njuufa

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  1. @erik8lrl he spits truth. As you surrender more and more the love becomes your way of being in the world. You begin to support a whole. Whole family,equally,every member. Everyone want to support you as well. In the world where love is real; support becomes the new currency.
  2. “opinions of others do not matter” - is true when you know 100% that you can be or do anything. Then you have moved pass opinions of others. The opinions do matter if you think of someone who is always being anxious or nervous. Thats because they value these too much. That is very common in instagram. Where people look for opinions of others by posting pictures to show “confidence” but in reality it never adds up to confidence that you would expect to find. Opinions are always false so are people who seek them. So you dont lose anything if you would give those up. Because they were nothing even when you beginned.
  3. Thank you @pluto for the link. I have been waiting for this list to show up
  4. People appear in your life so you could realize the truth which you are. Even the people who want you to pull you off the path are merely testing the validity and the degree of truth which you have realized. I like to affirm it before I walk away. Because then I can be sure that I do not break the code. It would be stupid to leave it within to rotten because it serves everyone from not leaving the room dumber when they entered it. It doesn't really matter which room you enter and who is in there, it is always the case.
  5. Ofc not. A gateless gate is a koan. To succeed at it you must realize that no such thing exists like no-gate. There is no reality to such a thing as no gate. It either is there or it isn't. But what you are describing sounds like "I can't" like you are discouraging yourself with that belief.
  6. The real real-life mentors are good intentions
  7. You want to get back on with the same activities or you want to do something different this time? When did you last time added new things to your routine? When did you test it against others? Everything in a routine is like a ongoing ultimate mini-projects that you should feel proud and exited about. Something that you cant wait until you begin with these.
  8. What came to mind is the "illusion of the death" or "fear of the death" same thing. That would be like someone pretending their whole life that death is not gonna happen to them. But the fact is that we still have to burry you, drink, eat and talk about you.
  9. You are making a large number of demands of the situation which have nothing to do with it.
  10. Follow the clues of the love and compassion and it is unbelievable how effortlessly it unravels the Divinity for you.
  11. By becoming spontaneous again.
  12. You can still have kids. Many conscious people home school their kids.
  13. You automatically affect peoples consciousness by who you have become. If you are destined to becoming enlightened you serve and awake people automatically. It would already being happening all the time because you would not be you if it would not happen. He asked it to test you out. You would have not failed for it if you would have used Spiral Dynamics. It is model to make seemingly complex and impossible situations simple. Therefore being more confident at dealing with these. All the stages are different paradigms. What they need is natural way of navigating through their particular stage to the next one. It is not wrong to be yourself as blue or orange or between green and yellow. It just shows that you have been successful at development and therefore know how to navigate freely through them without getting stuck in excesses. It is not manipulating, you are just being who you are. You are not making any of these up, these are true for you.
  14. Because if you dont you wont be able to let go of everything that is false.
  15. Enlightened person cannot focus on breath because there isnt any.
  16. Crystals makes us feel better because these are beautiful things that you can easily carry around in your pocket and latter gift away for someone else. That is like a lot of positive energy and opportunities from a few seemingly worthless little rocks. I used these for uplifting. I found that i was much more productive at contemplating and communicating when its positive vibe at the air. Everyday life is so difficult that having few amazing crystals to look at can uplift you back to reality in a instant so the life can be let to continue unfolding itself. I didnt rub these, channel, call angels, stare at these, talk to these, give names etc. These crystals just stunned me with the beauty of being. If i lacked inspiration to contemplate i would just take out the crystals and contemplate these. I learned to appreciate truth and beauty even more because for a while i was in a journey with crystals. Trying to find where these came from and what to do with these and make use of it. Is a purpose of crystals that is very rewarding and also rises consciousness.
  17. Projections are zen-devils self inquiry. Projections keep you from seeing whats there.
  18. I feel you man. Its a problem of giving and taking. Almost everyone are stressed and insecure at the workplace. But if you only focus on "take money and fuck off" then you are like others. There is no growth possible to learn how do handle these stressful moments. Do not try to come up with a ways to change their mind-set. It will just create more layers of misunderstandings. Just be you and if they start acting like dicks again then give more of yourself rather than taking it too personally and hide away. It actually feels good to ease others up by sharing your gifts + you will learn much more about others this way then judging them from the distance. When they start again with their petty life issues then give more, if they just wont stop then you probably are still taking. Its a fine art that takes some time to get used to it until you have no problem easing up even the most difficult types if you need something from them or just trying to keep harmony going. It doesnt take anything to set up something better to talk about. Time, Energy ? Well that is that small talk again we were tired of listening. its not a social skill its a spiritual practice and move you towards stage yellow as well.
  19. Why need to hide it if you know ? Its your experience. or isnt it ? Maybe you are just believing it ? Lying to yourself. For what reason ?
  20. What is beyond ? Contemplate "beyond" and egos mechanism reveals itself - Thats whats true.
  21. If you do not accept yourself then the decisions you make are not aligned and you will run off course without even being aware of what is going wrong in your life. You could judge a character based on his lies that he is not willing to accept of himself. But you cannot judge someone who is accepting himself. Because there is nothing left to judge. Self-accepting person is not in a fighting state anymore. Only reason you fight for your survival is because you are not accepting that you have a life. There is nothing worth fighting for. Because everything you fight for will come and bite you in the ass and that might cost you your real life. Like getting hit by truck when you were busy texting. That is sad, indeed.
  22. How to breath. Haha it is so stupid from some point of views. But that is the point of discovering the right way to do it so peoples materialistic view would get shattered once again.
  23. You were happy because you knew there is nothing to grasp. And first thing after that experience you wonder : why I could not keep it ? Classic, you want to be happy but you have a little secret that says "i do not want to be happy" is running the show in your head but the whole show does not run this way, maybe. Dont forget that where you are now is what you wished before. You practiced meditation to become aware of your issues to get rid off these. There is no turning back now. You must clean the mess up that you created throughout your life, because that is what really is holding you back from growing, not the degree of your awareness itself per say. To judge awareness now would mean that you do not trust it. But how can you judge it if you have not even used it yet ? And not discovered the full range of its power. Be patient. Trust it. And stop underestimating yourself. Take one unconscious thing from its head that peaks out and start slowly pulling it out. Then you have chance to discover its whole structure. At the same time this involuntary judgement arises which proves how fake and limited it is which you are aware of and now know how to perform in a sense. Much much love
  24. Do not leave things to a last minute.