Joseph Maynor

Highly recommended to watch. This interview changed my life I think. It had a big impact on me.

Thinking doesn't stop but you stop clinging to thinking like a baby clinging to a baby blanket. The idealism of thinking is seen through. It's really just a transformation in how you ARE or how you BE, that's what Enlightenment is. It snaps you out of a certain kind of getting lost in stories mentality that a lot of people are trained with and don't know any better.

I love this. That's what happens too.

I don't think I've ever personally talked to anyone about Enlightenment who didn’t already know something about it. It's never actually come up for me.

Good for you.

Hang in there.

For me the Path was like I had to move into the theory and embody the theory and that led to one kind of awakening. Then later all the theory fell away and that led to another kind of awakening. But now I don’t say reality is an illusion because that’s a belief. I just let things be what they are and deal with my life much more pragmatically rather than clinging to need to know Truth all the time. Truth is a concept and issue that the Spiritual Ego keeps alive even when it’s not useful to do so. There are pros and cons to everything, even clinging to Truth.

Because people don’t know how to rest as Awareness.

You sound like you just read Kierkegaard.

Good. I'll take a break from running me for a while.

But it's all an illusion SOUL don't you get it! You've created your own illusion, you busy man!

We do it all the time already. Enlightenment peeps are basically teaching you how to look at the self through the lens of No Ego. We already inherently look at ourselves through the lens of Ego.

You can look at you through the lens of free will. You can look at you through the lens of no free will.

The mind is always focused ahead and this is fine -- but what Enlightenment does is suck you right into the pragmatic (not theoretical) Now. This is what grounds you in BE-ING in the present moment. The key to the mind is to realize that the mind is looking out for your Ego, and this can be re-framed as a good, helpful thing. The mind is what allows you to prepare.

Everything I do in my Daily Routine/ Schedule is meaningful to me.

Because Enlightenment is not a belief or a concept.

It doesn't really map to it directly. You can think of Maslow's stages as giving you information for Small Picture Life Purpose Work. Small Picture Life Purpose Work is where you identify your Actual Problem Situations and find sustainable solutions to them. The Self-Actualization and Self-Transcendence stages map more to Spiral Dynamics than the lower Maslow stages.

Finding my Big Picture Life Purpose.

Enlightenment is not a story. Enlightenment is not a belief.

This is a tricky question actually. First of all there's your Daily Routine/ Schedule and then there's your projects, which for me are in their own Projects Binder. My recommendation for the Daily Routine/ Schedule is get the whole schedule set up even if you don't complete every item every day. What this means is that all the tasks of your Daily Routine should be identified and looked at every day. I use a Post-It Note method for these where I have one task per and I use a door well to move Post-It's from the right side to the left side as I complete my day. Now, regarding projects, those are where you might want to do like 1 or 2 at a time because you're trying to get a sustainable solution. For me right now I'm really only implementing two projects. The first project I've implemented is quitting drinking alcohol, which I did a couple of weeks ago now. The second project is to wake up at 8 am every day whether I want to or not and to devote 9-5 pm to my Work Day. When I say wake up at 8 am every day that means every day, and that's why you don't really want to implement too many projects at once because you want to actually complete each project. You can kinda fudge on your Daily Routine/ Schedule but you don't really want to fudge on your projects. Each project needs a permanent and sustainable solution.

I think your brutal honesty is a good trait. You never conceal things and you just put it all out there, which is a really good trait to have in this work. A lot of people are afraid to be so open. But when you’re open then people can come help you. You’ve done a good job being open your issues on here.

I laugh at my own attempts at humor but I’m not really keen on being a funny dude because I think it’s a bit phony and manipulative. The more relaxed I am with you, the more I’ll show my natural humor. I’ve never really had the kind of up front humor that readily attracts women or anything like that. I’ve always seen that kind of patronizing personality as distasteful. Women don’t really see it as patronizing because they don’t understand what men are doing with humor — they don’t see the underlying motive. I realize a lot of men evolved and learned humor as a tool to attract women and to manipulate situations. I never even bothered to play that game. Laughing to me is great, but I’ve always preferred other things a bit more than laughing. Laughing too much to me seems like kind of a vice. Being too silly is annoying. I’ve been around too many funny dudes who neurotically feel the need to try to be funny all the time and it just gets to be too much. I see the manipulation side of humor more so than most people do I think.

Good idea!

I’m so sorry to hear this happened to your family.