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You're saying that obese people who don't work on losing a lot of weight are actually fine with being obese? What kind of pain exactly needs to happen for these individuals for them to truly want to fix their problem?

I want to hook way more than one girl and sleep with at least some 8s, 9s, and 10s.

So, some women out there don’t care about having sex with a guy who does not have a perceived high value?

You think that any guy has the potential to be in the top 10-25% men in sex appeal?

I am still skeptical that even a genuine teaching/approach to self improvement would work for every guy. I remember this one time when P. Diddy got tried to coach a group of singers. None of them turned out to be good enough or were able to make any significant progress with their skills under his wing despite their best efforts. He got so frustrated to this point where he went like "None of them are getting it! I can't work with any of them anymore! This isn't working..... You can't just teach someone how to be a star or be good at singing or entertaining......You have to really have the raw talent to begin with...."

Wait, but how exactly is what I am saying are limiting beliefs when in reality a lot of times people do quit practicing some kind of skill or activity because they knew they never had the talent for it? I am not trying argue with you just to troll or anything like that. I actually am I hoping that I am wrong, but I am just trying to be practical or realistic about what is possible in a way that makes sense instead of believing in some set of false hopes or have some kind of wishful thinking mindset. We all have aspirations to do the impossible or even become successful at something, but in the real world, sadly a lot of things that we had hoped for or thought that we could achieve don't end up working out.

There a lot of people out there who have been driving for years but still kinda suck at it. My mom has a lot more total years of experience in driving than I do, and yet she's still not a great driver, while I've have turned out to be an even better driver than her.

Yeah, but my point is that what if no matter how much you work on your game or even how much coaching or help you get with game that you still never make any significant progress with your skill? Like no matter what you do it just won't click into your head simply because you just don't have the sufficient talent in you to ever make it happen. There are people out there who have practiced a sport or a musical instrument for years but never could get good at it no matter what they did, which is why they quit after while because they figured that they gave it their best shot for a long enough time and realize that it was best for them to just move on to something else that maybe or hopefully they will have the potential to achieve at least some kind of real success in whatever that might be.

So, then why are still too many older obese people out there who haven't yet suffered enough from the pain of overeating, but instead keep eating excessive amounts of bad food?

Actually, it's now looking like Russia probably won't be able to take much of Ukraine.

Well, it looks like Putin already made it worse for himself and everyone else in Russia. He should've just accepted that there was nothing that he or anybody else can do stop the westernized countries continuing to be the dominant nations of the world. He should've just enjoyed all of what he already had going for him in Russia and maintain the status quo there until the end of his days.

But what if even after approaching 1000 girls you still didn't develop any skill for seducing women? What if even with the help of wings your game still sucks?

So, then what are teachers and gurus like Leo talking about when they say that you have to have the discipline to force yourself to do any kind of practice including spiritual practices consistently in order to really see the results happen?

Why does building deep rapport/romantic connection matter if you just want to have casual sex and if the girl is already sees you as high value, nonjudgmental, and is attracted to you enough to want to fuck you? In fact, wouldn't building deep rapport/romantic connection right away influence the girl to think that you want a serious relationship?

So, if I shouldn't always be optimistic, then how do people like Leo always stay so optimistic in a way that has worked so well for them no matter what the circumstances are?

It seems that most people around the world, even most people in first world countries have become the most pessimistic they have ever been. I myself am I becoming pessimistic about the future now. The COVID pandemic is still going on even after more than 2 years, the rise of violent crime and immigration issues in many parts of the world is still a problem, Biden and the Democrats have had alarmingly low approval ratings for a long time, Democrats are in trouble with the upcoming midterm elections, Trump or someone as bad a him could win the 2024 US presidential election, the Russian-Ukraine war has been going on for almost a month now and we don't know how much longer it will last nor do we know how serious the economic consequences of this war will become, democracy is still declining in many countries around the world, inflation in numerous nations is still unusually high and is going to worse, the rich keep getting richer and the poor keeping poorer, and on and on and on...... It's getting so hard to stay positive and hopeful about the future. I don't know how some people are able to stay optimistic no matter how bad things get.

I think if you are totally starting out as a newbie with girls then should lower your standards a lot. You don't have to start out getting with girls you find to be unattractive or below average (that would actually be demeaning to yourself and to those girls); however, you should start out dating and having sex with average or slightly above average girls. After you get enough dating and sexual experiencing with girls around that level, then you should raise your standards back up to where they were, by dating and sleeping with girls who are well above average in attractiveness. Maybe if you develop enough skill then you might be able to sleep with the 9s and 10s. You'll eventually realize that hot girls are still only human in the grand scheme of things. Though they are harder to find as available and come off as a lot more intimidating than average or unattractive girls.

I am not sure.

Those and also the large amount of chemical weapons and missiles they have?

What about the weapons that Russia still have left to use?

You think that Russia isn't going to even capture Ukraine?

It's looking like he may not even be able to take all of Ukraine because most experts are saying that they are about to reach a stalemate and that neither side is able to dominate over the other. Putin is also getting much more frustrated. I really hope that he doesn't resort to using nukes.

Ohhh, I think I see what you’re saying. So men unlike girls are always much more focused on searching for the most visually appealingly women regardless of the circumstances they are in. Whereas, with women they usually aren’t, and so it really depends on the context of the situation they are in and how it is framed in her mind. In the case of girls going to a male strip, the sexy dancing and the fun they have with the rest of the show pumps up their emotional and sexual state high but the male strippers' looks end up being projected to the girls as much more of a deciding factor in their decision to want to have sex with them than it would be in other kinds of situations or places.

So those male strippers may be able to get the girls turned on by their bodies and sexy dancing, but it doesn't mean that they would be able to actually get them to have sex with them?

Oh no, I believe that game undoubtedly triumphs over looks when it comes to attracting women. I am just wondering as to why the most seductive male strippers have had to look like fitness models.