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Yeah, but I am thinking that at least I would be very congruent with how I am feeling and it would be very genuine. I tend to get depressed easily.

A lot of times when I am feeling really down in the dumps I often think about approaching a girl or group of girls and saying stuff like "you know, I feel like you don't really like me.....well, I guess that's because people really don't like me much....I am a fuck up.....I am a real loser....but it's still not fair that women like these asshole guys instead of nice guys like me.....I really want people to like me.....but I guess it's never going to happen with me....that's why on some days I just want to kill myself and end all of the suffering and misery that I am going through."

Oh I see. Ok, thank you. Your answers to my questions on this thread definitely helped further my understanding of spiral dynamics and how to apply it to my own life.

So, it's just biologically how women are wired for sex even if some of them just want casual sex?

Lol. That's crazy! Are you telling me that you had to do shit like that in order to transcend to solid Yellow?

Right, but not everyone woman wants a baby or wants to even have a serious relationship.

Yeah, I wouldn't want to work more on Blue and Orange by doing conservative stuff like heavily practicing religion or owning a dangerous gun. I also, don't want to have to exploit others for my own success.

Ah I see. Makes sense. So, other progressives such as everyone on TYT could also use more work within Blue and Orange to make them solid and transcend to Yellow?

I see. So, even though he has solid Blue, solid, Orange, and solid Green values, he is still unable to transcend to Yellow because he still too judgmental of others who are not like him, especially those who are conservatives and capitalists too much. I think like Kyle Kulinski and Krystal ball he also overestimates how many people in the US are progressive or even moderately liberal.

Do you think that Vaush have some healthy aspects of Blue and Orange such as a solid work ethic and personal success?

Right, but if it is okay for both men and women to use each other just for sex, then why does a guy have make a girl not feel like she is being treated like a sex object if she doesn't want anything more than just sex? Why do I have to make her feel special or that I want her for more than just sex to seduce her when maybe all she wants is just some casual sex for herself?

I know that progressives are examples of people that are at stage Green, but I wonder if some of them actually have some Yellow in them. Some of them seem to have good values from stages Purple, Red, Blue and Orange which is necessary for becoming a stage Yellow being. Let's take Bernie Sanders as an example. He has some good aspects of Purple such as respect for nature and acknowledgment of all of the different kinds of communities, tribes, cultures, and traditions out there throughout the whole world. He also has some good values of Red such as passion, ambition, assertiveness, and being a revolutionary. He further has some good values of Blue including work ethic, discipline, commitment, respect for law and order, and faith in a cause. He moreover has some good aspects of Orange such as personal success and wealth, certain degree of charisma, belief in science and technology, and belief in private ownership and entrepreneurship. Additionally, Sanders has probably studied and read up on a lot of various kinds of high intellectual material from various highly renown intellectuals.

Yeah, but there a lot of women out there who are only looking for casual sex.

Okay, I believe that I get it now. From now on, I'll try my best to not be disrespectful like that to women again. Thank you everybody.

Okay, so don't do anymore edgy stuff until I have a lot more experience and have much more advanced game (of course that's if I ever really achieve that level of game). So, even sexual alpha males who are abusive to women don't even start off being hurtful to women?

Ohhhhh.....I think I get it now. I took the idea of “being an asshole” too literally. Shit......I really screwed up big time. Now, I feel really bad about what I’ve done.? Does this also mean that negging girls turns women off?

So, then why do guys who have game say that women like men who are assholes or are arrogant?

I thought that according to the US education laws, every adult has to have at least a high school level of education. So, how are the majority of Americans throughout the whole country not able to read at the high school level as a bare minimum?

I see what you guys are saying, but I thought that girls liked assholes and they like it when a guy gets a girl's mind off of logic mode by making them feel some sort of strong emotions.

John Anthony does look like a repulsive sleazbag.

Ah, okay. I see what you're saying. Yeah, I think that lay count is important to some extent because it is one big determining factor as to how successful you are with women. However, I do agree that lay count should certainly not be considered to be the end all be all and should stop being concerned about your lay count after a certain point. Just like with money. How much money you are able to make is an important factor in how good your financial skills are, but money is of course not be the end all be all and you should stop being concerned about how much money you make after a certain point.

I never said that mastering game is easy. I just thought that you were saying that even after all of the years of hard work Owen put into developing his skills with women that he still didn't become a master of the game.

So, in order to successfully get out of wage slavery, I have to be delusional? Also, why do a lot people who lost their own businesses, which they may have had for a long time, end up going back to working for someone else in another kind of business?

Look, I wouldn't mind putting in the years of hard work for getting out of wage slavery if I knew for sure that it was a feasible path for me. I just worried that could very well turn out to be a pipe-dream for me.

That's why I really envy guys who have always had natural talent with girls like how some other people who are naturally gifted athletes or child prodigies or born geniuses.