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Being vurnable is accepting that someone can missuse it but you do it anyway if vurnability was easy then everyone would be vurnable but vurnability is in many cases the strenght not the weakness

How does working on self actualization has to do with masculinity or femininity?

@Samra good you indentified something that has to go away

@aurum Yeah the scary thing is i didnt know i was doing this i thought i had to do better than others in other to be something in some skill its so stupid its like motivation thing that cant work in million years ??

@Michael569 yeah like nice guy syndrome i linked it to the parents and bullies good tips!

I feel the same i think thats because we are going againts the normality so you need more time to figure stuff on your own

@Barry J its not normal read carefully thats not how normal human behaves

Like everything else its ups and downs until it becomes second nature...

@MM1988 she doesnt have interest in you ask her out again (to make sure) when she contacts you if she says no then go after other girl...giving exuse saying i have something else to do is bs to make sure say mybe we could do it another time then stay quiet when she says when shes free make a date...

@MM1988 the thing is when she texts you (like what are you doing etc) thats indicator for you that she wants to see you so you set a definite date no mybe or we will see..shes suppose to be vague not direct if she accept your invite shes interested over 50% then on a date its having fun and eventually after 3 date hooking up and repeat the process...and let her come to you repeat the process

@MM1988 Some people has it some dont some own their musculanity some dont some were raised by both parents,and some have to learn it or they mess up many times and figure it out or most commonly they settle for less than they want and they make everything right then, when you dont like somone like crazy you will do many stuff good so it works.

@MM1988 you need to be more specific with example does that happen after first date what did you do on a date (what mistakes that you did)

@MM1988 Not really you think taking action will make her want you thats an llusion love is giving other space to come to you as they pleases ofcourse you lead on a date and everything else thats another thing trap is trying to pursue or taking unnecessary action so she likes you more...

@MM1988 you get the number set a date then after that your pursuit is over then you wait for her to contact you and on a date you wait her sign when its ready to touch

The thing is you only pursue little in the beggining then let her pursue you showing interest directly kills attraction girls are attracted to men hows feeling are unclear...

@bejapuskas i know there are people like that thats what im trying to say you cant do it right now its like you try to compete or be like an olympic athlete but you only started or you workout just 2 3 years

@Shakazulu yes improve but not take it too soon(big jumps) trying to get resaults too quickly will only hurt you

@Shakazulu im not saying its not possible but if you are begginer meditator or even advanced you are way over your head thinking you can meditate for 90 hours prove me wrong tho...

It will take you years of meditation to even meditate for 8 hours in one sitting

Let us know if it stays or the ego will sneak back in

@SageModeAustin i did didnt get much from it

@SageModeAustin you mean the book of five rings?

Virginity thing is so lame construct of the society to boost its ego and shame others...

I love that guy

Poor guy ??