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@Razard86That saying doesnt make sense to me why would someone with game play games ?

@Preety_India i know answer for myself but wanna see other perspective what does man get from her being dependent on him why do you think man needs dependcy from her?

@Preety_India What does a man depend on the woman im curious?

@Razard86 if you see it clearly how would you say where does game begins and ends?

Best thing i read in this whole subforum

@Razard86 its not like you are hiding it from her, like if she finds out its over,you just dont need to tell her stuff that doesnt serve any purpose out of the blue...some stuff she doesnt need to know and some she can find out when time is right...

@Roy exactly!

@Razard86 Mind aswell tell her then that she doesnt exist and that her relationahip with her mother is same as a coffe table ?

You dont need to say it i dont see why would you tell that...

You are still manipulating while trying to be masculine for a woman she can see that wont work, whole paradigm is bad from the start...

https://youtu.be/5N9xARPfJYY Simple stupid you are not brain because what you are is not material and something thats not attached to anything you are like space...

Because you dont get turned on and off by the womans texting doesnt matter to you girl loves texting and good texts becuase it turns on their emotions thats why they read those romantic books...

@Weltesche because you are asking me about it and ego is important part of getting enlightened only thing that blocks the vision of awareness is ego attachment...

@Chrisd Nobodys talking about it they assume others have same conciousness level to see what they see but their ego will determen how much and how things will be shown to them..

@Weltesche pls quote me and others in replys so i see it...you could go that route but you will go through real hell to change thats why not many do it..getting into higher states makes your suffering less and less and withouth suffering its easier to change your disfunctional ways of beings...

@Weltesche ego can be changed but theres no you to change it program of ego changes with experiences and level of conciousness its really messy process because it fights againts changed...

@Weltesche it does matter what ego you have, having healthy ego(more concious and truthful) oppose to unhealthy(lies,self deceptions,fears) makes it easier for you to observe and see what ego and existence is...

@Weltesche i dont get how it doesnt matter ? ego is responsible for your level of conciousness and in what reality you are living in..i heard it in many places that it doesnt matter...ego must be caught and his power removed before you could see that its an illusion...in my experience if you observe in lower level of conciousness you could see the truth but it wont matter ? In the end it doesnt matter but its too advanced to say just observe imo..

I was going in opposite direction..deconstructing weak ego then making it stronger and the more work i did the more it leaded to awareness...building strong ego is valuing yourself,loving yourself,living authenticly,living your own truth,becoming your number one priority in your head etc...

Self respect for myself would need to be really low to accept this...how much you respect yourself thats how much you gonna tolerate unnecessary things like this...

Whats the context hes bringing that stuff up? I mean thats his problems to fix on his own you cant help him even if you knew what to tell... Its good to be vurnable but not emotional as a man tho... You cant relate because you look at him as someone strong that will take care of situations... You are looking for a man and hes not that and now you trying to force it basically Man doesnt talk emotional and about his wounds to a woman because he knows hes on his own... nobody really cares... he should pick himself up and own his world and others should be looking for his support, hes the one influencing the woman not her influencing the man!

You never ask her if she has a bf thats a weak queastion noone good with girls asks that its like you ask a director of a movie how does the movie end?

Its self sabotage whole psyche how you view yourself is not in aligne with you having sex so extreme anxiety comes to stop it from actualizing... Second problem you dont know yourself and you dont have confidence in yourself because society and gurus telling you how to live your life so you are unsure how to deal in those situations and makes you scared...you could push through it but deep down that confidence issues will be there you having sex or not sex wont fix nothing assuming thats why you desperate to lose virginity...

If you care for being able to defend yourself and people you love or just be a punching bag ?

@Someone here ??