Tyler Robinson

I respect bisexual people..it's just that I don't want to date them. I would feel awkward if he is looking at a guy. I won't find it masculine. I don't find it attractive. Biphobic means hating bi people. I don't hate them. But that doesn't mean that I should date someone that doesn't feel attractive in my brain. If I'm attracted to a heterosexual guy that's easy because I am heterosexual. Wanting someone who is similar to you sexually, nothing wrong with it. Sexual preferences are key in relationships.

So if I don't sleep with a transgender, I'm transphobic? Glad to know that I have zero autonomy over my sexual preferences.

A man can never love me forever anyway.

Embodying manhood into my personality.

So I was pretty much stage Green for the whole year. But past few weeks I'm experiencing a pull towards stage Blue. (Andrew Tot effect, lol joking) I'm liking the discipline, moral integrity aspect of stage Blue. I used to have a shadow against stage Blue. I thought of Blue as cruel moralizing judgemental people. Lately I've been witnessing a different side to Blue - the sacrificial sacred side. Parents sacrificing and saving up money for their kids, instilling strong values so that their kids will turn into disciplined hard working adults. Although I always had a rebellious freaky personality, I'm beginning to see the wisdom in conformism. Not all conformist patterns are bad. Sometimes we need conformist trends for a peaceful society. I'm regressing a bit into Blue. Now im dangling between Blue and Green.. This space is tiny but not that bad. A tiny sliver of stage Blue conformity and stage green freedom. Anyone here experienced this form of regression while they were at Green?

Do you believe in being someone's fan. People say they are Kanye's fans. There are Tate fans. Leo Gura fans. Personally I don't like being someone's fan. You can't really appreciate someone forever. People change. Things change. One day you're a fan of someone. Next day you read about a scandal they were involved in and all your aspirations and dreams about that person crumbles to the ground like a house turning to cinders. I think it's a sign of intellectual maturity to not give into the silly game of being tacitly attached to someone, it's a game of validation, and a way of simping yourself in the process. It actually hurts your personal development, you grow deeper into the biased rabbit hole and drink the Kool aid directly from the cup and lose your sense of self and integrity in the process. Tiktok is a great reminder of this phenomenon online. You see many people on Tiktok claiming to be fans of people they have barely watched or known anything about. It looks appealing but is dangerously misleading. I see it tantamount to peer pressure and equally harmful on your self development journey. I don't know your thoughts and perspectives on this subject. It inhibits critical thinking and increases dependency on social validation. I try to keep it simple. My strategy is this. Appreciate the person in the moment for what they do in that moment. Don't become a fan. Don't be attached to a person.. That way you will have less disappointments when things go south. The intellectually matured thing to do is to take in all the good things, keep yourself open to all kinds of possibilities, never be a hard fan, never lose critical thinking and never be shy from turning away from what doesn't go with your general values and principles, not be afraid to speak your mind, criticize when you can, appreciate when you can, you'll never be blindsided, brainwashed and never fall into rabbit holes. You never have to be on someone's camp or deal with the burdens of being a fan. This way you allow minimum influence in your life and maximum gain. At the same time you stay grounded and morally sane. No need to guilt yourself if you aren't someone's fan, you don't have to be and you don't have to submit to this pathetic culture. You can be a lonewolf and be proud. Perspectives welcome.

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Baby sometimes it's hard I know.

Cool.

Just close your eyes right now. Right now. Think of the words — God realization. Think for 2 minutes. Ya'll are intelligent, 2 minutes are enough. Now open your eyes you silly monkeys. Now tell me what came to your mind when you thought about God Realization. Just say it off the top of your head,whatever your mind thought.

Your heart needs to melt a little. Don't worry. One day some girl will make you go nuts.

I've noticed that Jewish communities are extraordinarily successful. What's their secret?

Bump.

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Yea. It's a deal breaker. Mostly it's an indication of loose morals. A guy who cheated on his ex etc. These are red flags to never ignore. And if I were a guy, I wouldn't want a woman who did questionable things as mentioned. I would dump immediately in both situations. Nobody got time to deal with trash. Dating is a cruel game. It's a place where your survival is important. You can't take chances with someone who will screw you squarely in your face. The most common problem in dating is not lack of compassion, that's abundant and most people are way more forgiving when they like the person they are dating. The most common problem is rather the opposite of lack of compassion — lack of wisdom, lack of strictness causing people to ignore blatant red flags. Most abusive and toxic relationships have a common starting point - the ignoring and forgiving of red flags. Once you are unable to enforce strict moral standards and boundaries, your relationship becomes a gateway for abuse and toxicity. It's often too late to get out of the dirty pond you find yourself in,because you get attached.. Your moral boundaries need to be clear. Also you need to follow through yourself if you expect others to stand up to those standards.

@Loving Radiance thank you.

This is immature. Both men and women have to compromise to make things work. You don't lose anything when you willingly do something for another. It's your way of showing love. It's one thing to be yourself in situations where your core values are challenged example peer pressure situations. And it's a completely different thing to devote lovingly to your partner to see them happy. If in the future I am married and my husband wasn't happy with my anger issues, I mist put effort to change myself to make his life easier with me. This is not some kind of slavery or passivity, it's a form of commitment and service to the other. I would expect the same out of him. Your approach lacks maturity, understanding and compassion.

I love listening to asmr videos. They calm me down.

I'm also trying to look at ways to engage myself.