Ananta

Oh no?, that's sad! I had a friend that was a software programmer and I thought it was fascinating. Sure, it was over my head, but when he explained it to me I thought it was pretty cool he could do it. I was genuinely interested, so he taught me some. Think of all the ppl using and relying on computers in this world every day and for you to be ashamed for being one of the ppl who can actually program and keep that system going is absurd! Stop doing that to yourself! You have a good job, be thankful ?

Nice, in my new career role as clinical manager I'm getting interrupted a LOT, in-person and by phone. Since I'm still in training it's not too bad yet, but it will get worse, much worse.? I'll try to remember your post. ❤

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@Consilience If he was not armed with a weapon then they will have to answer to why they killed him. Your account says you are in the US, so you know, cops can't just go around killing ppl without answering to someone for it. That being said, police officers really don't have enough training on how to deal with ppl mentally ill, dementia, etc. Most of them are more dangerous to themselves.

Sounds like maybe this man was mentally I'll or had dementia or was just homeless and confused, maybe drunk? From what you said I don't see why it was necessary to shoot and kill him?

Not sure if that's really fair. I've talked to several women that wouldn't let you pull their hair or smack their ass at all. Just straight sex, period. How's a guy suppose to know that?

Omg, that's too funny..

Hehe, that's it, start a thread, "ask all your sex questions to Dr Luv"

Whew, @Serotoninluv should be the actualized.org official sex therapist

You have to ask her, everyone's different. For example, I wouldn't mind the hair pull or slap (not excessive), but draw the line at being called bitch.

Ok, I confess, it was one and half? Agreed 100%!

I think ppl forget that this site is Leo's site. What's available here - his teaching, videos and the entire forum is owned by him and like anything else on the web. If you don't like it, simply say, "no thank you" and move on. Quite honestly, I didn't come to this forum for Leo and since I've been on this site I have only watched 2 of Leo's videos. I was a member of a different spiritual forum for 8 years, prior to coming here and it finally dried up. I was looking for another forum, not another guru or teaching. Im not saying I disagree with him necessary, but any similarities are incidental. I also don't do psychedelics, never really needed them. So, for ppl who think Leo only asks ppl to be a moderator, if they are little Leo puppets, that have trained under him or something. Well, obviously that's not the case!

Okay, so you're looking for a girl. So, then the universe sends you a available girl, that's into you, that doesn't play games and you in turn judge/criticize her, then ultimately reject her. ?

So true ?

It would be a risk. Don't you think? If you are willing to take that risk is up to you.

Hehe!?

Total agree! You can approach, but chillax guys or you come across as needy and creepy.

It's okay, thanks for the apology, but just keep this in mind when posting in the future. As you know I did not give you the warning, but I will in the future, if necessary.

Don't resist, breathe, be present and feel the pain...then, you can let go easier. Sometimes, if you've been holding on for too long, then it will take some time to let it go fully. Be patient.

Allow life to breathe through you without resisting or grasping and you'll be fine. I've had such a roller coaster ride in 2019. I could never have expected any of it (professional and personal), but anytime I was resisting or grasping/holding on...there was suffering. Just another lesson of letting things come and go.... Good luck?

So, do this I'd say, try to participate in activities where you can meet ppl, irl. You don't have to have friends. You can do something like meetup.com where you choose an activity (it can be specific for singles or not), that you want to do and you just sign up. Easy peasy. You seem super sweet and probably have good vibes in person (not that you don't online?). So, go for it!

That is cool beans!!!!

@Preety_India No problem, do you see it? If not, PM me the pic you want in the background and I'll try to add it for you. Same for you @Proactive