Loreena

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  1. In the darkest moments of my life, you're my light. Thank you for being there my friend.
  2. Welcome I'm so Proud of you. And I love you. You have me by your side all your life. Come rain or shine, never gonna give up. Buddy
  3. He is right on this.
  4. @Russell There's a lot of informative stuff here And here's another one.. some useful suggestions, one by Dan and the other by Nick /Nichols And here's another
  5. You are mixing some things. Aggressors and aggression are two different things. Maybe you can make another post on positive aggression so I'll understand it better. You have a different perspective but it's not relatable here.
  6. Hmm. Nah. I don't agree. Something seems to be missing in what you wrote. It's not complete. Sad, depressed people becoming violent is more correlated to manic depressive. I'm talking about aggressors, a distinct psychological pattern found in abusers and control freaks. Also those who start a fight first even without prior provocation.
  7. I generally agree with you but not on this one. Many people have ego, almost everyone, but all are not aggressors. This is a limited characteristic and definitive problem. It's not found in everyone. I'm learning psychology and I am now learning to associate behavior with material I research about. I have distinctly diagnosed this behavior in a person close to me and In future I'll put down a full detailed structural layout of how this behavior manifests itself and the identifiers that help establish it. It would probably happen in my diary. I'll go in minute detail with the mo.
  8. Oh God no..... Shucks ! You're cruel. Do you not care about us ? We adored you. We followed you. We praised you. We loved you. Our lives were attached to this place. People get help here. We keep the forum going. How is this fair to us. There's so much valuable content on this forum. People have posted their experiences for months. All of that is valuable material. When someone has issues, they post it here and the feedback and suggestions are tremendously helpful. You didn't want to splinter the community. Yet now it's okay to just dissolve the community. Don't you love us the way we love you ? Just reflect for a moment. And think about us. Nobody can stop you from doing the inevitable. But It hurts to know that we are suddenly disposables !
  9. Apologize for my idiosyncrasies. Sometimes I think evil is attractive. It's necessary in this world or else we won't be able to appreciate good. Can evil be used as an agent to do good things and protect the ones who are weak and innocent. Just a thought that ran through my mind. We try to destroy evil by punishing it. How fair is it for society to play God. Evil ones are generally strong, dominant and aggressive. By gradually weeding them out , are we creating a society of Cu*ks and puss**s(sorry for those words but couldn't find a better alternative ). I mean even a criminal could be very intelligent and smart. And his potential gets lost when he is put to death. Of course we end up saving many lives in exchange. But rehabilitation can be an alternative solution if found to be effective. We say bullies are bad. What if you're caught in a situation where you wanna fight against an unjust system but you feel too weak or passive to speak out. And that bully you hated so much comes around, has a change of heart and decides to fight for you and protects you. Your mind then begins to look at the whole thing in a different way. I know it sounds odd but why do we get stuck with the idea that an evil person never changes. They too have some potential that could be put to good use. There are certain qualities /traits that make such persons formidable. These traits are important in war, fights, combat and protection. We're complex creatures and we're a combination of both good and bad. I imagine the devil having a change of heart and going back and protecting the innocent instead of harming especially when the devil is shown some love. Maybe I'm fantasizing strange things. (aka Stockholm syndrome ) But Is it entirely impossible for evil to change. Is evil excessively used as a scapegoat by a society too hellbent on being righteous and sanctimonious. Is evil sensationalized and exaggerated to feed our morally superior egos. Or is our outrage for evil acts justified. Sometimes I even think that our strong vilification and resistance to evil actually causes people to find it even more appealing. It's like you resist fear and fear grows so maybe when we resist evil too much, we allow those forces to grow. Not sure. Maybe I'm being crazy here. But I felt like good and evil are two sides of the same coin and there could be a possibility that the outrage we experience is a result of deep social conditioning. And if we weren't conditioned that way, evil would have been diluted and never existed the way it does. Reformation would then be easier. But Who knows..... . Food for thought. Are we losing more through punishment. Is there a way to retain some of the good or transform evil into something protective, strong and formidable but not harmful.
  10. @Snick @Snick Haha, If Dingu comes on here, this topic gonna get closed for sure.
  11. @Snick The Russian Roulette countdown has started. Who's first to go ?
  12. Can this topic be moved to self actualization.
  13. Are you stuck thinking about it. Do you think it's necessary. Personally I never think about it.
  14. Yup Pisces are deeply spiritual. They're also mysterious and easily the most misunderstood out of the zodiac. But they are very compassionate generous people. Ok enough self promotion now. Time for me to shut up.
  15. I am scared lol. I'm pissing oops peacing out. This is the last you hear of me. Bye bye..... feeling sad.
  16. Yeah that's good. Better than shutting down the forum. Btw I'm too scared that Leo might change his mind any time. I love you all. So if anything like that happens, I'll be lost. Keeping my fingers crossed. Wishing that never happens. scared shitless
  17. Not only you don't bother to read, you misinterpret a lot for your own good. I said ridiculous for a lot of reasons. First is the stats. Second you are yourself stereotyping a man as a rapist. Third You are kind of trivializing rape by using the word fault when it's a crime. Fourth you're saying it's a man's fault when she does it. Is that even logical. How does it make sense. Isn't that victim blaming. How is it a man to be blamed if she is the perpetrator. And how do you just go about assuming that I will be fine with it. All assumptions ? Can't you clearly see that the one who does it should go to jail. And why do you think others will think otherwise. How do you automatically assume that men were stereotyped as rapists when such a blanket statement was never made in the first place. Say it to those who say it. But Don't just assume it for those who don't.
  18. A man is not stereotyped as a rapist. I never said all men are rapists. Why are you having this terrible habit of making things up. Like I said before, rape is a crime, and therefore a woman should be sent to jail if she rapes a man. It does matter what majority and minority does. It's all about facts and statistics. Have you ever read stats. That's why we have those subjects. Facts don't stop being facts just because they are difficult for you to digest. Facts are important to solve crimes. Those who use it as a weapon to demonize the gender are the ones who are dividing. I wasn't the one to mention rape in the first place because Its irrelevant here. I just wanted to show you the fact because you appeared to be selectively ignoring a lot for your own interests.
  19. If I am not a dude, you shouldn't feel the need to call me that. Dudes are not bad. That's your projection. Are you okay with a man raping a woman. I'm not okay with a woman raping a man. Do you read properly. I didn't mention that. Rape is a crime. That's what I said. So any woman who rapes a man must go to jail. Falsely sending a man to jail - not at all okay. Using that to defend all other real rapes is not okay at all. Misogyny at its best. Pure narcissistic defense. Stop projecting Learn to read better next time.
  20. With that comment, you took mental distortion to a whole new level. Is this the male version of Teal Swan. That probably is the worst comment on actualized so far. Well done.
  21. Don't call me dude. That's disrespect. Did I call you a chick? I hope all of them are not like You. That's why I don't want to be called a feminist. Both have gender roles. Both help to raise a family. Women have to work as well. Ridiculous. Could you read it again. Do you know what rape is ? So majority victims are men ? Man's fault ? Rape is a Crime. Get your head examined.