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Right now I am suffering so badly. I can't concentrate well on my work and studies now. I really want to know the secret to guys who are natural with women every since high school.

Does she at least Twerk on your D?

This may seem like an odd question, but I remember Leo mentioning in one or two of his Youtube videos on masculinity vs. femininity that men generally are more ambitious, competitive, strong, tenacious, courageous, aggressive, analytical/logical, and career-focused than women because those traits have all been determined not just by society, but by genetic evolution to be masculine qualities. However, we all know that there are many women out there in the world who have become very successful business women, entrepreneurs, lawyers, doctors, mathematicians, scientists, politicians, pro athletes, celebrities, etc. or soldiers, law enforcers, etc. who are strong, aggressive, courageous, and tenacious. Have all of these women been exceptions to rule of femininity? Are all of them rare women who were born to be masculine? I am just curious.

I don't like to always brag, but as a matter of fact, I always been extremely good looking ever since I was a baby. In fact, I would say that as I get older my looks keep improving because I keep sculpting my physique from being extremely physically active for several years. Unfortunately, I am only of average height and so it has been too difficult to break into the modeling career. Though, I have been working on becoming a fitness model (hopefully I'll make it one day). I'll PM you my instagram so you can see what I look like.

I've tried every "game" u can think of or know, and each and everyone one of them gave me more bad than good results. The only small rays of hopes I may have are getting an expensive legit coach for dating or finding a PUA lair or an experienced wing guy (which are very hard to find). Even I am not optimistic about either one of those options working for me because I am a freak.

I am tired of having to put so much work into trying to improving my dating skills. No one should have to go through this much torture. Is there another way besides cold approach/pickup or social circle to ensure that I will find a hot girl/woman as a partner who truly likes/loves me?

You fail to see that you don't know what you're talking about.

This is not helping me at all. None of this advice has worked at all for me. I am very disappointed.

You guys should watch Dragonball Super and Goku's Ultra Instinct form. The Angel of the God Destruction explains of attaining complete instinct in all your movements.

Suggest to those deluded freaks to be institutionalized forever.

What about the concept of Mushin (empty mind) or Ultra-Instinct?

This didn't help out. Sorry for wasting your time guys, but thanks for trying.

As the title says, I’ve lost all hope in my sex, social, and romance life. I’ve getting help in this, but nothing has helped me. Therapists have failed. Meditation and enlightenment and finding my life purpose take way too long. What’s a quick and easy way to get rid of this heartache. If I didn’t have a family I would seriously consider suicide as a viable option. I really mean it.

The universe doesn't always know what it's doing. It's so hard to be in the present when there's so much uncertainty out there. It's sometimes scary. That's why I occasionally contemplate suicide. I am tired of living with all of this unpredictability.

Thanks for your response, Leo. Though, I didn't say that I wanted to be a girl/woman. Though I guess I can see the point you're trying to make here. Btw, I don't see how women these days have had any social consequences from sleeping with more than 10-20 guys (unless you live in a primitive country like in Iraq where you are ruled by a dictator). Also, while men may not spend 10% of their life putting on makeup or dressing up well like women are pressured to do, men have lately been pressured to workout hard and eat an ample amount of good quality food to get bigger, stronger, more stamina, more muscular, and have to work hard on finding a good clothing style for themselves all to impress the women they want. Furthermore, even though men obviously don't have to deal with risks of pregnancy and abortion themselves, they still have to make sure that they avoid creating any unwanted pregnancies these days. Otherwise, he will legally be forced to pay for child support indefinitely. Plus, men like me have been randomly ghosted by women after having sex with them. Moreover, yes, it true that there have been more women who have been physically and verbally abused by men than vice versa. Yes, it is also true that women get manipulated more than men do. However, most women in relationships are usually the ballbusters who tend to control the man's relationship life. Additionally, men have to work much harder than women to keep the girl/woman they want even after having had 1 to 2 dates with them. As far as women get judged much more negatively for being assertive or selfish, I don't believe that to be true in western developed societies like the U.S., Canada, Japan, South Korea, Ireland, the UK, France, Israel, Italy, Spain, Germany, Scandinavian countries, etc. Regarding crazy emotional fluctuations, how do women have to deal with that more than men unless they are bipolar or are psychotic? Finally, aren't there plenty of women out there who make as much money as men if not a lot more? Taylor Swift is one of the highest paid musicians with a net worth of about 200 million US dollars. A vast number of female celebrities and successful female entrepreneurs have made millions of dollars themselves. Most men throughout the entire world will never even make more than a million dollars no matter what they do.

There is no way for me to write extensive reports on each of the hundreds of approaches that I made. I am telling you I am doing my best. I have help many others in the past. You don't know my personal life.

Okay. Here is a lay report of mine, from a couple of years ago, telling how I lost my V-card: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/lay-reports/long-last-did-vt193152.html I had a small text conversation with her a few days after we fucked. Sadly however, she suddenly and randomly ghosted me and so I never heard or saw her ever again. A lot of times I feel like I lost my V-card and got a few lays from a few other girls through sheer luck.

Yeah Ajasatya, I agree with see_on_see. Like Leo said, you can't just meditate away your need for sex, unless you are middle or older and have had a lot of experience with sex beforehand. I am still young and have had very little experience with sex (despite having had a fair amount of makeout sessions with various girls).

Damn. How the hell did you survive through such pain and misery? My habits except for procrastination and time management are in check. Inner and outer weaknesses, social, seduction, and romance skills are still a great mystery to me.

So I should work on both my inner and outer weaknesses at about the same time?

That all sounds good, but I tried that with my martial arts for over 10 years, weightlifting for over 4 years, running for several months, yoga classes, karaoke (I happen to be a decent singer), sculpture/ceramics, etc.

I am sorry, but I don't get it. I don't understand how to find such traits in a girl and then compare them to mine. Also, I really want a girl who is hot. They matter to me a lot. I am sorry.

Yeah, but girls usually find and keep the right awesome person for the faster than most guys who even get the chance to even get a 2nd date or more with an amazing girl for them. Women don’t nearly as much competition as men do. Hot women especially have virtually no competition for the right guy. Ive tried taking a break for months to work on my self esteem and it didn’t help me feel much better. Also, I am getting tired of people saying that “girls can sense whether a guy is desperate or not.” We are all needy to a degree. The idea of neediness being a turn off doesn’t negatively effect your chances with someone as much as most people think. I mean would you tell a person starving for food to stop being so desperate for food? No, of course not. Also, if women’s intuition is so great that they can easily detect how needy a guy is, then why can’t they easily sense whether the guy is evil or highly manipulative?

Well, I’ve try meeting girls through building rapport many times, and each time it failed. No matter what I do, no matter what I try will always be one or more steps behind most people. I feel like a freak. Yet, I don’t deserve this. I can’t believe u have never found someone for a serious relationship ever at your age. You must have secluded yourself from the rest of the world or something.

You don’t know for sure if you’ll ever improve. Believe me, I’ve tried practically everything there is. I am practically at the end of the line with getting any help with women. I just don’t see how or why I should feel very optimistic about my future dating, sex, romance life. I feel like I am just going through the motions and deceiving myself that it will happen. Even when I feel pumped and full of confidence I still get ultimately rejected by the ones I want. It’s impossible for me to figure out where I am going wrong. There are virtually an infinite amount of variables to factor into play. Why should I have faith in myself?