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@Alex14 idealy you should have kissed her at the end to see if everything went great and find you sexualy attractive(but nevermind) you are needy if you think you will mess up if you see her and what she will think when she sees you...if you see her act normal and do what you came to do(girl should not put you off your purpose but they will try)

If you can see that everything is a product of your imagination illusion will dissappear.... Everything that is going on around you people,happenings,things you do is product of your mind but we dont see it because it happens right in the moment of the thing happening so we confuse the thing happening with our imagination its subtle... You can see this when you think about someone you can see that everything about that person is going inside your mind you created picture assumptions where you stand with that person all imagionary... 99% people know this intellectualy but when you see it you will see that everything that was happening to you in your life is work of your imagination....

I read in auto rejection topic a great thing you are afraid of losing status(mainly the one you constructed in your mind) and you avoid losing it,avoiding to be vurnable or comitting because it could make your value drop with rejection,self worth drop thats what ego needs(to save it)...

@Hellspeed how is breathing done how then you influence other?

@Alex14 See now you know she likes you...i hope you planned everything be a leader....let her talk laugh built a comfort..no never focus on 1 girl just dont let her see it until she says she wants to be exclusive.

How can one do energy work safetly and what are the possibilities with energy work?

@Alex14 Well you tell her you want to see her outside of school when shes free?...then see her reaction...dont speak until.she says the day...more she hesitate and gives excuses it means low interest when she suggests the day you press for specific time and place...again wait...it has to be definite date no ill see or call you if she says i dont know you say ok we can do it another time(you give her another chance to come in) if she says ok then ask her out next week if she still cant its done....if you get the place day and hour you are good to go....she has interest

@Alex14 i think i told you already how to ask her out (securing a definite date)

Wow thats a great article has lots of good info...you wont know if someone likes you if you dont ask them out...one girl gave me many good signs when i asked her out she said no...edit:now i see it was too late she closed off

@Truth Addict Feeling of hunger is there thats all everything else saying im hungry i need to eat to survive etc is imagination...last one is true statement...

@Truth Addict like what?

Make a deep understanding of whats hes going through and make him feel understood worst thing about mental health problems when people dont understand and dont want to(people with such problems) so they feel alone and want a way out..

First year of daily self inquiry i didnt know where to look even...i always had enlightement experiences on the end of the day while inquiring for 7 8 hours ?? fetus position with suicidal thoughts ? nothing new cuz its just higher anxiety that was normal daily occurence...you are here alone and has to push through i have no advice

Mybe because you were hesitant to ask her out right away was there a mixed signals? Is she like that with everyone? You are feeling stupid cuz you thought it was something there but it wasnt...why would you want someone that doesnt want you back?

And it feels very lovely to live like a slave from others opinions?

@Joseph Maynor No its a recognition that you see yourself and recognize that you are that and got hypnotized believing that you are something else by your mind (thats what direct experience is in a nutshell)

@Joseph Maynor No you is a thought...yeah being recognizes itself and see itself

@Joseph Maynor yeah you can stay in no mind or play with constructing its still important cuz it affects your body how will behave and what will do but still you know its doing it by itself...

@Joseph Maynor Yeah thats true mind makes everything meanings, labels realities other people stories birthdays etc. You are living other peoples minds meanings and live in your own mind meaning...there is still mind after you awake but you will see its illusions and you will see that is necessery to construct meanings for some things why not its easier to navigate...

@Joseph Maynor there is no meaning we make meanings like everything else its all made up and it becomes real if we believe in it and jas many others that believe in it...you can just be and create meaning at the same time there is no conflict i can make meaning and find evidence about it make other believes it and it will become true thats why religion works for some for some not

Why cant you see there is no meaning and make a meaning in the same time?

Because of lack of interest in another person do you cant think what to talk about with your best friend? No you are geniuly curious about whats going on in his life ...

@Viking happy off meaning what do you mean?

Everything is meaningless is true but not from perspective of ego mind...ego can make all sorts of meanings but they will never be 100% because its not real its changable you can adjust meanings you can do anything and your mind made another thing that it has to be 100% to make it not concrete because thats what mind does its never 100% anything... one day its like this another its like that...one minute i want this another i dont...

Regarding your title thats not life thats projection of your mind giving meaning to the circumstances...what do you mean let down by every partner?