Tyler Robinson

Sex is important to me. I didn't say it's important to all women. Software developers are the strongest men? Maybe our definitions of strong differ a bit. I don't associate strength with social status. I would much prefer a caveman. He will know how to take care of stuff. At least he will protect me from rape.

Sex is important to me. I never dated a software engineer. If I interacted with them, I found that they couldn't say romantic things or couldn't tickle me. Conversations with them got boring very quickly. Keeping things interesting is important in a relationship or else feelings never develop in the first place or people lose interest. A guy who is sexy is always interesting.

@mr_engineer yea a sense of humor is good. But who would want someone who laughs all the time. Not me. I like serious men who also know when to laugh. Like I said, everything has a time and place.

I don't know why strength and humor cannot go together. Of course they can. A woman will always admire strength at the end of the day, ask any woman. A man can be bold, strong and humorous at the same time. I don't know why one should exclude the other. Physically strong means he is tall (6 ft) and has a tough body. Mentally strong means someone who can face situations in life and doesn't make a mountain out of a molehill, knows how to support the woman if she is feeling lonely or hurt instead of running away from situations and is able to guide her when she needs him. That's the kind of man she is attracted to. You can't dictate attraction.

Humour has its own place and timing. I wouldn't appreciate a guy being humorous when the situation is sad or uncalled for. It shows a lack of social calibration. For women social acceptance is valuable, having a guy who is lacking in social calibration can be a headache to deal with. Even humorous men can be strong men. Weak men take offense at everything and no woman wants to deal with a whiny guy women have enough drama of their own. They want to come back home to a peaceful secure non whiny strong man.

You shouldn't have to worry about the family. Do what you like. You like the girl and the girl likes you, I don't see why there should be a problem.

I think you got it wrong. Women like a man who is exciting. Not boring. Being a simp and constantly acting slavish to her doesn't stimulate her. Neither being rude. It's made to look like women like cold hearted guys. But the reality is that they see a guy who is reserved as serious and masculine, not cold, someone who doesn't take shit and knows what he wants. Girls like a well put together guy who is determined, decisive, bold, confident and a pillar of strength. A ruthless guy exudes these qualities. At the same time she doesn't want him to be rude to her, just direct, serious, masculine and authentic. Simps don't exude such qualities, they show dependency on the woman, which is a big turn off since women like a man who is dependable rather than dependent. Women are attracted to strong personalities in men. Weakness drives them away. Much of what women are attracted to is based on biology, brain wiring, conditioning and evolution. Attraction is an unconscious unintentional involuntary process.

Sometimes he can be a bit deluded. Letting him know that serves a good purpose. And if it doesn't, no loss.

@Leo Gura you're making me laugh now. Cmon.

Pedophilia = love for kids.

Oof. Go ahead. No girl is gonna like it. But to each his own. I am glad my partner is too dirty. he gives me insane orgasms. I'm happy.

I was going to say this.

I can't imagine something like that. Are you not interested in giving the other person orgasms? What if they want orgasms?

@CARDOZZO nice list.

If you lead in a way that makes it look like she doesn't have a say in the relationship, it won't work for too long. Lead in a coaching guiding loving kind of way and always communicate why your approach is superior to hers or let her know why she should follow your lead or advice. This makes her more comfortable knowing that you always have her best interests in mind.

Yes of course. But the conversation needs to involve foreplay pre-sex. Define love. Love and sex are not the same thing although sex can be a biological way of showing love. Very much. The physical intimacy gets stronger with mutual arousals.

Yea it's vanilla sex. But when you truly love a partner at least in the moment, you want to give them maximum pleasure. You not only want them to orgasm you want them to orgasm multiple times. Personally I won't be satisfied until I see my partner orgasming to the max and orgasming even more. It makes me crazy happy to see the guy orgasm multiple times.

Impossible. You need arousal..

One more. Girls aren't attracted to cigarettes. One firm rule I had when I passed out of high school was that I would never date a guy who smokes cigs. The smell of cig smoke is unbearable and those chain smoker dudes have horrid temperament issues, they lose temper quickly and tend to be Hyper manic. So I learned to avoid and screen them out. Maybe control your cig addiction. Any interested girl will be eventually turned off if she saw that. I wanted to break up with a guy who used to smoke just for his smoking. It was tough for me to tolerate his habit.

This is so normal. Don't expect every date to turn out into a fairytale. Hardcore dating requires persistence and steely resilience. You have to pursue a shit ton of people (male or female is irrelevant) in order to find just 1 compatible person and even then it doesn't work sometimes. Now you might reach the relationship stage and it can result in a breakup People aren't easy to win, men or women. Both can skip and flake on the pettiest reasons, this is default. One of the key lessons in dating is that it's rarely ever successful. It's worse than having a career. A career at least pays off your hard work. Dating isn't like that. You could be struggling even after a ton of hard work and self improvement. You might still not find that perfect match and if you finally did find that perfect person, they might suddenly leave you for no reason, this is even after a relationship. Relationships and dating are the most unstable components of life and you need to accept this, you're no exception to the rule, everyone is suffering equally and just like you. The only people who don't suffer are those that are insanely lucky to have stumbled on their soulmate right after the first few attempts, this is rare and also requires that the person be insanely attractive, emotionally intelligent, extremely social and great with people skills in general. If you don't tick any of the aforementioned boxes, then sorry, you have to accept that dating is going to be incredibly harder for you than a guy who is already successful and generally good with the ladies. Trust me, most people suck at social stuff. The so called social butterflies are actually very rare. Most people struggle with dating and you're no different. Just relax and keep trying to find new people and friends every day. Don't change yourself because it's difficult to keep up and attracts wrong kind of people. Just be authentic and keep connecting socially. Expose yourself to larger crowds, meet more people. You will find someone who takes interest and likes talking to you. Be good at talking. It's not so much about selling yourself. It's just being good at talk. Girls generally do not like over the top explicit sexual talk right off the bat,, it appears as cringe. So avoid rookie mistakes. I remember my high school days. I used to be attracted to dudes who had a firm personality, dominant style. They were romantic and knew how to tease me. Be good at getting attention of the girl. But don't act desperate or obsessive with getting attention. You have to know the push pull technique. Try to get the attention of a girl but know when to switch off the supply. Don't bamboozle. Most girls don't appreciate being chased too much, they won't respect you. Girls like a bit of you acting like you don't give a damn. Have that bad boy attitude. Not Stereotypical nice guy. Most girls don't care about nice guy because they don't challenge them. They just appear uninteresting. What makes you interesting is positioning yourself as a high value masculine. Women are biologically wired to be attracted to the most masculine in the bunch. The guy who appears more dare devil, more grounded, more firm in his Masculinity (even if you have to fake it, but fakes get caught later lol), the guy who leads the girl, the guy who takes charge of the conversation, respects his own value, doesn't come off as insecure, is intellectually sharp and knows how to command his value is the one who ends up attracting a ton of females to choose from....in short high value male. Dating is ruthless, challenging, hard and cruel and requires a mega ton of effort. So don't blame yourself. The game is already rigged against humans.

Yea don't send dick pics and I'll be ok. Thanks.

Then you should not read my journals. You'll get a lot of that everyday. Just saying.

This is a stereotype. All alpha men aren't abusive. Stage Blue collar Alpha men are much better. They care for their wife.

I freaking love that video. Post the whole video lol. It's a treasure.