NoSelfSelf

You dont need to say it i dont see why would you tell that...

You are still manipulating while trying to be masculine for a woman she can see that wont work, whole paradigm is bad from the start...

https://youtu.be/5N9xARPfJYY Simple stupid you are not brain because what you are is not material and something thats not attached to anything you are like space...

Because you dont get turned on and off by the womans texting doesnt matter to you girl loves texting and good texts becuase it turns on their emotions thats why they read those romantic books...

@Weltesche because you are asking me about it and ego is important part of getting enlightened only thing that blocks the vision of awareness is ego attachment...

@Chrisd Nobodys talking about it they assume others have same conciousness level to see what they see but their ego will determen how much and how things will be shown to them..

@Weltesche pls quote me and others in replys so i see it...you could go that route but you will go through real hell to change thats why not many do it..getting into higher states makes your suffering less and less and withouth suffering its easier to change your disfunctional ways of beings...

@Weltesche ego can be changed but theres no you to change it program of ego changes with experiences and level of conciousness its really messy process because it fights againts changed...

@Weltesche it does matter what ego you have, having healthy ego(more concious and truthful) oppose to unhealthy(lies,self deceptions,fears) makes it easier for you to observe and see what ego and existence is...

@Weltesche i dont get how it doesnt matter ? ego is responsible for your level of conciousness and in what reality you are living in..i heard it in many places that it doesnt matter...ego must be caught and his power removed before you could see that its an illusion...in my experience if you observe in lower level of conciousness you could see the truth but it wont matter ? In the end it doesnt matter but its too advanced to say just observe imo..

I was going in opposite direction..deconstructing weak ego then making it stronger and the more work i did the more it leaded to awareness...building strong ego is valuing yourself,loving yourself,living authenticly,living your own truth,becoming your number one priority in your head etc...

Self respect for myself would need to be really low to accept this...how much you respect yourself thats how much you gonna tolerate unnecessary things like this...

Whats the context hes bringing that stuff up? I mean thats his problems to fix on his own you cant help him even if you knew what to tell... Its good to be vurnable but not emotional as a man tho... You cant relate because you look at him as someone strong that will take care of situations... You are looking for a man and hes not that and now you trying to force it basically Man doesnt talk emotional and about his wounds to a woman because he knows hes on his own... nobody really cares... he should pick himself up and own his world and others should be looking for his support, hes the one influencing the woman not her influencing the man!

You never ask her if she has a bf thats a weak queastion noone good with girls asks that its like you ask a director of a movie how does the movie end?

Its self sabotage whole psyche how you view yourself is not in aligne with you having sex so extreme anxiety comes to stop it from actualizing... Second problem you dont know yourself and you dont have confidence in yourself because society and gurus telling you how to live your life so you are unsure how to deal in those situations and makes you scared...you could push through it but deep down that confidence issues will be there you having sex or not sex wont fix nothing assuming thats why you desperate to lose virginity...

If you care for being able to defend yourself and people you love or just be a punching bag ?

@Someone here ??

@Someone here See you know what to do but dont do anything for the woman it wont work! Do it for yourself then showing her your life will make her want to have sex 100% but you havent yet started to work on yourself because thats another ball game you are left on your own! no advice from nobody you pulling the strings! Self sufficient...

@Someone here Whole thinking process and who you are is repelling to a woman by the post you just showed us if you cant see it then i cant help you its too much...

You will get married because you are horny cmon dude ? you are so in your feminine that you could get a woman with a foot long beard...

I think sex starts way before actual sex...sexual tension flirting convo should be moving in that direction from the start! its worst when you just have to jump to being sexual out of the blue ..all that "great" chit chat wasnt moving you towards what you want it seems just sex ?

Its cringey because you think other people think its cringey and you dont want that so you hate yourself for doing that...but in the end when you think about it you dont care about it you care what people thought about you and want them to percieve you in some better way..

All is see is no interes from them... And you showing them you dont know what you doing

My point is how can you work on yourself when you actually dont know yourself? You can't!( Here im talking about illusionary self that helps you navigate the world)... There are so much people that ask for advice that doesn't even apply to them.How do you know which path to take?how to think?how to feel ?how to see the world how to eat etc. If you dont have yourself you will become thinking mind of Leo and wonder why you dont improve... If you are not completely focused on your own original thinking of creating your own personal world then you cant improve! You personal world for example how you gonna think about this topic how you gonna behave in this situation? Crazy part is you wont get right experiences to move you to your own personal improvement!! You gonna talk to that girl in the way you think she will like it instead creating your own way to talk to her and then you can get experience to upgrade your way of communicating if you dont have your way you will spin around in circles and become bad versions of who you follow ... It looks simple but check in im sure you will find you dont have yourself you dont know what to do and work on just spinning in circles jumping from one thing to another or its just me ??

@Danioover9000 what are you growing yourself into by doing nofap?