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Well, approach yourself and feel how painful it is to be this vulnerable.

This is not a trend but a adaptative evolution. Women are hypergamous in order to find the best mate possible, this means more chances of survival for her and her offspring. Men do not care that much to date the absolute BEST woman, men do get content with less, especially considering that to most males, finding a good female partner is a difficult task, they don't have much game and live in scarcity. I don't care how conscious your girl is, if Brad Pitt enter the room, she will giggle like a little girl, give him all her attention (even ignoring you) and get wet. In this process, it is common that she starts to resent her partner, she is always unconsciously comparing you with every man she meets and ranking everyone. Yes, The Red Pill theory is absolutely right about this one, their mistake is what they do with this information, usually getting jaded and avoiding too much intimacy and vulnerability.

Half a handful of peeled ginger minced as little as possible, boiled for 15 minutes in water, turn off the heat and add the shrooms minced or grinded as small as possible, put the lid on and let it rest for 20 minutes, filter all the liquid, add more water, heat until boiling point, turn off the heat, let it rest and filter again. This way you will extract as much as possible from both.

An average guy would waste his time bitching and moaning, that's why he is average. That's exactly what i am saying.

Make a tea, it helps a lot and the shrooms kick quicker. Make the tea with a lot of ginger, it prevents nausea.

Comfort isn't equal attraction. Friends are comfortable with each other but not necessarily attracted to each other. You are assuming human beings are logical creatures, which are not. This could be for a few reasons: 1. You misinterpreted the signals (i am betting on this one). 2. She likes to flirt and used you to practice without any intention to go further. 3. She changed her mind. Even if the girl is genuinely attracted to you, you can always fuck up and she can turn cold in a second. That's your problem, you are talking to her with an agenda in mind pretending to be her friend to later make a move, women don't respect this strategy at all. They prefer if you are direct and honest instead of hiding your intentions (people feel that shit from miles away). Most of the time, just acting "normal" isn't enough. You are just too boring. She needs to know you are a real man and a real man would shamelessly go for what he wants, not try to play it safe to avoid rejection (which, ironically, makes them reject you). You lack a basic understanding of women, seduction, and relationships, that's a problem. You are assuming a lot of things and none of them are true. You can learn the hard way, by approaching massively and failing a lot (a valid approach) or you can study game and apply at the same time, repeating until profit. Google "RSD old deleted videos" and you will find a free goldmine of knowledge about seduction.

You are delusional, bro. Reality won't change because you think it is unfair, it is what it is. You don't have to be a top 10% of men to have a normal life, you have to be to have an extraordinary life. Normal life = shitty life, that's the default. 5/10 men are not only in looks, but in character, he isn't savvy, social, alpha, successful, ambitious, confident etc. 5/10 women are in looks and she can lack all the above and still find a partner but of low quality. 5/10 woman will never attract a top 10% men, she will have to settle and this is why most relationships fail, women get easily resentful if the man isn't always in his prime. The thing is, a top high-value male will never waste time bitching about those facts, he will simply accept and overcome. Men and women look for different things in one another, that's the source of most relationship confusion.

He goes as deep as one can go in his programs.

How did you do it?

You won't learn social skills by reading scientific studies. Both genders have their challenges. Women can have sex anytime they want but they have a lot of trouble finding a high-value man to commit to them. Yes, the average woman has more "power" on the sexual market than the average man, but the top 10% of men usually have more "power" in relationships than the top 10% of women. That is basically explained because most men live in scarcity, thus losing all their power. When a man lives in abundance, no woman can have "power" over him.

Dude, you are too in your head about this entire process. Take it like a man would mean to go to the next girl without thinking too much into it. Yeah, do reflect about it, but don't get stuck in endless reflection. As with anything in life, take 10x more action than you think about the theory. I guarantee you that you were too in your head to miss out on all the signals that it wasn't the right time to call her out. Social calibration requires presence.

Save your money, go out and talk to people, nothing will replace this first hand experience.

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@Karmadhi One can see you don't know what you are talking about. As i said, maximize your looks and shut the fuck up (no personal offense to anyone, just tough love), go work on your game.

That's very simplistic and unrealistic thinking. Ugly guy with game beats a good-looking guy without game every time.

Men don't need to be beautiful, only women do. Women are like flowers. Don't be a flower. As a man, you have to work on your character above all. Maximize your looks, great shape, nice style (don't be generic), beard, a nice haircut, maybe some stylish tattoos, and shut the fuck up (no offense lol). The fact that you are ugly will make your feats even more impressive. When you date hot women, they will get puzzled and fascinated about you because of this. Make a goal to break women's standards of beauty (like dating model-like guys). Don't try to be the good looking guy if you aren't. What you can't change, feature it.

This one! Changed everything for me.

We, humans, are hierarchical creatures. We are always assessing where we are in this hierarchical ranking, wherever we are, all the time. We also have a general ranking for ourselves and this is what limits us. If you see yourself as a 7/10, when you see a girl that is 8 (not only in looks) or above you instantly feel like you don't have a chance and this hurts. The secret to girls (and life) is your level of entitlement, of deservedness. Whatever you feel entitled to, is what you are generally going to get. To get your personal 10, you have to deeply feel entitled to get her. This cannot be a gimmick behavior, this has to be a subconscious certainty. Not a situational confidence either, or else you can even get the girl but you won't be able to keep her for long. That's why cold approaching/gaming is key. You are exposing yourself to new realities, testing your (mental) limits all the time and you will be mindblown when you realize it was all on your head.

It is painful to realize you can't get those hot girls. You aren't on their level and this bothers you, as it should. You can use this as a motivator or bitch about it like an incel, your choice.

@OBEler I meant t say that you can only redose once per trip. You take the first dose, the MDMA kicks in and when you pass the peak (about 1~2h after taking it) you can think about taking more to extend the trip, this is called redosing. Doing it only once will make the comedown and the crash way easier. It is not too low if it is quality stuff, it will be a memorable night. You can take higher dosages next time but get used to the lower ones first (do not underestimate it). Cialis is the best, i would make an effort to buy it. Viagra is harder on the cardiovascular system and keeps your dick hard for too long. Some men can have erections, but some don't. My dick gets awkwardly limp when i take MDMA. Maybe you can take a small dose to see what happens and talk to your girlfriend about this possibility beforehand. About music, you can look for "sex playlists" on Spotify. Meditation music is also great, maybe some electronic/shamanic type that is slower and good for intimacy and making love. Prepare to laugh and talk a lot.

I feel you, bro. Once you go through a certain point, there is no going back. Metaphysical realizations tend to be scary at first, all you need to do is do your best to integrate it. Practice presence, like you, are in the center of a hurricane. Doesn't matter what happens, just practice presence, acceptance, and love. I am also in a place where Reality became so fluid it is scary like i am perpetually in a microdose of shrooms or something. It is hard to ground myself in such a fluid context but what can i do besides continue to try? It is not like you have a choice like it was said to you: you are falling, groundless, you can scream in despair or you can bliss out in pure acceptance. Think like this: how would a Master Zen or Buddha deal with this situation? Have you ever thought about the perspective of a spiritual master? Do you think he lives in a groundless reality or a material one? He is probably experiencing a constant mindblowing Reality but keeping his shit together by flowing with it as a non-stop meditation practice.

I have experience with this. 1. Small doses at first. 70mg for her and 100mg for you. You can redose later if you both feel like it (probably will). Do it only once, 50% of the first dose is a good place to experiment with. I like to crush into fine powder and dissolve it into water, the taste is fine, not great but you can take it easily. 2. Do it in a place where there is no distractions (music is fine). Just the two of you, no one else. I lived alone and did this at home with my ex girlfriend all the time, mostly on my bedroom. 3. Set the intention to be loving and vulnerable. You can do: intense eye contact exercises, sitting in front of each other holding hands and caressing one another. This position is great: Prepare to have sex, I recommend you to take a cialis (couple hours before), lots of men (including me) have trouble getting an erection with mdma. Thank me later. You can use some coconut oil to massage each other bodies, all of it, dick and pussy included. Light up some incense too. Just flow with the experience, be present, touch a lot, hug, say nice things, share intimate stories etc. This can create a strong bound between you two, be prepared.

Pink Floyd did it first.

Take so much action that it shuts down the thinking mind.