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@somegirl For a high value you should be cooperative,submissive,friendly,drama free,no attitude,feminine not showing how you can be more masculine than him, not havin an attitude that your way is best way kind of thing,do you cook, clean or think you beyond it because you have a degree? Do you make things extra difficult or you supportive of his purpose and make sure hes on his path? Then you could be all that but your vibes doesnt show it...Then theres a values thing how many high value guys are interested in spirituality mybe 2%? its a small number you have to deal with...and not sure whats high value for you?

What do you have to offer to a guy? What you said actually doesnt bring anything to a guy,thats the things that girls look for...

Nothing better than living in awaken state you cant compare it to nothing its just all around great state to operate from but if you are half way or close it could look like its not that worth it..

Do you have a life to focus on or shes your life?

@Leo Gura Always wondered what is requered for connection/rapport to be bulit? Usually it happens unconciously but knowing how to bulit it conciously would save alot of time ...dont know where to research that also its always some half baked information...

So they say upfront they want only sex or you assume that from their actions?

@Hello world Do you know how and willing to turn it around you think its possible?

Yes and more you socialize and get better at it you will find people and not everyone has to be high concious in beggining

Understand that hes where hes at in his development the more you do the less you hate and more you come to peace with it.If you cant see it then you lack the understanding

First one was 5 hours felt like 1:30 h this will feel like 2 :30 h ?

Dont try 5-meo as a first psychadelic go with something less powerful..and if you are neurotic you should go with really low doses to avoid bad trips ...someone looking over you is good but if they are experienced... Edit: i see you have panic attack then i would postpone psychadelics and work on basic psychology only if you are working with someone in professional setting go with psychadelics Taking 5meo (i assume never taken) would be a horrible experience in your state(i had panic attacks)

Wheres actualized.org university ?

@blackchair thats like opposite of strong ?

Why didnt you think to be happy for her? it seems that this relationship is like competition or something... Why are you friends with her? Isnt that a terrible position to be? You have your own journey and pace of development mybe shes at 100% already and you are at 10%... Edit:can you point me to detox sources im interested ?

Yeah in my vocabulariy i replaced temperature with energy and would add that you should give yourself temperature thats when you cant have bad night out, knowing what triggers it inside you...

At some point we all have to do this better sooner than later...

I feel you man... you just need one great experience with some people to destroy this belief that there are no people for you...it gets better from there...there are literally millions people for you but you hold yourself to meet them while you think you dont...start seeking people in new places...

@Javfly33 but he said that you have to be real selfish to burn through it to become selfless worst thing you can do is being selfless when you are not up for it...its like selfish /self love then selfless/love for all....

@Javfly33 No.. being bad is also sometimes good its all about timing and right situations its about being integrated being good,bad and all grey in between....

@Javfly33 yeah comes from belief being good will make me the good life, wothout problems...which is further from the truth being good only, wont make you come to your full potential...contemplate whys that the case when you got that and when you see in yourself switch it and push through the resistence...be intentionaly a jerk sometimes...

You give yourself a premission to be it basically...your body will do what necessary to stop you and you dont let it...many problems would just dissapear of people go through those negative resistences...

What do you want from this thread? Any construct criticism ?

Exposing yourself to social gatherings or looking for people online for your area of interest...going through the fear you will find friends more easily than you think now...

Yeah probably good idea to not take substances before you get more centered mind...

Putting too much effort and wanting it to work badly end up hurting you... thats why many guys are detached from catching feelings...it wil take 6 months to completely forget about her peace...