NoSelfSelf

@Parki Stop believing that you exist,what you are is thought..they have other problems...

Rid of the person who has social anxiety

isnt negative stoic visualization when you imagine that some things could be worse than it is or to be grateful you imagine you lost your house but you didnt and you work to get it something like that?

@MM1988 There are so many things that could go wrong its not like you visualize few times and it will happen but you should not see that as suffering you went for what you want thats great man!

@martin_malin ironically when you dont step back and see how actually good you are you wont be able to get better in long run,do you mybe when someone is better than you want to either neurotically try to fight him back or say fuck this game,not being focused?

Because you dont really think you are good so when someone comes there is possibility that will come out on the open,someone that knows his worth and where he stands and what he can do dont hate competitors they dont see a competition im "working" on this too...

Stage purple hes the tribe leader ????

@Shin but that 4k will show how you are an expert in self help not just another dude that likes to fart ?

@Shin soon 4k posts arent you getting exited?

Shit got real in here ...??

@EmendareIgni Yeah i think its linked to self asteem so it could help but i dont think it would get rid of it completely

Today i found i have this and able to let it go 50% is anyone familiar with it its really something that makes your life not loving, caring Edit:This could be stage orange core or trap ? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superiority_complex

@riplo ohh you want to figure out more about a feminine side?

@Leo Gura Is there a way to know whats best for us,they make these books like everyone is the same...

Being vurnable is accepting that someone can missuse it but you do it anyway if vurnability was easy then everyone would be vurnable but vurnability is in many cases the strenght not the weakness

How does working on self actualization has to do with masculinity or femininity?

@Samra good you indentified something that has to go away

@aurum Yeah the scary thing is i didnt know i was doing this i thought i had to do better than others in other to be something in some skill its so stupid its like motivation thing that cant work in million years ??

@Michael569 yeah like nice guy syndrome i linked it to the parents and bullies good tips!

I feel the same i think thats because we are going againts the normality so you need more time to figure stuff on your own

@Barry J its not normal read carefully thats not how normal human behaves

Like everything else its ups and downs until it becomes second nature...

@MM1988 she doesnt have interest in you ask her out again (to make sure) when she contacts you if she says no then go after other girl...giving exuse saying i have something else to do is bs to make sure say mybe we could do it another time then stay quiet when she says when shes free make a date...

@MM1988 the thing is when she texts you (like what are you doing etc) thats indicator for you that she wants to see you so you set a definite date no mybe or we will see..shes suppose to be vague not direct if she accept your invite shes interested over 50% then on a date its having fun and eventually after 3 date hooking up and repeat the process...and let her come to you repeat the process

@MM1988 Some people has it some dont some own their musculanity some dont some were raised by both parents,and some have to learn it or they mess up many times and figure it out or most commonly they settle for less than they want and they make everything right then, when you dont like somone like crazy you will do many stuff good so it works.