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@Javfly33 I was right somebody got emotional and started to attack 👍 i guess you truly deconstructed duality between man and a woman. Know it all people are precisely full of ego.

@Israfil What im saying goes way deeper than how you simplisticly put it here so ill drop it...

@Israfil Its a huge difference if what someone does comes from action or reaction. It could also mean that at that moment you are in reaction and she goes into action.

@Israfil 1.Thinking that a man thinks in a weird resentful way towards a woman, or look towards a woman to now determine if he should do this(be toxic) or not he doesnt do that.He acts according to his own principles if they are toxic then he will have a reason and the reason is not a woman. 2.Man doesnt comes to absolute conclusions about anything outside of him because he is working internal for himself ,so he can only talk in absolutes about himself,with this comes alot of deceptions and assumptions from feminine guys like you hear :oh she must have a boyfriend i wont approach"thats not how man thinks. 3.Again same principle you dont heal a toxic relationship with women you dont look at women as an object of a problem you see your own toxicity that you choose to fix or not. I can go on but thats basics of what i see with this...you cant say feminism is right or wrong if you never been a man first...

@Princess Arabia Okay Princess Police ill move this to the off topic section, so you guys can talk how you admire the face,since thats best thing to spent time doing.

You are more feminine guy that's why you support feminism because men mindset is completely different from womens mindset because its not coming from same place.No man cares about feminism or being toxic just because you have a wrong view of whats a man.

How is this gonna make you a better person? this is self development forum not beauty contest.

When you open your mouth and talk they know you are weak,so if you start acting strong and she sees you are weak backlash will come.But somebody needs to see your approach since you could be doing creepy things without knowing.They attack you either because they are rude,they have a bad day or you creep them out with inauthentic approach.

You have one point to get banned, i gave you a free pass dont post this silly threads...

@mmKay my bad i misunderstood the point of the thread.

@mmKay No im serious if you lust over womens beauty you are worshipping them,when you worship them you fear them,they are above you and from there comes the behaviour that you must fit into her narrative ,since you dont see any value in yourself at that point.If she doesnt do anything for you then the beauty is irrelivent.Her beauty shouldnt change anything on who you are. But with talk like this it shows just how much they have power over you.

Conclusion you get scared when you see "attractive" woman.As you wish.

You dont know what game is that's the problem. If you think game is about how to get laid then that's the product of your post.

@DefinitelyNotARobot To give middle finger to the world,other people opinions,outside influencers,teachers and have trust in yourself to do it without letting mind stops you. Its all about seeing that mind is telling you lies and you have to take charge, because if you dont take charge of yourself you will always be in same place with trivial changes. You are programmed to seek answers and teachers outside yourself thats why you lose.

Practice wont come naturally that's why there is so much talk no action.

You answer the queastions 1.Whats my sexual style? 2.Whats my relationship with sex? 3.Am i choosing to watch porn instead of going out? 4.How am i going to express my sexuality am i more romantic or kinky or mix of both? You must answer the queastions,create the solution but if you dont have game its all fruitless, woman will call the shots and porn... Porn is not harmful your mind is.

@Princess Arabia Mostly its just you with yourself 8 hours a day staring at the wall 😂 until like usually at 11pm enlightment experience hit you,cant sleep until 3 in the morning because of rush of energy, that's how i was doing it, im weird. @Asia P 👍

@woohoo123 We are speaking about you here.You have to be active all your life and certently you can be active as 90 year old.My grandma had 90 years she was walking 3 floors upstairs with bunch of clothes ready to dry them.She was phisicaly really capable. Ofcourse its genetic thing, but she was active like that and if you never been active just picking yourself off the floor position is a workout itself ...

Working out is the answer,you lose more and more muscles in old age and your bones can snap by itself,so working out is the answer.I see myself doing some workouts so im not disabled..

I dont know how mix of ocd and adhd works,but my adhd lessened alot with conciousness work, but i went through alot of emotional purging that can suck real bad,you dont know when its going to stop 😅... If you have survival needs a problem then its better to watch practical stuff first this is cliche advice but oh well. Also ill move this to mental health section.

I dont know what advice specifically you need? Only one thing is clear for now, if he is smart he wouldnt agree anything as long as she is a student,he doesnt want to lose his job i hope.. I dont care about age either if she is 18+ since women can be socially mature by default.

Locked for being repetitive.

@Amit You have to understand yourself on deeper level beyond your parents,culture,past experience because that's where the sucess and quality of relationship is,it will always be more about you than the other person. When other person notices you dont know yourself,you dont have internal value of who you are to yourself, then they will take the lead and be in power position naturally. There will always be conditiones, relationship is not based on emotions first.But you dont have your own conditions for her to meet that's the problem...

Almost perfect post,i wouldnt say identity is my parents and my culture tho...

Listening to this guy is like listening to a scientist talking about conciousness.