Joseph Maynor

@Simon Håkansson No. that would be like becoming addicted to reality. Reality can be cool, but to say you could become addicted to it is probably not possible. Make sure you are distinguishing meditation from beliefs. Meditation ain't got nothing to do with beliefs. All beliefs are existentially false. Meditation is not true or false in that manner. Meditation is just nap-time for the mind and re-connecting with the Absolute, which is your True nature. You can't be addicted to being yourself, unless you are some kind of narcissist perhaps. Although God is you, don't go crazy with that.

1. You have to do life-purpose and enlightenment work to the point where you see that the addiction has got to go, there are no if-ands-or-buts about it. 2. Plan a date to pull-the-trigger to go cold-turkey that is like 2-weeks out. 3. Treat quitting like a little project. Say goodbye to your little friend. He served you well, but he's getting in the way now and has to go. 4. When the D-day comes, that's your last day playing video-games. So, see, do it as a 2 week process. Video-games were good to you, you don't want to just dump them like a turd. Give your friend a proper farewell. When you abruptly quit, the ego likes to move the addiction to the shadow and you get the "dry-drunk" phenomenon. Video-games are cool, they're just a distraction to you now. They're robbing you of your focus and attention which needs to be squarely on actualizing your compelling life purpose -- living a BIG, inspiring, rare, prolific-life. You ain't got the time to waste! Our finite-time is dying every hour. We gotta get serious with our limited time, energy, willpower, and focus. Every ounce of misplaced energy is a cryin'-shame. You owe it both to yourself and to humanity to accept the Hero's call, to follow the principle of right-action, and to welcome the emotional-labor required to actualize your compelling cause and life-purpose.

I wanna baby step me in some yoga practices. I was reading Leo's blog post and got sold on the importance of yoga. https://www.actualized.org/insights/yoga-ftw

@Dodo I got off spirituality and am now addicted to personal development practice, not theory. Spirituality is a molehill compared to the mountain of personal development. Separates the men from the boys.

Awesome advice. The key is to make sure you only spend 5 mins on each item, no more. Also, select very carefully what projects are in the binder. And finally, do the binder once per day, no matter what. Those are the rules.

@Lynnel Read your personal mission statement, do 5 minutes of affirmations, meditate for 1 hour. Do negative visualization practice for 5 mins. Eat breakfast. I went so long not eating breakfast, but it sets up your whole day. Give yourself time in the morning, don't be rushing around. Nurture your day by watering yourself properly in the morning like a houseplant basking in the new day's sun. Your morning routine should tee up your entire day. Then you can go out there and kill it with your work.

Existence and non existence is a duality that the mind places on top of reality. Reality doesn't fit into that duality. Reality transcends life and death. Existence vs non-existence is a monkey-mind conceptual duality that reality laughs off. Life and death are thought-stories that are existentially illusory. Reality just is, and it is one.

Do this affirmation every day for 5 mins: I can handle any challenge, any situation that life throws at me. Transition from a caged life to a comfortable life to a charged life. Commit to living a charged life. Strengthen commitment to your life purpose, a huge source of intrinsic motivation and energy. Be a prolific creator in your life. Be excited for all the content that you have coming out and are producing. The content that is implementing your life purpose. Always be advancing your life purpose with your time. Are you doing that? Have a cause you are willing to bleed and die for that is in line with your highest values. Dedicate your life to your life purpose, which includes living the excellent life. Have powerful routines you are living out every day. Start a habit of doing the right thing rather than the comfortable thing. Willpower is your ability to live in accordance with your higher values. Build discipline and willpower by resisting lower urges. Willpower is a muscle that needs exercise. Realize that. Taking right actions builds up willpower. Following daily routines builds up willpower. Working hard implementing your life purpose builds up willpower. The more willpower you have, the stronger you will feel and the more self-efficacy you will have. Exercise, clean diet, removing all addictions including internet and phone, build willpower. Read this affirmation daily: I am a creator, I have belief in myself, I have self-esteem, I have resourcefulness, I have drive, I have a vision, I have goals. I have self-control, I have discipline, I have emotional mastery. And now my inner reality is so strong that I impose it on the outer world, and I change the outer world to be whatever I want it to be. Strategically install permanent solutions to your underlying problems in your life. When you start to get enough permanent solutions into place, your permanent foundation is installed into place. Mission statements are important because they keep you principle centered. People that are principle centered are grounded. They are enforcing their reality on the world. Set discipline and self-control as part of your top 10 values. Want peak performance. Understand why you want peak performance. This will get you juiced up to go out there and perform on your life purpose. It takes emotional labor, toil, and strain to make your life purpose results real. You need to go out there and push yourself and grow. Your life needs to be proceeding along a trajectory. Your life purpose is larger than you -- you are advancing the cause of humanity in some way. Every hour of your work should be advancing your life purpose in some way. Appreciate the boring, grindy, tedious work -- and consider it bleeding for your values, for your work. You are bleeding for what you believe in. You are struggling for your cause and purpose in life. You need hard work, commitment, and persistence. Stay on the path, live your values, and advance your cause and purpose in life. You should grow to love taking your actions everyday. Align your actions with your higher values. Successful people work their asses off. Work and play blurs though because you're doing what you authentically want to be doing. You want to live your life big. If you half-ass your life, you're gonna get a mediocre life. You need to set the intention to create an extraordinary life. Be all in in your life. Be mindful of your life purpose at all times. Live up to the courage you need to go out there and live it. You need to become fearless. Working your ass off for something bigger than yourself is the glory of life, it's what inspires you, and it's what motivates you and other people. Life is short. You only have this one chance. It's worth it to make your life BIG. All leadership starts with leading yourself. Train yourself to resist short-term gratification. Action is essential to all results and trumps thinking, talking, or planning. Live your life by deliberately chosen principles. Be principle centered. Develop the habit of thinking about the things you want to create in your life. Eliminate extrinsic motivation as a source of motivation in your life. All your motivation should be coming from inside you, from your passion for creating your extraordinary life. Get excited! This is damn exciting! Develop the habit of re-framing negative situations into positive ones. Strategize about unleashing your full potential in this one, short life that is yours to create and experience. Create a work of art with your life and work-product that is beautiful and that will live on forever. Make your life and life's work outlast you, inspiring humanity for years to come after you die. Lean into emotional labor -- don't shy away from situations that feel emotionally difficult. Your lower self, that emotional weasel inside you that wants comfort and an easy life, needs to be checked. Develop the habit of mentally visualizing every single day what you want your life to be like. This means set a habit to do this for 5 mins in your daily routine somewhere. (Personal development theory that doesn't get converted into practice is just mental masturbation. Remember that. Always be thinking -- how can I make a daily routine out of this idea.) The biggest thing you should fear in your life is that you wasted your life, this one shot that you got. If you don't have a life purpose nothing is grounding you in what you are doing. You're like a leaf being blown around in the wind. Have a point outside of yourself that you are moving towards and be very clear about it. Step outside of your comfort zone and endure some emotional discomfort. Be persistent and never quit. Get to the place where your higher-self takes control over your lower-self. When you act disciplined and consistently, you build self-control. Don't forget about the importance of consistent action. Going to the gym once doesn't do shit. Doing it everyday on a daily routine is what causes results. So, you need consistent, routine actions, not a few one-offs, to see real results. The lower-self just wants to plug into something and let go. You gotta keep this from happening. Eliminate your stupid distractions. They're killing your life potential. Your mind has to be focused on whatever it is that you need to be doing. Bring your thoughts to a point and eliminate distractions. Be proactive -- take control over your circumstances and take initiative. Make decisions that increase your agency over your external circumstances. Do not be passive. Do not be a victim. Set effective goals -- develop the habit of setting, writing down, and constantly refining your goals. Have short-term, medium-term, and very long-term goals. Get goals that are specific, compelling, and aligned with your highest values. Apply deliberate practice to important areas of life that you've committed to mastering that will advance your cause and purpose in life. Work in block time. Use the Pomodoro method. Start doing this. Don't just read this and go uh huh. You gotta implement this. Wire it in today. It will boost your productivity massively.

Let's make a list "I can handle any challenge, any situation that life throws at me."

There's a huge problem with being paradigm-locked in the rationalist paradigm trying to understand the Absolute. Make sure you kick away the theory and just be the Absolute, be God. Enlightenment is about being the Truth, not understanding the truth. There is no right theory of enlightenment, they're all stories. You can't communicate being, you gotta be being. Be the higher self and God simultaneously. Like 2 sides of the same coin -- reality has no distinctions. Talking about enlightenment is like engaging in metaphorical dancing – it mindlessly amuses itself at cross-purposes to the Truth. God laughs at our beliefs masquerading as the Truth. Similar to quietly and nervously chuckling at a naive child enthusiastically communicating some half-baked insight. It don't work like that kid, we snort internally. The lesson I get from Leo's video "Understanding Absolute Infinity Volume 1" is the stupidity of trying to conceptualize the Absolute. Really, all that video does is give massive reasons why not to try and do this. That was my ultimate takeaway. I had to watch that video like 4 or 5 times to get that. Reality is arational. The rational mind will never conceptualize reality. It's overconfidence to the insane degree. It's like trying to fit a round peg into a square hole. Concepts and enlightenment don't like each other at all. But then all concepts are part of reality too, so enlightenment does, in part, have a conceptual component, a paradoxical result. Saying it doesn't would pooh-pooh the importance of theory in enlightenment, which is like ignoring the purple elephant sitting on your couch. How many enlightened people never studied any enlightenment theory? [crickets] Note: The distinction between conceptual and non-conceptual is also a dichotomy, a story. The theory canoe bridges the stream, but must be left on the opposite shore once the stream is safely crossed. Utilize the theory, but take great care not to cling to it too tightly or to identify with it too much. That's the key. Dynamic balance is the key. I like stories too, but learn to see through them for what they really are -- and that's what enlightenment is really all about! Enlightenment doesn't mean judging theory or tossing theory. It means becoming higher-conscious about what theory is existentially. Theory is not bad, what is bad is the way that we cling to and interpret theory. The true sage accumulates a vast amount of theory and knowledge, and he applies this wisdom in his life and embodies it. But he also knows theory's limitations and its true nature, and he knows how to dynamically cling to and release theory like a masterful unicyclist confidently navigating an uneven and uncertain path. So, the dichotomy of theory being good or bad is really low-conscious and stupid. It's conceptual, do you see that? It's a brain-fart of the rationalist paradigm. Here's the bottom line: Use and believe in theory freely, but don't become addicted to it and don't cling too tightly to it. Even this "advice" is a story. See? God laughs at this like an embarrassed parent witnessing their child make a huge spectacle. Video on point:

Heck yeah. They're all good. Here's a good early one. The Charged Life. And then -- Be Prolific.

There's a dynamic balance between knowing and not-knowing that you must find in your life. A dynamic balance between theory and practice. It's all about having that right balance in the moment. The harmonization of the Tao, the synergy and harmonization of Yin and Yang. Where reasonable judgment and practicality merge. Too much theory and you become a nut. Too little theory and you become a brute. Watch all of these if you want to learn about the big -picture standpoint in personal development regarding knowing versus not knowing. A lot of people never get to this level of awareness, they remain controlled by their beliefs and ideologies. The ego is very, very sneaky! You gotta get to the point where you know how to treat beliefs in your life basically. It's both complex and very simple paradoxically, and that's because once you see reality for what it is, the problem dissolves. You will feel like 100 pounds were lifted from your shoulders. Right idea, right time, right result, right feeling, right insight. Balance that unicycle! Show us what that thang can do. Pop a wheelie! Get to the point where you can pop a wheelie. Right practice is key. Right daily-routines.

I think stage yellow is the first high-consciousness or enlightened stage. Yellow sees the paradox of reality, which comes from non-dual consciousness. Yellow is not stuck in the rationalist paradigm and sees everything as inter-connected systemically. Yellow has very high-awareness and is also very comfortable with facing reality head on. That's what causes systems thinking. Yellow is interested in finding sustainable, systemic solutions to the problems that they care about. Personal development and self-help theory is a stage yellow system. You're rigging-in little permanent solution modules (routines) to address certain pin-pointed underlying problems in the distributed system which is you. But what separates yellow from orange is yellow acts with selfless rather than egoic motives. Yellow keeps stage green's dream of helping to advance humanity, contributing to humanity, to the greater good, in some way. Yellow is a higher-consciousness stage orange basically. Now you can kind of see where stage turquoise is born out of. Yellow becoming more collectivist is one arrow of change. The solo-flier becomes a synergizer.

Don't prejudge so much. Follow your intuition and stop trying to control the future on this. You don't know what lies ahead. It's like trying to grow up faster than Nature intends. Let it unfold naturally. There is nothing existentially bad about success or fame. It all depends on whether it's authentic to you or not.

Nah. You need it. Enlightenment is a necessary element for self-transcendence and self-actualization, Maslow's highest stages. Enlightenment is about reality. It's not just some hacky happiness theory. You become happy when you get clarity about reality. You'll realize all your problems are in your own head, and you'll be flummoxed to witness all these formerly cancerous obstacles drop away and release like dead leaves from a fall tree.

I see it without psychedelics. Not trying to brag by any means. Here's the paradox -- it's both the most complicated and least complicated thing ever✌? You gotta experience what all this poetry is pointing you to. The infinite field of oneness. The conceptionless present field of awareness. Be it. You gotta be it. Turn the conceptual mind off and be it. The finite and the infinite are one. Start to see how you and God are both distinct and the same. Another paradox. But again you gotta be this, the theory is just pointing you to be the Truth. Even seeing the truth is too conceptual. You are the Truth. Nothing is hidden.

What is preventing you from doing X? What is preventing you from getting new paying clients? What is preventing you from finding that BIG life purpose? What is preventing you from getting that hot girlfriend? Why is this question -- What is preventing you from doing X ?-- so powerful

I'm pretty sure the lower 4 chakras are the ones I need to work on most. I'd like to start with root and work up to heart.

What about this one -- believing that you have limiting beliefs at all. You have no limiting beliefs unless you believe that you have limiting beliefs. You're not gonna get this until you work on spiritual enlightenment, but it is a little taste of why enlightenment is important in personal development. Thought doesn't limit reality.

@sleeperstakes What is your cause and purpose in your life? What is the trajectory of your life?

I've watched Leo's video on Law of Attraction as well. I am very practical minded and follow procedures or rules very well. Can somebody give me a procedure for practicing law of attraction? Like, let's assume I am going to be sitting down with pen in hand for 20 minutes per day to do law of attraction work, what would you advise me to do? I'm excited to hear your responses! I want to start integrating in this practice because it "sounds good" although time will tell for me whether it works or not. I'm willing to give it a college try.

I find that the Blueprint contains a lot of the Yang principles that complement the more Yin principles of Enlightenment. The Tao is a harmonizing of Yang and Yin -- of fucking the world and accepting the world. There's a proper balance there for personal development. Focusing on enlightenment too much is like having too much Yin. Don't forget about Yang. Living a big life, going out there and taking massive action to change the world, is Yang. The Blueprint reflects a lot of Yang. Early Leo was a lot more Yang. You need to harmonize Yin and Yang to become one with the Tao. We are both God and Man, ego-less and ego. Don't try to deny the latter to the exclusion of the former. Embrace this paradox and work both sides of it. That's the biggest picture of personal development. The wisest perspective. I see a danger of people spiritually bypassing in Yin and not going out there and living a big life and changing the world. That takes big balls and massive action, it takes Yang. Our lives should be sacrificed to Highlighting artworks of Maya, yes, but let's be that firework that is spectacular not the firework that hides in the Self. No hiding and taking the easy road, the in your head road! We owe it to give ourselves to the world and work our asses off every day to be all we can be. This ain't no inward psychedelic trip, this is outward raw action and raw results. Live out, out, out. That's the correction of Yang to Yin. Harmonize both and you will be truly great. Heroes do not live in their heads, they have the courage and energy and action to manifest in the world. Manifest! Get out of the excuse of being introverted, that's an insidious limiting belief and trap. Do or not do, there is no try. Heroes do. Heroes don't spiritually bypass. Always do what's emotionally most difficult to do. Balancing the unicycle over terrain is balancing Yin and Yang as well as awareness enables us to. And realizing that reality transcends Yin and Yang, but is also approximated by their harmonization. The harmonization of will and no will, self and no self, knowing and not knowing, action and non-action, selfishness and selflessness, theory and practice, mind and body, ego and no ego, the existential and the practical. That beautiful dynamic balance that the true master of personal development proves to us on the unicycle. Wow! -- such amazing skill, how did he get so good, we wonder? By daily practice of true dynamic balancing, that's how. Yin and yang: that succulent admixture of both at the right place and the right time -- like a masterful chef intuitively sprinkling-in just the right actions to manifest a great dish. A glorious showcasing of Maya. He brings the sculpture out of the marble as it were. Don't overlook Yang! True art is your outward results. Your life should be that artwork. Your only job is to manifest you, all of you, in this world, a highlighting of a beautiful object in Maya, to hold and to keep forever. True Immortality. All your inner-work is secondary and petty compared to this commitment. This outward-focused commitment to excellence, contribution, and selflessness. Watch this video on point: Some great ideas about Yin and Yang by Emerald. Another mandatory video on point: Excellent video about Yang.

Haha. Baby step it. Spend 5 mins per day working on the binder to start. The surefire way of beating procrastination is to touch everything that you want to be working on everyday for 5 minutes. Procrastination is an irrational fear that gains a foothold when we put things off, when we resist touching them. I call this fear irrational because the fear snowballs as we resist getting started. Then when we bust through that fear we realize how we have greatly over-estimated how hard the task was to do. Procrastination can be avoided by preventing this fear from developing in the first place.

Anything to do with being self-employed. Create your own job. Find a way to be an abundance of value in a manner that makes wallets crack. It's that simple. Sit behind a computer, talk on the phone, make some artifact or provide some service that pays you some sustainable dividends. Try to find a skill that you can commit to master your whole life.

Stage Yellow is all about systems thinking. Stage Yellow is also enlightened, I don't see how they could not be. Some ideas that I have collated about systems that might interest you: 1. Systems are all about balance and harmony. 2. Systems respond to outside forces in complex ways. 3. There are no absolute truths for Stage Yellow. All there is is a bunch of partial perspectives. And every perspective is partial. 4. Almost everything can be thought of as a system. Almost all problems are systemic problems. 5. Belief in your beliefs is dogma and it's what is holding back every stage below Stage Yellow. 6. Stage Yellow is ecological in their thinking. 7. Systems work in counter-intuitive ways. They don't work in overly simplistic ways. 8. When there's a larger system at work that we don't understand, this is a cause of failure and problems. 9. Stage Yellow realizes that life is paradoxical. 10. Stage Yellow sees the world as perspectives and in shades of grey and sees the world as systems to solve the problems that they care about. 11. Systems resist you trying to change them. 12. The dogmatic person, every stage under Stage Yellow, pulls out the pitchfork when somebody offends them or attacks their worldview. This is an adversarial relationship with reality and life. Instead of getting defensive, look over what was said and see if there is something there or a way to expand your model or growth to cover the new facts. Stage Yellow has a robust model of the world. And Stage Yellow always assumes that they could be wrong and is open-minded. 13. The ego is a system. 14. If you feel that your perspective of the world is the Truth, you are not at Stage Yellow. 15. Stage Yellow sees the world from the perspective of interconnected systems. These systems interact with each other in interesting and counter-intuitive ways. The subconscious mind is also a system. To change a system you have to understand it first to avoid traps. 16. Think of systems as organisms and meta-organisms. 17. You are a conflicted system maintaining homeostasis. By raising awareness, the web of beliefs starts to restructure itself naturally. 18. When you get angry, stop and look at the big picture. Your point of view is not the dominant point of view. So what you judge as evil is not what evil is. There are no divisions. Your partition gets encroached upon because it's part of a larger system where encroachment happens. 19. Systems thinking requires that you start to step outside your self-centered view of the world. You have to be conscious enough to step outside of your own value system and genuinely care about other beings besides yourself and your tribe. 20. Systems are non-linear. This means that they are unpredictable and chaotic. 21. Stage Yellow gives up rationalism and absolute truth. 22. You're a distributed system not a centralized system. 23. Set realistic, pragmatic expectations regarding making change in your life. Expect that your subconscious mind and body systems will play tricks on you to resist the change to maintain homeostasis. 24. Think of everything as a system. 25. Problems are systemic and not personal. Poorly designed systems are creating the problems.