Arkandeus

I think names are an expression of ourselves...it's especially interesting to look at online nicknames. Mine is more affiliated magic and wizardry, 'arcane energies' , I've had this online name for a long time since I was like a teen.

@Salaam god damn, you've done well to expand our imagination and limits

hello fellow lightbringer

you don't need to do anything, you are complete, but you shouldn't ignore your sexual energy either. which means, if a relationship comes, and you feel the urge to engage, let it be so, but don't seek out a relationship for the sake of relationship. if you don't find a relationship, don't rub one off everyday. unless you really feel like it. I think there's a subtlety that monks and priests have missed. To be drunk in sexuality, whether it's masturbation or sex is indeed bad, I have felt it in the past, it robs you of your spiritual energy. But to ignore masturbation and sex fully is also bad. it's just growing a monster of frustration inside yourself, and that I have also tried in the past and felt the horribleness of it. the answer is in balance. the circumstance never mattered, it doesn't matter if you have sex or if you masturbate. It doesn't matter if you don't do these things. What matters is why, the physical act doesn't matter,but why do you do the things you do, the spiritual side. There's always a physical act and the spiritual side behind it. Let things come naturally. If you feel the urge to masturbate, do so, but don't do it when you don't feel the natural, don't seek it. Same with sex. Don't seek sex, let it come to you. Now this can be confusing, because as men, we often make the first move. You can make the first move without seeking. If the first move/approach feels completely natural, in flow, without any ulterior motive, it's not seeking. It's all in balance, to have sex or not doesn't matter, it's how you do it. Are you doing it out of fun,joy and flow or are you seeking to fulfill yourself, craving pleasure? to really accept and transcend sexuality is to let sexual energy be what it is, let it enter your life when it does, when it's not there, don't be frustrated don't seek it , when it's there embrace it

you came onto this world as a baby, crying your heart out, laughing your heart out. radiating a purity beyond this world a jewel of innocence and light, then you grow up and toke on the pains of this world. status starts to matter, distinction appears, confrontation, conflict, superiority, inferiority,fear...you were sub-merged in negative energy and its qualities. But that was your choice as a spiritual being, to learn and to grow from all this. Now that we're trying to rise let's take a look at the mind. Imagine someone, running. That person is running along a track. And you keep shouting things at that person. As the person turns left you shout : ''I'm gonna turn to the left now.'' As you see the person getting tired you shout : ''I'm starting to feel tired''. As you see the sun going down in the far distance you shout : ''the sun is going down now.'' That person starts to identify with your voice, your narrative. When the person is starting to doubt you, you do everything you can to maintain your existence. So now the person is interested in spirituality and is in a feeling state of investigation towards you. You cannot betray yourself, you have to play along even if you don't want the person to investigate you. you have to narrate his investigation otherwise it will be obvious you are a foreign existence to that person. So you shout : ''hmm, am I real, is this voice I'm hearing real?'' ''is the mind real?'' You start playing along. For the sake of maintaining your existence you play the part. You're an incredible actor. But you do well to steer the person in thinking you're real, at every chance you have, you strike with absolute intent. When the person feels sad or rejected you shout : ''no one likes me, they don't truly love me, I'm all alone'' The more a person feels disconnected from their surrounding the more they retract inside, they share less with others, they stifle their real selves and turn to your for identity. You feed them your garbage : ''I shouldn't show my real emotions otherwise I'll get hurt, I'll act friendly with this person,I'll use them, but with this person I'll try to control them. I shouldn't do that. I'll get hurt. That person is bad. That thing is bad. Those people are bad. I'm bad, unworthy but he's even more unworthy'' And as time goes, the narrative isn't the one adapting itself to the person. It's the person adapting itself to the narrative. The narrative needs conflict and distinction and will feed it to you in masses because in happiness, in bliss there is never any thinking. there is being. love is connection, it's freedom, it's space, to feel free and home wherever you are,to feel united with everything, it's expansion The mind is fear, it's contraction, it's distinction, it's crippling, it's crimping, it's retraction. intelligence is not absolute, it's a gradient, love is of higher intelligence and fear is of lower intelligence. Just as you have higher levels inside yourself you you also have lower levels. Fear is the pathway to lower intelligence while love is the path to higher intelligence. with this we can start deconstructing the mind as we understand it's purpose. If you are completely happy and fulfilled you will not be thinking most of the time, as you are too busy enjoying yourself. So the mind needs war, needs conflict to exist, so that you can start planning your ''defense''. And it will do everything it can to make you believe you're in a war with your own world, just so that it can survive. The less you know, the less you believe you can do, the more you feel like you're lacking control and resources, the more you feel like you need to gain control and resources, the more aggressive and violent you become. that's why the mind is of lower intelligence and of negative energy. It is not only that, it is a gateway to more of that. That's how people spiral out of control in murder, rape, war...they spiritually descent. It cannot embody love because it is not intelligent enough to do so. and when it does it's merely playing along. to make your mind think positive is to literally destroy it, which is why it's so hard to hold positive thoughts. Fear is the manifestation of negative energy, which leads to lower intelligence, less understanding, makes you believe in lack of control,and leads you downright to conflict and pain. Love is the manifestation of positive energy, higher intelligence and understanding. leads you upright to divinity That's why I say that intelligence is not static. You can higher or lower your intelligence at will depending on which energy you try to tune into. it's your choice there's no such thing as IQ scores in my book. they're merely a construct of the mind to bring division and confusion, making you believe your intelligence is static. Now to crack down on the mind is to see it's vulnerabilities. the cracks in the shields. The mind is of fear and cannot coexist with love so all it's vulnerabilities will show up when confronted to love. Have you ever heard you mind say ''we should kill that person or I wish that person would die'' and then you'd feel in your heart something completely different, you'd almost feel guilt and shock for that thought? Or if your mind constantly makes you feel rejected and you get tired of it at some point, tired of your own mind. That's what happens in depression, people's mind go haywire and it starts becoming very obvious that the mind is not working in their favor 'anymore'. The mind didn't go ''sick'', it was always sick, it merely stopped trying to hide its negative intent and be so subtle about it, as it grew stronger it just downright spiraled out of control. The ''ascension'' of the mind always ends in death, either suicide or murder. It is pure negative energy. The mind cannot co-exist with love. As you try to make yourself believe you're worthy of self-love, of divine ascension, of enlightenment, it will do everything it can to make you doubt it's possible or to make you feel unworthy. the mind cannot co-exist with higher intelligence. You think when you do math in your head, that your mind is helping you. No it's merely narrating what's already happening.On the contrary it's slow your abilities down to a crisp. You are able to do math instantly and effortlessly at higher levels of spirituality. Einstein said his greatest discoveries came ''out of nowhere'' upon himself.that they came to him as flashes of insight. As many other great scientists. As many great artists. We know that creativity is higher intelligence itself. Could anyone every think himself into painting something like leonardo davinci? Think yourself into making music like your favorite music artist? the proof is right in front of our eyes, our mind cannot and will never grasp concepts of higher intelligence. whether it's math,or science,or art, when you think the mind serves a purpose it's merely an illusion. Einstein theories came ''upon'' him because his mind couldn't grasp the concepts of it and make a narrative for it. They didn't come out of nowhere, they came out of himself, but the absence of the narrative, the vulnerability of the mind showed. The mind cannot make a narrative for what it doesn't understand. Which is why as you grow spiritually , your mind will automatically stop because your intelligence, your perspective, your actions will be completely incomprehensible to it. and if you want to grow, understand that fear in any form absolutely feeds the mind while love feeds your soul. To love is to expand, to understand, to feel free, there's nothing to fear if you understand everything, but to understand you must first love edit: I also have an exercise for you to show you directly in experience how slow and unintelligent the mind is compared to yourself. Try to walk,not automatically, but with thoughts. Plan your every move.Your every step.Plan the movement of your muscles. ''Move quadriceps, lift knee, lift knee, lift foot to the right, shift core....'' Sounds like madness right?Well try it and feel for yourself, how inept the mind is and how incredibly intelligent you are without it. How ungodly slow would it be to walk using your mind? That is what is going on with all of us. Walking our lives using our minds. It is incredibly slow and unintelligent, you can feel the immense difference for yourself in this exercise if you try it. Carefully planning our decisions and feelings, to ''plan'' is to breakdown your native intelligence to breadcrumps. How would you go through life if you stop using your mind for everything and just let yourself flow, the same way you flow when you walk? Your speed would be a thousand times higher...as your awareness is faster, your intelligence magnified to unimaginable heights, time slows down as you become aware of everything. That is being in the present moment, to not think, to not use your mind, is to accelerate, and to slow down everything, to transcend time itself , to be free of all conflict, and be launched into blissful eternity

mm not the first time I hear about her book,I might just check it out sometime

if I recall Jane Roberts is so high level spiritually she's able to channel her higher self directly into this dimension

very amazing and courageous post. remember don't be too hard on yourself, and view things in a gradient, rather then black and white. you have a portion of negative energy of discrimination inside you, you've done well to identify it. as you work it out you'll be able to embody higher qualities of love, you will enlighten more, good luck

your desire to not believe is proof that you're already not believing. if you didn't believe it you wouldn't desire to stop believing it. belief is like a gradient, there's doubt, then there's many different shades of believing, then there's knowing. the first stage, doubt is a void between different beliefs,it's like trying to tune yourself, then you have the beginnings of beliefs, which is where you're at. desire to belief, is the beginning of belief, you're not doubting anymore, you know what you want believe and you want to let it come down to your reality, you don't want to believe, you want to know without any doubt, that you're worth of being accepted. recognize that you're already believing. what did you do to start believing? nothing, it's effortless. you recognized something you desired, something you know is beneficial to your being. to change belief is to change your awareness. your awareness changed effortlessly, belief is effortless. you can't manufacture awareness, you can't ''do'' anything. you became aware of something and it entered your life, that's it, it's automatic. there's nothing more to do, you're already doing fine, as time goes, you will believe more and more automatically, just trust the process. recognize that you're already believing, relax into that mindset, to relax into your belief is to make it grow, the more you're comfortable and used to the idea that you're already believing, the more you will believe, till you can feel it with absolute certainty, till you know it. that's how belief works. know that you already believe, till your belief becomes what you know

where is the problem? your annoyance is the essence of your transformation, the proof that your entire being is paying very attention to the ego and it's chit-chatting. you are a thousand miles in front of people who don't even notice their ego. attention is as powerful as a nuclear reactor, nothing can last under your attention. you're already doing perfect, as you keep paying attention to the ego, as you keep being annoyed with it, it will be deconstructed. but the ego is an immense thing, you are taking on the pain of an entire civilization, the ego is not something that's part of you. don't expect the ego to disappear overnight, have respect for it, almost everyone on the planet is under it's influence, and many generations were....what you're doing is absolutely amazing, so be patient, be appreciative. be grateful that you're annoyed with the ego, the annoyance itself is the healing process, there's nothing more to do, just sit back and watch it fall like a desert slowing losing its grains of sand , your annoyance is the wind blowing them away

love is unconditional, it's an act of being. love is our true nature. how can you love unconditionally without love being your nature?if love is not your nature then you cannot give it unconditionally, you'd be trying to get something, to pretend deep down we are love, and that's why we imagine someone to be fully enlightened we imagined them to be beings of immense love. love is beyond the thinking mind. it's beyond reasons, status, qualifications.... It's easier to understand love when we look at animal relationships. People love their pets...do they love their pets because of a specific reason? because the pets dress nice?because the pets wear the latest fashion, because the pets have nice muscles, because the pets are cool?because the pets have a lot money? no, they love them because they are there, period, no condition, as pets have no ego the relations we have with our pets are sometimes more pure then the ones we have with our fellow humans. you don't expect your pet to go to college and be disappointed if it doesn't, unlike some parents towards their children. love is about loved just for being there, just for existing, that is true love. someone is there, you love them simply for being there there's a tree, you love the tree cause the tree is there. and why wouldn't you love the tree for being there? if you love someone just for them existing, there's not a single condition placed upon them, they're entirely free to do what they want, you'll still love them. people will absolutely love you when you're able to make it to that stage and radiate such a pure love full of freedom and affection. this is absolutely not pretend ....it is possible to love people that much,purely,genuinely, where you feel completely grateful and fulfilled to see a 'stranger' on the street. To feel a deep instant connection to person you never saw before,as if that person was always part of your family. I'm certainly not at that stage fully but I'm getting the glimpses of it here and there, so I know it's possible.

always see things in a gradient how resistant were you when you first started? how resistant are you now? how huge is that difference? now imagine that same decrease of resistance, between before and now, in a future setting like now and now in like 6 months. if you managed to decrease the resistance so much why wouldn't you be able to keep doing it? you can obliterate that resistance if you want to, slowly, gradually , and you could go beyond resistance....to the point where you approach meditation in an entirely new way. as you keep decreasing resistance what would resistance turn into? once you make it past that point where there is no resistance? that point of zero resistance a negative feelings turns positive, try to imagine the positive polarity of resistance and aim for that. your imagination is your limit.

One thing I've noticed is my spiritual growth is constant rising and falling. From hope to despair, to hope to despair.. I've been trying a find a way to rise constantly without falling but after my last fall I realized that even though I've fallen so much before, I've advanced a lot...so maybe failure is alright. Maybe real progress can be made not in focusing on your success, but at that critical threshold where you fall, give up. Progress in falling and rising. getting better at getting back up on your feet when you fall, when you've failed once more to do what you wanted, whether it is to get out of a habit, to get a hold of a certain emotion or negative thought. I once saw someone describe spirituality as two steps forward and one step back. To live and die, each time you lose hope and regain it, to rise from your ashes like a phoenix. I guess it's a post about accepting failure, not only as a part of life, but a part of your being, it might be the very way you work, to achieve and to fail, but you have to be able to be conscious enough to see that beyond the failure you're still advancing, that you're advancing thanks to the failure, that it serves a function. so to be able to see the worth in failure, and despair, to not be afraid of these things. the better you accept the feelings, the more you can learn from them and move on. That to me is the picture of a spiritual being having a human, all encompassing of all the emotions, we try avoid our bad feelings, maybe we should just see them in another way. but for that you have to truly see, that failure is a essential part of growing up instead of something holding you back

my advice, always follow the joy, follow what feels good. you do not ''need'' any specific spiritual practice to grow, there's no meditation that is so important that you can't grow without it. you are free to chose how you evolve, as you want it. one can try to awaken spiritually in a hardcore way by going hard, facing negative feelings as much as possible and that's fine if you're beginner and you're desperate to advance but ultimately the goal of enlightenment is to feel good. one has to keep that in mind, and ultimately the task to feel good will fall upon yourself, that's enlightenment. you'll be responsible to make yourself good, so the habit of going hard and pushing yourself because you're chasing something is never going to get you there. I think some people might be lost in this, thinking they can go as hard as possible till they reach a spiritual breaking point and boom, eternal bliss and happiness. That's not how it happens, that's too easy.that's why people fall in and out of enlightenment. going hard is easy, going slow is not the sooner you realize that you have to get rid of suffering yourself,it's not gonna fall out of spiritual sky, the more seriously you'll take your good feelings. you have to cultivate a state of good feelings, and that's only possible if you start paying attention to what feels good

I used to force myself to meditate when I started my path of spirituality and it had great effects. I think when you're not very much in touch with your natural self and you have all this dense energy trying to get you somewhere to force yourself to face your own mind is effective. For me now this changed, and instead of planning my meditation I let it come to me when I feel I need it. And I certainly stopped forcing. If I meditate it's to ground myself, to calm down the energies, to let new energies sink in. Whereas before I meditated just to be able to open my third eye, just to be able to familiarize myself with my own energies, with what was going on. There are many kinds of meditation and some are more useful depending on where you are. Nowadays I practice mostly moving meditation. Awareness at most times. When there's no immediate need to think, I don't. Though I see that meditation enters your life naturally in many forms...like a trip on a bus going to someplace, a waiting line, during a walk...there's always these natural quiet moments that come and give you a chance to meditate, and they're even more intense because they're unexpected.

every single detail in your life serves a purpose. I used to have the same feeling. Being bored by people's conversations. I used to even look down on people,thinking I was smarter then them. I'd take people for sheep, for idiots.... boy was I was wrong, it's gonna sting a bit,but if you find people uninteresting and stupid it's a mirror. there's no way around it, people are literally mirrors. I don't mean in it a bad way, I was stupid myself, to realize that you're doing that is a chance to open your heart to others and grow. to look down on someone is to look down on yourself, quite literally. people are only as interesting as you're able to comprehend. open your heart, start believing that people are interesting and intelligent and the wisdom to actually perceive that will flow down to you. Nowadays for me every conversation holds true meaning, whether it's a random encounter or a friend,I'm always learning. always being amazed by people of all kinds. And I see the huge intelligence in every single person. I assure you, it's there, every single person is amazingly interesting and intelligent. but you have to grow to see that. it's transcending, it's humbling. when I was young I used to look down on fishing. staying near a river all day long waiting for fish to bite?'' tsh how boring!'', I'd say. now I understand I was fooled by appearance, what does a fisherman see, what does he feel when he fishes? he could see and understand things beyond my imagination. you see as much complexity in things as your spiritual level allows you to.

this picture is called ''show yourself''

no source but my own my experiences, my own growth. remember your inner self is your greatest teacher, your intuition is your sense of wisdom, your higher self, to trust yourself is to cultivate it love is also a great teacher, only from a perspective of love can understanding flourish, fear is misunderstanding

you might be stuck in a conditioned pattern. you have to give your soul space to breath. are you keeping up this routine without allowing a single break? repeat after repeat? that's very constricting. if you can't allow a routine to stop for a short while then the routine is an identity prison. it should be perfectly ok for you to have a day or a week where you do none of these things if you don't feel like it. I'll share this tip; in order to be good at working hard, you need to be good at relaxing hard you can't expect yourself to keep working hard and going a hundred percent all the time. if you can't allow yourself a break, you can't allow yourself to unleash your full potential. if you can't allow failure, you can't allow success. the deeper the ocean, the stronger the waves. everyone knows how to manifest strong waves, how to go hard, but do you know how to go easy?how to manifest a deep ocean? I would focus on that as well.

to awake is to not stop playing the game of life. you incarnated as a human for a purpose, you wanted all these desires. to enlighten is to realize you don't need the desires, you are complete without them. you can see this as a return to the source but then you realize you still came here to do things, you still came here to play. from the source you go back into creation I like this quote : ''before enlightenment, play sports, eat, sweep the floor'' ''after enlightenment, play sports, eat, sweep the floor'' What changes is the way you view desires. you should never take your desires as something that will complete you but you shouldn't reject them either. if you feel like you're in pain if you don't get a certain desire, you're too attached. it should literally feel like a game, a very fun and light game. Don't get a certain desire? who cares you're complete! get one? yay! nothing changed, you're just playing around. you have to keep in mind you're a God, nothing can complete you, any desire is merely you playing around, so don't take anything seriously. the faster you detach you from your desires, the faster you will get access to them. if you're detached, you never notice when you don't get your desires...so you only notice when you get what you want, meaning you're always getting everything you want. you're immortal...you will realize every single of your desires and more, it's inevitable that everything you ever want, will happen. to detach is to transcend time, every desire will come in time, and if you don't notice the time between the desires you are always getting what you want

the moment he got angry he stopped trying to help you. this was a struggle of identity , for the psychologist. Many psychologists are actually open to spirituality and some aren't. I think it's important to keep perspective. Like he said, he did help you start reading again so I assumed he did help you in some ways. It's important to understand this, no teaching is perfect, and no teacher is perfect. As you evolve you meet new teachers, and you need new teachings, but that doesn't mean the previous teacher or teaching was bad, on the contrary it helped you move forward to where you are. there always come a point where things need to move on. You have to see things in a nuanced way, this person is not being of help to you now, this person even exploded on you.But he was of help before. I'd be grateful that this happened. It's your higher self guiding you. Now you can make a new choice, take on a new path. You can find a new teacher or teaching. A new psychologist or maybe you feel you don't need a psychologist anymore. You could also feel like there are still things to learn from this man and continue seeing him, it's all up to you and how you feel. Can you see the beauty in what happened? I really find it interesting. suddenly your psychologist burst out and releases his inner identity struggles, shows you his vulnerabilities, shows you his weakness, literally shows you that he's got nothing left to teach you anymore. In your position I'd seriously rejoice! things in your life are moving forward, accelerating, But again don't take this as an opportunity to look down on someone, a teacher or a teaching will always become obsolete, because you will always move on to bigger and newer things in your journey. It's important to keep respect for the things that helped as you move on. respect the way your psychologist helped you, forgive his outburst, or even be thankful to it, as you now decide where to go.

communication happens on an energy level, a subconscious level. if you want to help people you will not try to shoot them down and prove them wrong at every turn. understand that you are constantly vibrating an unique energy, you're in constant communication with others. Others can sense every one of your intentions subconsciously. What is your intention when you talk to others? Do you send out inviting waves of ''your opinion is completely fine, I see no issue with it, but I think this new perspective could possibly help you, you can take it or you can leave it, either way it's fine'' This is a very inviting and loving to actually help people. It's all in your intention. If you're sending out waves like this : ''you're wrong, and I know what's right, you need to listen to me if you want to be better, and if you don't something critical will happen in your life, you won't advance, I'm right so you absolutely need to take my perspective.'' Do you see the difference? the energy in the second part is completely dominant, it's not inviting, and it doesn't leave room for free will. In the first example you let the person chose. both intentions are an invitation to a new perspective but in an entirely different way;

You're already perfect in every way. It may have taken you many lifetimes or just one, who knows, to start seeing the truth behind the illusion of the mind. And it was no coincidence, all your doing up until now brought you here, to this open-mindedness you have. And that's fine, it's not about getting there, it's about the journey. The world is perfect as it is, the universe is infallible, it's infinitely intelligent. Society is perfect as it is. There's nothing wrong with it and there never was. There's nothing wrong with people who aren't self-actualizing. To be enlightened is to start seeing beyond pain and suffering. Beyond life and death, beyond duality. See beyond ''I'm at this stage and she's at this stage, he's there and I'm here, I'm above he's below..'' Everything is inherently neutral.Meaning everything is fine.Everything is perfect. The resistance you feel towards the state of society, towards your own state is guidance. The bad feelings are merely guidance to where you need to go. That doesn't mean there's something inherently bad going on. Bad feelings guide you to good feelings which guide you to new places in your journey as an immortal being. To be enlightened is to see as the universe sees, death and suffering, the things we resist the most, have their place in the universe otherwise they wouldn't exist. You may not be able to understand why these things have their place in life, because you're not at that spiritual level yet. But you can imagine there could be a reason, you can be open-minded to the idea that there is a good reason. This is trust, it's putting your trust in the universe. Trust that these things have their place in life, that everything has its place in life, from the most innocent child to the most violent murderer. You don't understand what the violent murderer is doing here, but you can trust. What's the meaning of a violent murderer in a cosmic play where everyone is immortal? maybe we don't know it yet But trust. Trust is the bridge between higher self and lower self. It's being open to higher possibilities. infinite possibilities. You've learned so much on your journey so far. Until you've actually reached the spiritual state where you can merge with all that is, with the universe itself,which will be in a journey as long as eternity, you're gonna have to be able to deal with the fact that some things you won't be able to know their meaning but that doesn't mean you should judge them, you should trust in infinite intelligence. To judge something is to judge yourself;. The judge is the one being judged. To judge is to separate yourself and bring duality into your consciousness. To get back to the main point, you need to have trust in every ''issue'' you seem to have in your life. This trust will allow you to relax. You may have heard that spirituality is not about seeking or chasing, or achieving a new state. You're already completely perfect, you're already divine. So what's it about? It's about releasing constriction, the constriction of illusion. The constriction in itself isn't wrong, the illusion of the ego isn't bad, but you may feel it's time to move to another part of your journey. I repeat there's nothing 'wrong' with not being enlightened, only someone's who's not enlightened would look down on people who are not. To enlighten is to release the chains, to let your deeper self flow through. It's there, just waiting to burst out, but it's constricted by fear. That's why I call enlightenment an exercise of relaxing. Relaxing all of your fears, so that you may flow naturally. It can only be done this way. If you're already perfect as you are, there's no stage, no state to reach. It's important to realize how you're changing. You're not adding to yourself,you're just trying to relax. Enlightenment IS this realization. There's nothing you need to do or change. As a result of this realization you will change, but you won't change because you're trying to reach a new state. You'll change because you'll naturally relax into yourself, you'll finally let go of all the stress of trying to be something you're not and reach bliss, reconnect with your fully natural self. So to recap it enlightenment is not about changing through actually changing yourself, it's about relaxing yourself. a deep relaxation into deeper levels of yourself, you can relax yourself into a state of absolute magic and bliss...but for that you have to actually fully believe that you are fine and perfect just the way you are right now. this very second as you're reading this, you're already completely perfect and complete. And this is where the fight against the ego will come in, with millions of reasons as to why you're not fine. that's why fear is the ultimate enemy, your chains are made of fear. any thought, any idea, any concept that is making you feel like you're lacking something in your life is wrong,it's an illusion, a chain. anything that is making you feel afraid is absolutely detrimental to your spiritual evolution, do not believe in fear. feel it, let it go, but don't believe in it. don't believe in ideas that make you afraid. and if you fear something you don't understand, trust in the universe. you are completely connected to an universe of infinite intelligence....simply trust, there's no need for you to understand! you're effortlessly linked to infinite intelligence, trust, let go , relax,..you don't need to understand everything right now, just enjoy. stop fearing, relax, enjoy.

there is never rejection; there's only suffering in it's thousand forms. everyone seeks love, everyone is love. someone's who's not able to be their free natural loving self is suffering. if someone rejects you, gives you a cold or intense look, it's not personal. do you think they would act towards you in that way if they were fully enlightened? They wouldn't right? It's never about you, it's about their pain, don't take it personally. Strive to see the good in people, beyond their current pain. It's undeniable that every human being just wants to be happy and in that state of happiness share their love with everyone. be compassionate for people who suffer of ego issues. it's really never about you, people reject themselves first, then they reject others. I can assure you the cold look, the intense look, they give themselves looks that are way more colder and intenser then that. what you see , what you perceive is merely the surface of what's going on inside themselves. don't take it personally. don't identify with the ego game of being validated by others, being rejected and rejected. the game never existed , and if you feel rejected it's a mirror for the fact that you probably reject yourself on some level. How would you look at the situation if you were completely enlightened? can you imagine that?how you perceive their reaction? would you take it personally?I'm sure you can imagine the mindset. that's why the thing about people being mirrors is absolutely true, every belief system you have, you'll recognize it in other people. the more you grow spiritually the more deeper you'll understand people