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Btw, using music will only help you block out the pain so much. It's mostly up to your willpower, at least according to my experience.

If you have social and cold approach anxiety issues then read the following goodlookingloser articles in order: 1. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/guys-that-should-not-start-approaching-women 2. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/two-main-reasons-the-approach-anxiety-program-works-and-works-forever 3. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1 4. follow the next weeks AA drills until you completed the entire program to the letter. 5. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-1 6. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/how-to-go-out-alone/how-to-go-out-alone-to-bars-part-2 Follow everything in each of those articles to the letter.

It may seem contradictory, but it’s not. Feminism is supposed to be about giving women equal rights for both men and women for jobs, money, and societal status. However, men should still slightly lead women when it comes to sex, dating, romance, family issues, and perhaps during combat or hunting. Otherwise, there should be no more slut shaming or any primitive notions of subduing women or abusing them in any manner. Watch the new Wonder Woman movie. It was one of the best superhero movies I’ve ever seen. Certainly better than the Batman vs. Superman one. Also, although I don’t usually condone old fashion ideas, I actually do agree with the way a lot of men from about the mid 1970s and anytime before where men were more masculine in the way they attracted women. Watch Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind, Richard Burton in many of his movies, Marlin Brando in a Street Car Named Desire or some of his other movies. Watch any of the James Bond movies. Hell, even the latest versions of Bond still show him as an Alpha male. Others include all of the Bourne movies. Watch and identify anime characters that depict hyper masculine men such as in all of the Dragonball series, Naruto, Bleach, Street Fighter, King of Fighters, Cowboy Bebop, Big O, etc. Find the minority of guys in real life who are still very masculine and successful with women, if u can (I am still trying to find guys like that in real life who are available and interested in wanting to be hangout buddies with me).

I hope this doesn't offend anyone on this forum, but here it goes: Try masturbating in front of her and fingering her. I've had sex in my car a few times and almost had two more P in V sex there. Turn the air conditioner on and make sure your car is parked away in a place that makes it hard for people to see you (e.g. at the top of an empty level of a parking lot or during night time out on the street where hardly anyone is around outside). Some girls have said that I was crazy to do this, but I didn't care and in a way it turned me on even more, just like the time I got a good blowjob out on the park in public during the time I lost my V-card. Or like the other time when I got a handjob from another girl in the same park out during another night.

Shroomer, how do you know that you will be able to increase your perceived value tremendously?

Are you saying that I should only go for average or ugly girls?

Damn. I wish I could cum faster. I have delayed ejaculation. How thick are your loads, benny?

but I've watched that countless times. Is there anything else you could possibly give me for advice?

Ego can never be gotten rid of if you want to win or succeed in life. Even if you balance it out with humility, the ego will still drive you to succeed. You guys have got to stop talking about ridding the ego. It will never happen. In fact, the more you succeed at anything the more your pride grows, the more the ego grows inevitably. Just take a good look at the greatest people in history. Even Mahatma Gandhi and the Dalai Lama had huge egos. They just knew how to balance it well with humility, unlike Trump who never was capable of doing it. Don't even get me started with the pope.

Well, unfortunately I've been to therapists countless times all of my life and with many therapists. They all failed me. No matter what I try, I can't shake this victim mindset. It kills me everyday like a demon eating away at me everyday Everyday, I try to stay as strong as possible and move on from it. I wish I knew why I can't change it, no matter what I try.

Yeah I can't end the fapping. It's too much for me.

Why? How many girls have you slept with?

and how do u get to sleeping with them? Please don't tell me it's just luck and waiting around like a wanker.

See, this is problem with people giving the ego a bad connotation. The ego is crucial for survival and success. However, it does needs to be balanced with humility. Listen to these mental health experts, including one forensic psychiatrist who has studied the ego for decades. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=egomania

You're wrong, buddy. Lots of men are already taken. You gotta increase your odds, whether you're a girl or guy, by approach a lot of them.

To be quite frank, this was a pointless question to ask OP. All you gotta do as a girl is work on looking pretty/fit, be confident, screen out men with bad character, and play the numbers game. It's that easy, and you will find someone whom you like. Consider yourself lucky. However, as for maintaining a relationship, there's not much for me to tell you because I've never been in one. However, make sure that you are mature enough and have your life together to be able to deal with your partner well and always support him. Furthermore, let him take charge of everything, unless of course he takes it too far to the point where he is physically or emotionally abusive. So good luck with that.

I don't think that I'll ever be able to stop no-fap. I tried it and it's too impossible for me.

and what if there aren't any new girls in your area to bang and whom you are attracted to? What if you can't even move out of your city?

Can you blame him? Society is to fucking blame for these mental roadblocks. Parents who don't know how to raise their children well are also as much at fault for this.

Both. Biologically speaking, men are indeed are attracted to good looks in a woman, more so than a woman is attracted to good looks in a man.

Get the olive oil that USDA certified. That stuff has been tested properly and objectively by third party people who are highly qualified to test out which products are safe and high quality.

We gotta setup a Hyper macho movement to take back some of the power we gave to these ungrateful manipulative women out there who decided to abuse their rights. It should be a new movement of men out there who are the New Age of hyper-masculine men who are able to both respect women and lead them well unapologetically. We also gotta eliminate these white knights patriarches out there who categorically responsible for the God forsaken mess we are in. Those guys really think they are being heroes who are protecting women out there, but they don’t even have the balls to approach women out there themselves. And yet, they have the nerve to slut shame women. These preachers, those GOPs conservatives who were dumb enough to elect Trump into office. They are the same ones who are either White Supremacist racists or are Latinos and African Americans and Jews, Arabs, and others who turned their backs on their own kind, all to support the conservative way of slut shaming women. They are also the very same ones who make sure that men DO NOT approach women, because it’s not “normal.” Yet they are hypocritical enough to cheat on their miserable wives with prostitutes and what have you. All of them are the ones who are RUINING IT ALL. I tell you, that countries like the US would be better places to live in without scum like them. The feminist movement was making their way towards great progress until these stupid Conservative pinheads our there had to instill the fear of God and social stigmas. If they don’t want progress to happen then where the hell will we men go to?

They probably only get sex from guys who just settle. Also, relationships with heavyset probably don’t last long. Again, men are more visual than u think. That’s part of why the divorce is so high.

If we were given proper coaching during high school on how to approach women successfully then I think that the REDPILL and MGTOW would never happen.

Woman’s looks matter a lot for the relationship to continue. As Leo said one one of his videos on Youtube, Men are more visual than u think.