NoSelfSelf

Non duality is not a paradigm it "happens" when is realization of illusion vs reality..

understanding-experience-repetition...

Hands down self inquiry helps best if its done every day..but keep meditation and shamanic breathing works good but self inquiry when you are trying tofigure out who you are in the present moment is best i found...

Problem is lack of vision for your life what inspire you what motivates you what do you enjoy i have this pointless thing also because why struggle when it doesnt make you happy well do things you love but expect also that it will suck and thats the place you will grow in those things you love....

What are the places,moments,activites you done so far that opened up new opportunities made your life better opened you up for new changes new paths new wisdom etc.sharing exact experiences would be nice too tnx

@Sahil Pandit really? I heared you can come back i always had some crazy lucid dreams in one i was a serial killer ? how would you interpet that?

@Sahil Pandit how does lucid dreaming show you part of your psyche exactly how do you interpet it correctly

Its embrace the suck attitude

@Amanaki Great job tnx for sharing!

@Amanaki Nice,do you find yourself more or less effective as before?

@Sahil Pandit @Hellspeed @okulele @Amanaki can you guys elaborate in which way those experiences made your life richer and give you what understanding?

If you are confident about yourself you wont get irritated with those queastions you show them you dont take yourself seriously...they could test how you react and how far they can go with you do you set the bounderies?

Your meditation is working in my opinion i had that pain in center of the eyebrow aswell....it suppose to be like that like when you had strong leg workout you cant walk and feel groggy 2 days after...but im not that experienced meditator i find self inquiry works best for me hope someone tells you more about it..

Thats cheating and you are not in love with your husband only you can decide if its ok whos to judge?

@eduardoe i think its wrong to be with someone you dont desire...only if you trying to built skill which i think you dont...

@LessonsSavesLifes i like your post ?

@eduardoe If shes amazing then you wouldnt care about her looks ...shes not amazing enough for you...if you care about looks like most of the guys you should find someone who has looks and its amazing person so there is no doubt...if she doesnt turn you on then its a problem..

If shes not attractive to you then shes not amazing in your eyes thats just phantasy you created so you dont have to look for the amazing one

Wrong.white background is you ?

This queastion is total stupidity why wait death or whatever when your life is affected by suffering now ?

By becoming a helthy man yourself and becoming a catch yourself...

It eliminates thoughts you are coming more from doing,having to just being

Its not bad ...game wins in the end of the day but being taller helps..so it matters if your game sucks but doesnt if its great

@Viking everything is a thought(s) its like you lack something you are denying yourself so you try to replace it with food etc just assuming

@Viking then its like an emotion some thoughts triggers it there is your problem to inquiry...