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Rewrite this whole thing, it sounds very low quality,tough to understand any of it. Thanks.

That's rough...spiritual journey sure has its dark moments,its mixed with nihilism, so that is normal on the journey, there is this battle :what is the point of it all ,induced by spiritual thruths and ego backlashes after each ego death. Beware of nihilism as being another trick.If there is no point what is the point of making it a problem. Spiritual journey has dark moments they pass.Sometimes they take weeks...nothing you can do about it. If you havent had over 10 ego backlashes(could be more), you not doing the work properly..

I dont get what other people has to do with you and you also judging them? It shows your level of development, if you are so above them, there wouldnt be judging or caring what they do..big self development trap,bigger than its talked about...you just cant grow truly with that thinking and mind deception...

@Yimpa Yes i didnt know its ADHD, i had explosion of ideas/ thoughts constantly coming in (usually i couldnt root it in reality because it was idealistic)i couldnt concentrate on studies fully,now i have really mild simptoms, which one of them is: when i figure something out ,it forces me to move on to something new / new challenge (which topic starter could have),then i remember ohh its ADHD lets continue in same direction...

Im not saying to you only ,but to all similar topic starters, stop just following if you got bored ,think its not good enough ,start do it yourself, its easy to come here and talk when you are just a consumer ,go deeper than whats presented,go beyond leos understandings on your own ,you cant? Then dont complain... Its like spoiled child that didnt get a ferrari for birthday only bmw ...

@Sugarcoat I get what you mean im the same, you seek that deeper connection that people dont have because they are average with no substance, people here are deeper thinkers than common folk,but i assume you need even deeper than that uncommon among the uncommon people to get that missing part fully ,which you need to position yourself greatly to find...

It could be sign of an ADHD mind...

@Sugarcoat Like the word says you connect with another person through common experience,similar thinking,likes, like you get another person how they are through yourself , then something clicks where you two start to have chemistry where you start to create something(im vague i know)where only you two have ,that person brings something out of you and you out of them,its like a bubble where you two play inside it just flows,like you known that person for long time but it could be only 3 hours... you must have that with someone you are different and elevated self around that person, it could be a sign you connected.. i dont know if this makes any sense...

@Yimpa im curious how did you realize that and what did you do after that?...if its a loaded response i would appreciate it in the dms ?...

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Losing your sense of identity that's what you lack to connect with others, you saying losing it,but im sure you didnt have it strong in the first place because you want to connect with others and not being connected to yourself,people cant connect with you then...based on what?

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I did you basically worship hotness as something special that is going to determin how much you worth or something,too much emotional care for the world,caring about women when she didnt do anything,low self esteem not seeing yourself beautiful(internally),reactive not proactive in general,naive worldview about dating and women,impacted by teachers not yourself i can go on and on... There is alot of stuff packed underneath that ...but main thing you worship hot women because you dont value yourself and if they give you validation you will be valuable so you afraid in that moment to not screw up because you care about her opinions which is all bs..her opinion is the thing that will make it or break you will you be a winner or a man or loser or a weakling... And most importan thing is you cant value yourself because you dont know yourself and you want her opinion of you because you dont have it for yourself, because you not a man influenced by everything but yourself as i said already...

What does being loved do exactly? What does accepted do exactly?

@something_else I can do that when im playing lower rated players but no calculating is always needed out of the opening yes you can blitz moves, but you need to calculate alot still when i get tired and cant calcuate relying only on my intuition that's when losing starts...on the highest level they calculate alwaye expecially when they see critical position they can calculate for 1 minute...no matter how good at chess you are it will never be just intuition mybe if playing 500 points lower rated than you...

@CARDOZZO That makes sense until you say delighted to love, be delighted to love yourself like you love women i dont see where is such a delight coming from...tell me where and why is delight there? I would say i love women like a love pizza nothing more nothing less ?...

@itsadistraction Its a feeling at first then you must back it up with alot of logic... If you make a move just because it feels right then you will not go far as i said. I ignored the topic and just spoke about chess... I hope you play chess to know what im saying...

@CARDOZZO It all makes sense what you saying, but you doing everything based upon how to cater to women,so its dishonest you wouldnt do any of it if you not doing it to get something from women, so its a manipulation and your whole behaviour wont match of a man because he doesnt care what he should be for a woman,rather what he is to express it and see if shes into it or not, if shes not he moves on but with your thinking it creates not loving women actually, because like someone here said they wont meet your expectations so love ends... That's what im getting from this lack of real men making books about dating rather something it will be acceptable for the masses...(again need to read it its my impression)..

@CARDOZZO Mixing teachings in dating is not a good idea like in other categories, sticking to one is best that resonates with you, or similar teachers because its all about creating your own style not having them all...then at some point have to drop all of them to make your own game...

@Tenebroso Yeah im with you on that one, not loving doesnt mean hating its priority thing so both parties benefit in the end...nobody benefits if the focus is loving and not creating from man's perspective...loving is for women... Also havent read the book so i dont get the whole point...

@itsadistraction you should think before you post, i said during the game making moves based on your emotions is sure way to lose...everything has to be backed down by logic including if you have strong intuition about the move... Strongest player on earth sometimes spents 30 min checking if his intuition is right...

@CARDOZZO im openminded to give it a try but reading it to get inspired is where ill draw the line..

Somethins really missing inside this chapter, loving woman with all your heart is bad idea ,you should put that love into building yourself there is no time to love a woman...if it works for you go for it..its not in me... @The Redeemer its all about the man but nobody is talking about it...

@FelinezLooking for tips and your whole foundation is messed up it doesnt work like that, you cant look for a nice rooftop when house can collaps with a single wind...

@Consept then i get what you mean, im 2000 bullet and can tell you all that intuition is many many positions seen and preperations,so intuition is like mind remembering things happening in the past,or you could be a genius where it just comes to you which we are not ?... On higher level they calculate 10 moves in few seconds in bullet, anticipate moves the same way so on higher level calculation in bullet is important..