Exercise increases blood flow that helps with overall mood and fighting stress whit more stress the more you age and potentially it could be lethal... Fifth example:is not directly helping but it helps you survive to climb thing,push off things,run away etc. Sixth example: with age if you dont exercise you start to lose muscle so in old age you are more prone to bone breaks... With exercising muscles are hitting your bones and with time makes them stronger...
  3. Dude she was thinking about fucking you and you went into all this unnecessary arguments ?... Learn positioning you could transition that talk to move it to the bedroom but you dont have game ?
  4. @Amit You are lying to yourself so there cant be trust...
  5. @Amit The part of mind that is making you being needy is also making you consume content to fill you with all kinds of ideologies on how the women are the problem and its you,no matter the culture...real issue is your mind lying to you that there is a reason outside of you that causes you to look so it doesnt change.. If you dont know what part im saying that voice that tells you im not good enough etc. I dont know bigger picture but of what happened in relationship, but how you worship women and talk about women as the problem its enough info that you are the one causing the breakup ..
  6. @Amit I dont know, therapist after assesment should give you the program,but ill start research cognitive therapy because i heared positive stuff about it...
  7. @Amit That's heavy stuff then therapy first,relationship second...
  8. @Amit Why are women so special for this kind of agony?
  9. @Princess Arabia My point is cause needs to be you not the quote,if cause is the quote then contemplating it from that position will not lead to further growth..there is layers and levels to what in saying so it can come out weird...
  10. @Princess Arabia True,but then if you only start contemplating when feeling inspired you wont go far,inspired you should be already long before reading, was my point...
  11. @Enlightement Well i just wrote you the answer in previous post but because you dont have skill in that regard ill feed spoon you(like that expression ?) As a young adult i was always looking that 2 books,2 authors etc need to agree on so i can say im closer to the truth which is not the case. Precisely 2 things contradict because there is not one way,one fit 99% of the time ,there is information someone gives you like quote in this situation and if you dont work on trying,contepleting,implementing it in your life you will always look for information for someone to tell you how to think and be... You are basically looking for someone to guide you to your happiness and wellbeing and they will never be able to do it thats why all self help books,video you watched worked so little that you dont see the changes you need because its on you if you want to be peacful and how you want to be peacful coming with your own philosophy how to be peacful or you will just follow the version of peace from one person and how it worked for them... This is true with enlightment there is no 1 version of enlightment and it doesnt fit every way to all.. Scientific minded people are looking for one way for all which again i dont see that they will find on every level... Because i gave you the answer,it wont work because you havent worked it yourself ,thats why zen works in riddles...
  12. @nhoktinvt Elaborate, because im selective to who i invest time in so i could seem as not friendly at all...
  13. @Enlightement You asking that queastion is part of the problem because nobody can tell you how to use them,quotes have wisdom in them then you need to think alot on how can you change your thinking,behave differently,look at the world differently,using it in practical way it all depends on how you want to use it... You can read Sun tzu quote, on art and war , you see that you can use the principle in quote in some situation in business or dating ,but its on you how to see it ,how to use it, where to use it...
  14. If they make you think and you come up with a way to implement it in your life, then obv yes... If you read them just to feel inspired then no...
  15. Game teaches that you look beyond looks and sex so i would disagree,if your intent is to have only sex with a girl then you failed the game... If you look game from surface level ofcourse looks=making you influenced to be better version of yourself but deeper game=influencing yourself not basing around her looks and sex... But if you want surface level then you are right...
  16. @StarStruck Coaches that worth something are either so busy ,or they coach only great talents so you cant get to them easily,you need to pass the test to even be coached by them. Talent is needed if you want to be on top in sports if we take that for example, for many things talent is not needed many other factors needed...sports is special in that regard.But ofcourse without talent you can come on top(you have talent in being so mentaly strong for example) so i hate when that is used as an excuse... Being your own coach is best,i noticed best coaches coach you how to coach yourself,so if they want you to do what they doing only,they not that good...
  17. That's how my swimming coach is also,put in the time and hope you will be a great swimmer if you have natural talent,just like you with years im getting better than anyone in a club(because i swim with my own intention and stuff i work on), but then on a swimming meet there are coaches that explain stuff all the time and their swimmers are way faster than me.So with my contemplation if Micheal Phelps with all talent in the world didnt have one of the best coaches in the world he wouldnt be as good.There must be great leadership coupled with your own thinking to get great.This group programs are bs made for the masses you wont ever get really good with it, if you dont have a true coach who just shows you the way 1on1 and everything is layed down perfectly for you and then you use that to be best you then there is a chance you will be great then theres is a big IF.... Coach cant make you great,but great coach will give you a bigger chance to be great, but without great coach you must coach yourself, i cant see myself in 3rd person and dont have decedes of knowledge and experience to do it by myself... I have a chess coach who's little bit better than me,but with chess you can mostly coach yourself with material and courses, but still need guidence to be titled player and way more than 10k hours to become master mybe 50k ? if not talented started from young age...
  18. Like the list would add https://youtube.com/@JuggernautTrainingSystems And book Scientific principles of strenght training worth a read...
  19. @something_else ?? @MarkKol Dude why lying you saying im not unsucessful with girls(idk what that should mean) and saying you unmotivated to talk to Croatian girls im done with internet today ?
  20. Its a gift, sometimes going through challenge is enough reward in itself,the tougher it is the more your smile should form because it becomes that much more meaningful...
  21. @MarkKol Ofcourse when i read something like girls get me purring like a cat i want to come with a tank on you ? you represent Croatia so dont want to hear that.... You purring for girls is reason for creating the American woman and she having an attitude...
  22. @Raze If im attractive in my city what changes if i go to other country?
  23. @Raze So game is how i am attractive to a woman aka demonstrating how valuable i am to her?
  24. @Raze What's a mate value? What is game about?
  25. @Raze That's possible so tell me what game is?