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@integral yes exactly this narrative that you need to earn and prove yourself to women is total bs and a turn off...

@Preety_India Yes that a fact not being upset by a rejection and go where you are wanted...

@StarStruck Its ok all a learning process,you never let things open you need to be decisive and assertive(mybe that what shitest was for)... after that text you sent you want her to come to you when she feels better so you just wait and do your stuff not worrying if she will text if she doesnt text in 3,4 days you text her with your sheldule,if it happens again you either press for date or set up another by saying ok we could do it another time i checked my sheldule im free at this time is that okay with you..?

@StarStruck She didnt reject the date she wanted you to say dont worry ill cheer you up no problem meet you in that spot we planned...mybe its a shittest it sounds to me it is...

@Preety_India that's not whats being communicated... if he loved himself more than her and not trying to earn her and be best self and if she want him ok if she dont ok...all this advice women give is for their benefit and turning guys into beta...his mom did it now hes suffering...

Text as little as possible if shes aggresive exchange few texts and set up a date... Did you set up another time then? Did she give you date and time easily?

Hahahah this is pure comedy,you cant make this stuff up ??

Small burst of improvement are always better its a marathon...

Did you try a book becoming a supple leopard by dr.Kelly Starett?

My mom went to a hypnotis and quit smoking it was tough but she managed...

Love is free if she finds someone else expecially if shes attractive she will have many guys throwing at her so be it...this is controversial you should expect her entertain other guys if you find out in her vibe shes different have take it or leave it attitude...this is all easier said than done thats why we do spirituality

Yeah counterintuitive is to accept the way you are before you can change in more effective ways

If the girl is focus of your life it wont work in a long run

Why would it matter if they saw you as creep or whatever if you are truly confident you should know yourself and it doesnt matter what they say/think as much it cliche sounds ,and preaching love spirituality to people is not a way to go you dont preach or talk to them about truth you just share your spiritual energy with them and if they love it they will ask about it or it will come to conversation organically...loved the talk btw Edit:i think you are not secure in your confidence and spirituality 100% yet

@Andrew John https://www.piedmont.org/living-better/the-health-benefits-of-beer mybe this helps and in moderation ofcourse

Its all about moderation little bit of alchocol is even healthy

Its a practice thing, i used to walk the street and look at someone until he breaks the contact, at first i usually did it first ,now i can stare at someone without care most of the time ?

You got another warning chill for time being

Its misleading people who haven't yet grasped what enlightment is(haven't had their first awakening)..

Case closed

True what i meant is that its a subtle game where you show you want her but not too much its something like she knows that you want her but shes not sure 100% dynamic that's how our psyche works lol...

Asking about bf indicates you want to be one and it loses the mistery and shes working she probably doesnt want to give number she could get fired but congrats on approaches..

I dont know if you are serious or not ?

It think its not wise to quit it all together, i think you should gradully get rid of it because they will have a backlash, you could try to do it less and less and subtitute with other habits, that are more healthy and you enjoy doing, if you love working out or painting you do that more than your unhealthy ones...its an emotional problem that came from abuse try focusing on alot of emotional healing techniques to see how it works...

Its not even wise to get into any type of discussion with people expecially when you see how they think and behave there are exceptions but this is not the one...saying i lost a debate shows you care about stuff that aren't even important (big ego stuff)