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Yet, he probably will have to go through this experience of meaningless superficial sex with random girls to have this insight that it really does not fulfills you. It is like telling a hungry homeless guy to focus on expensive fruits and vegetables instead of cheap fast food. Also, you need a good game with high-quality girls too. Imagine that you spend all your time developing yourself and your career but don't know how to attract girls, flirt and all of that, then you meet your perfect 10 (in all aspects), that one in a million girl that is a perfect match for you and you suck at flirting, making her get turned off by you. Do both, learn game and work on all the other areas of your life. You can be extremely successful and still suck with women. By the way, this leads to all those "#metoo" cases, basically, successful guys that are still creepy as fuck and don't know how to create comfort, read body language, flirt, be funny etc.

Damn, that hurts Anyways... *clicks on the next video*

@General 2 My goal is not to feel awesome because I manifested a car, is to feel awesome and have a awesome car.

Had some big experience on Love lately?

You are always feeling something, Neville didn't said to feel blissful, that's my 2 cents, he did say to fee like your wish is fulfilled, which can be calm gratitude or boredom, yes. But, in my opinion, this is just a waste. Why the he'll wouldn't you want to feel awesome? Those won't be two separate manifestation if you imagine them together, you are living a mark in your subconscious mind by imagining the thing and feeling like you feel.

That's interesting, contemplate why the ego mind prefer evil and suffering to emptiness. And congratulations for the courage to go deep into reality.

Well, i guess that's fine, not everyone is ready to live an amazing life.

Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant. -Robert Louis Stevenson Pretty good rule of thumb for life.

The manifestation is less about the car and more about the state, if you imagine a boring and worry state, that's what you are going to get. Nothing is stopping you to imagine yourself being in that car feeling blissful and safe. If someone is in a shitty mood constantly, they are going to get more of that until they decide otherwise. It is needed to make a conscious effort to really feel (with all senses) how you want to feel. Like an actor, embody how you would feel in a perfect condition, use physiology, affirmations, imagination, like a child pretending she is a pirate or a king or something. One I am using these days is simple affirming: I am amazing, my life is amazing, fuck yeah, I am amazing, my life is amazing, I love myself, I love life, I love my body, life loved me. While I put a big smile and spread my arms like I had won the lottery or something. Make a victory dance, jump and shit like that. You have to normalize this awesome state, make your subconscious mind be comfortable with feeling awesome and your life will change radically. I love Neville Godard and all the New Thought Movement authors.

Buddy, don't worry about me, my goal here is to wake people out of this arrogance position in which they keep talking and shitting on something that they are clueless about and THEN missing on the life-changing benefits of it and that's just sad to me. Again, all of this stems from a fundamental assumption that you know what you are talking about, which you don't. What I want here is for you to drop this idea that I have made of what PickUp is and go look into it deeply and practice it. All you have said are superficial, apparent stuff, this is what most people think when they talk about pick up. And this is also how most newbies think when they START this journey. First of all, you don't have to approach hundreds of girls before your first success. It all extremely personal, some people are way ahead of other when they begin, depending on several factors like charisma, confidence, social intelligence, self-esteem, previous experience with women, knowledge about PU etc. Second of all, success is a personal definition, some might define success as saying hi girls, some as having sex, some as exchanging numbers etc. This seems obvious but is crucial because if a newbie defines success in PU as having sex, yeah, maybe it will take him hundreds of approaches or more and this will demotivate him a lot. If a newbie defines success as saying hi to anyone, he will have a lot more chances in succeeding. It's like defining success in meditation as having super focus one-pointed concentration for 1h straight. Yeah, it will take you years to accomplish it. Anyway, PU is way more complex and fluid that you imagine it to be, go do some serious research before making conclusions.

Holy shit, dude, this is genius! No one has ever thought about doing this before Really? You are in a self-development forum and wonder why deliberately practicing skills, setting and achieving big goals are important? Why not just let things happen naturally? Why meditate? This isn't natural! Stop trying to copy some formula to develop self-mastery, just let the monkey-mind take over and be miserable like a normal person

Define a "scam". This is way too simplistic. If you paid for some self-development program and got nothing out of it, chances are, you are just too dumb to grasp the depth of the knowledge presented to you. Seems like you are expecting the teacher to do the work for you, as most lazy people do. And when that doesn't work, they get upset and say it' a scam. I would bet that even if the program is very basic, if you apply the principles, you will get something out of it. A lot of people came to these programs with this "cup full" mentality, they see themselves as knowledgable and don't really grasp what the teacher is saying because they are always thinking "I know that already", but really, they don't or they only have a superficial understanding and think they are experts. Those people go to self-development programs expecting mind-blowing complex concepts and when they find the same concepts that they once heard but ignored thinking it was too basic, even if they completely fail to see its depth, they will say they got scammed.

Well, very simple. Pick-up is a skill, like meditation, it needs practice. I can pay some enlightened guru to teach me everything he knows about meditation and, in the end, get zero results because I didn't practice it, only accumulated information, which clearly isn't the point of meditation. Pick-up is like that, you can have the best teachers 1-on-1 with you, if you do not approach, you will not learn. You can learn for free if you watch a few free videos on YT and go out to practice it. People love to cut corners, paying high sums of money to teachers in order to not do the work and then they are surprised it didn't worked.

100% his fault for 0 results.

Self-Actualization/Spirituality Tattoo Ideas?

That's normal, you will change your whole life many times if you go deep enough. It's like layers of an onion or a snake shedding its skin.

Exactly, most people define themselves by their victim personas, is like an easy way out, everyone will feel sorry for you and tell you how mistreated you were. In turn, you will hold on to this because if you were not victimized you get no sympathy for your failings, you are alone and with no excuses, that's scary as hell for most people. Who would you be without your limitations? That's a tough one to contemplate. It's so "open" and full of possibilities that is scary. You would assume that most people fear failing but I would bet that people often fear success more than failure. Imagine yourself as the president of the US with all the responsibility, all the accountability 24/7, now imagine yourself as a homeless person that sleeps in the open, skips a few meals, which one is scarier? I compare this limitless possibility feeling to swimming in the open sea, so vast, deep, and unknown that is scary as hell.

Only the best one can, the rest is bound to suffer forever. lol just kidding, of course not, everyone IS self-actualizing in a way or another, but only a few do it consciously. Don't go on a self-actualization crusade, that almost always backfires. Do your thing, show what is possible, throw some hints here and there and let people ask you for help.

The way Buddha looks at you when you are fapping to that filthy porn.

Toxic Green. I wouldn't raise shit either.

Well, you can see this from many angles. One of them is that, in an ultimate sense, is God "victimizing" God. God abusing God, God raping God, God being "homeless" in a world that is nothing but God. Of course, if it is all God, there is also no "abusing", or "raping", those only exist when the ego-mind, which separates itself from everything else (from God) and project meaning into something that ultimately has none. Ok, but let's say that the argument above is too much to grasp (and it is for most people). Let's say then that you got beaten by some bully and that beat made you swift from passivity to proactivity in changing your life, now you workout and practiced some martial arts, which led to making new friends, developing skills, more self-confidence, which made all your life better from now on. That change would never happen by it's on. When an organism is comfortable, change doesn't happen. Now, looking from that angle, the bully is good or bad? Could be that the bully is actually some sort of angel sent to put you into this self-transformation path? See all your problems as a curriculum given to you. You came to this life, shit happened, people mistreated you in horrible and various ways, now you have a particular set of things to work on. Let's say that you got raped as a child by your uncle. Now, to overcome this you have ti develop: self-empowerment, emotional intelligence, forgiveness, self-love, trust, sexual repression, guilt etc. None of that would be properly looked at and worked on if that shitty thing hadn't happened to you. Getting out of victim mentality is about realizing that shit inevitable happens and you have to deal with it, but the best way to deal with it is to see it from empowering angles like the ones I mentioned or some other. You can cry and be angry all you want about the "injustices" (from one partial point of view) that happened to you but once you realize that that approach won't make you better and no one will do it for you, you will seek for solutions instead of problems.

Sorry, only now i saw your comment. Yes, absolutely related. Weak sense of reality is how I define the feeling of being ungrounded. When you are too much in your head and not in your body, you create your sense of reality through thoughts, logic, and overly-theorization. This phenomenon is described in-depth in the book "The Betrayal Of The Body" by Alexander Lowen. There, he talks in terms of the character structure he calls "schizoid". They are people that, due to the inability to deal with extreme negative feelings like fear, retreat in their heads and kind of forget the body, making them one step away from the schizophrenic. They do that in order to not enter in a full-blown psychotic state. Chakra one imbalance. Schizoid types are basically chronically ungrounded people, they describe this kind of unrealism about life, like their are living in a state of dream, where things do not appear real (in a sense of SOLIDLY REAL). It is like watching life behind the lenses of a binocle, things get too fluid and impersonal. I relate a LOT with all those symptoms and most my immediate family (mom, aunt and grandmother) suffer from it, I was raised in a household full of schizoid people that are completely unaware of their condition, which creates a huge shitshow. I am no different from them, but i have a lot of self-awareness and this gives me at least a chance to overcome this state. Needless to say that psychedelics to schizoid people are dangerous. I have a good experience of psychedelic use but at some point, they got overwhelming for me because i was ungrounded and didn't knew that. The feeling is literally losing your mind, going crazy, which is a big fear of mine due to my family history of mental problems. During my worst trips, i remember doing my best to "grab" unto anything that seems familiar and "solid" for me, could be a good friend, a familiar/safe place like a bedroom or even a tree (yes lol in one of my ayahuasca trips i literally started hugging a tree to ground myself).

I was always against guns and pro heavy regulations for special cases but seeing those riots on USA and how easily the government lost control of the situation, it made clear for me why we really need guns: when shit goes down and Big Daddy fails to protect you, you better have a gun to protect yourself, your family and your property.

It's normal to feel fear, it means you are not stupid. If you do not feel any fear before taking some psychedelic, you must be enlightened as fuck or stupid as fuck. Psychedelics are wild, unpredictable, and scaringly real. Not like some video-game or some movie but as real as life can get. In a way, my trips got scarier as I advanced because my contemplation got deeper about the nature of things and it turned my reality upside down, a great magical mystery. But that's also what makes them awesome, they have a tendency to put you in a place of humility, breaking down the house of cards you call "reality", making you question literally everything, which is, of course, scary. It is a matter of preferring a scary but awesome truth or a comfortable lie (which most call life). If you decide you want truth, here are my best tips: 1. Master meditation, seriously. Your ability to control your attention and handle strong emotions will be essential during the trip. 2. Ground yourself as much as possible. All the bad trips i got were due to lack of grounding, my mind was all over the place, my sense of reality was already weak before the trip which only got worse as the psychedelics kicked in and my fear and anxiety got through the roof. 3. Do it only in a place you feel 100% safe and will not be bothered by random people. It is great if you live alone, but if you do not, tell everyone what you are going to do and ask to not be bothered. 4. Do it in a place where you can do any weird shit you feel like being naked, practicing yoga, mantras, exercising, or just laying in your bed comfortable. I personally always feel the need to move a lot, practicing yoga (asanas and pranayama, mostly). 5. Have a plan b just in case. Have some strong and fast-acting anxiolytic substance ready and someone you can call if you need to. If you have those two, you will be a lot more at ease. One time i was on 4g of shrooms and 50ug of LSD and started to freak out a little. I was alone, my anxiety was high, i lost any notion of time and that scared me as time seemed to last a lot longer midst my panic attack, which made things worse. Luckily i managed to text my best friend, he replied to me, i told him what was happening and asked him to come to see me. Even before he arrived, i was much more tranquil because i knew everything was going to be fine. If wasn't for him, i might make something dumb like calling my dad. 6. Surrender, surrender, surrender. If you are shaking, let it shake, if you are crying, cry a lot, if you are scared, just feel it, breath deeply and slowly. Breathing is key when going through some challenging experience. 7. Listen to your body, not your mind. The body knows what you have to do, it will guide you to do something like asanas, just do it. What the body is doing is giving you instructions to break free from old traumas, stuck emotions/energy etc. You mind will be confused as fuck trying to make sense and often making wrong assumptions and inducing you to make poor choices like call the cops, ambulance or something like that. 8. Full detox a week before the trip. No porn, no drugs, no junkie food. Be as present as possible, stay away from screens and electronics, spend time in nature, contemplating, reading and writing.