NoSelfSelf

Point of the game is to find what works for you and understanding why behind what you do. Your mind is messing you over to believe claude has the answers or me no.Your truth tailored to you, not taking someone elses thoughts and putting it in your mind.Its like you looking to put text format into pdf program. When you are student of the game you have ability to craft the mindset for yourself.

There is no rejection, she helped you by saying no ,you didnt have to waste time on her. Its all pushing you towards where you need to be,every "rejection" is redirection. Mindset is its redirection not rejection..

Yeah good catch!narcissist is a grown kid,when im brutally honest here its taken the wrong way, i guess the more brutal truths you can take the less of a boy you are.

I dont see how one can be a man if he is not 100% honest with himself, that's like in top 3 reasons why boys stay boys.

So first thing i see is that you dont have leadership skills (when it comes to relatuonship structure),because you were guided by the emotion and her leading you,by how she felt about you in the moment.That's why its said men are logical because men see things that is not clouded by emotion.What did she do to live with you? Second thing you care more about her than yourself,so she feeling how much you care about her and she didnt do anything for it,then she felt that you are not worthy of her love. She reached out just to use you as an attention, but she was seeing somebody but that person didnt give her attention so she reached out to you.It was great that you told her what to do and her reply should be to not keep pursuing her.But since you love her more than she loves you,you got emotional and start acting like a woman. You feel worthless because you interpit your worthiness by how much loves she gives you, because you dont love yourself which turned her off when she realized that she is the bigger "object" of love than you yourself.Being more like a woman.

You are judging other people and from that judgment you are assesing your worth.Because you havent internalize your worth,then you are a cameleon type of person.

Alternative to not being unique is self hate.This relationship to the masses in the name of selfesness. https://youtube.com/shorts/RY6CajRMeDY?si=O9ss-tB5c93xQTXc

Because its better to live through your lense and in your unique way, than to be a follower and a programmed sheep.If you follow the crowd you will have same experience. You im sure experienced that time when you really wanted something and everyone around you telling you no! thats bad for you etc. Being unique is following your path vs crowds influence. Its independence of thought and actions tailored to you vs dictated by others around you. Its essentially freedom from distractions,influences that tells you how to think and live,so you make space to have your expression and who you are to shine.

I dont get why you so emotional i gave you an insight that flew over your head.

I always go way beyond the surface of whats going on, so if you know yourself great do whatever you want if you dont find my insight helpful just do whatever i dont care at the end of the day.

So i see your point, now you see mine as a product of yours if not watch this video

She will say in her head: " i finally found the one",now stay calm i dont want him to see how much i want his babies, every other guy is identifying with the world dependant he is just different.

So with your logic if i lived on a planet where everyone has alien conciousness and me just basic no mind, then i would identify myself as a spiritual bum basically and my self worth will depend on how much i can shapeshift and following that standard ill be depressed about it, going blackpill because i cant morf into xenomorph ?

This is what im talking about Padowan we all are 😁 Snapinsta.app_video_AQP30WypY0QOsSdoNdNiAeqDGTvWFQh6ThG7Tq42PHR6OSdjOTM3Np5EnMIpsZreF_AOhe_TcaonBSewnv7T_poFLByqH0pbHb2qC-E.mp4 (Link is a clip of star wars)

Then i would be like everybody else that's why im obssesed with game so im being an original so im the creator of my knowledge. I see what you are saying but im working differently. Im my own world and that world is reflection of how i see things its all internal focus for me.

What you are saying applys to all those "weird" threads where when one doesnt know himself because he let the outside world define him, its what you get red pill,black bill,women aint shit,if i was defined by outside world i would hate you right now, but i dont since im the one whos defining me through me creating me.That's exactly what seperates the one with game and one whos looking at women to tell them who they are.So you get fucked up indivividuals. I agree that world shaped me until i recognize i was giving away my power to it not recognizing my power.That's why women love men and not boys who look at the world to define them.

Then that would mean that outside world defines who i am.

Let me put it like this if there is a hamburger or pizza to choose and lets say i want both,then im going to ask myself for what i want,someone who doesnt know himself is asking around about personal stuff to choose.So you dont really know yourself because the whole way you learned yourself is from outside not yourself. And if you know you then you are not asking about this queastion if it makes sense.

@Juan If you know yourself this thread is useless and going for what you truly want ,being decisive is not product of it(being sure of who you are).

Put more context about what golden rule is and the problem in the thread. Doing the same how?

Give more context

Well you should know yourself, i personally dont do friends with women,sure i have woman acquaintance through mutual interest. You dont have standards to lead you. Like my standard is :always get what you want nothing more nothing less,so that tells me i should remove myself from situation, if other person is not up with what i want simple as that. Now you are in situation where your "balls" are on the line ,stay as friends and your "balls" are removed i dont know how to explain it none directly.Even tho you like someone ,they should not dictate how things go down, that's why game is not for everyone.

No you are not worth to follow.

Without suffering in reality there wont be seeking for better life,improving,satisfying your love for things. Whole point of having exciting life is to minimize suffering.But suffering is needed to have excitment and life worth living. If you notice most exciting things have inherit danger and possibility of suffering otherwise it wont be as exciting. You need more nuanced thinking.

1.Ability to listen with an open mind 2. to be able to learn new things(from me expecially) 3. willingness to follow the directions 4.non argumentative/ always looking to outsmart you for the sake of it.(knowing how to have "adult"conversations) 5.playfulness with flirting skills. That would be like first points of attraction for me, the more you know the person and the relationship advances,then there are more points to add.