Principium Nexus

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  1. @SOUL What do you expect before any unlimited potentional manifests? The void, since none of these potentials have been realized until then. Emptyness is the infinite potentional, it's the ultimate calmness before something arises. All things arise continously and don't pop into existence, thats why nothing is the shared starting point of all. They all share this as their absolute origin. The void is a paradox, its so empty its full of all possibilities ?
  2. Think about this, are you still the same person like several years ago? Do you think you will be the same person within 10 or 20 years? The answer is probably no, we all develop into new persons all the time. Learn lessons, face problems and success. If you change, so would your ideal perspective of "the one". Thus, it's not fixated. If you begin to see that your one is formless, he/she could be anyone as long as you are going for it. You have to be willing to go all the way, only a completely open relationship will enable you to grow close to each others soul The one is not fixing all problems that you might experienced with others, this is the moment you realize its all part of being human and you both want to go for the best in any period you go through. Would you be able to do that? Most are afraid to truely open their heart, thats why you have to communicate a lot!
  3. @SOUL It's the void, which is undefined thus limitless/infinite I think conciousness does come in form, or atleast it tends to increase in more complex systems. In the end this is not discrete, but a continious increase. For example we acknowledge that some objects are more conciouss that other things; living organisms. Now the complexer these object tend to become the higher the density of conciousness and more obvious it is to tell it behaves in an intelligent manner. So does intelligence equal conciousness? Because this is the act to understand the environment in a more complete/in-depth way than the ones with less awareness.
  4. @Maxx I think it is everywhere at all time, but contracts and expands. When density is high the perspective from that point is very focused and gives a clear picture of feelings/thoughts/sensations. If density becomes lower it spreads in your body and you preceive a more non-biased sensation not relative to any other perspective/body part. Expansion and Contraction are key in defining each other and make the flow of awareness possible.
  5. Better question would be, how does conciousness stay?
  6. @SOUL Too late got poop on my hands
  7. @Loreena Thanks for your advice/response! I think the physical absense is the hardest, but communicating/sharing alot can help a great deal. You have experience with LDR yourself?
  8. I'm in the situation of being in a long distance relationship and sometimes it's hard. I want to be with her and she with me and talking about feelings, future plans and other things we want to do sometimes feel lacking. Now most people dont have LDR's but might know how it is to deal when someone is away for a longer time. How do you deal with this? Are there tricks or new things you apply or make things more interesting? Being in love showed me how words can be so lacking.. Some things just leave you speechless.
  9. I prefer left side toilet over right side. Could be a deep introspective quest to find the deeper meaning. So many questions, we need a sage to answer and put us on the right track.
  10. @egoeimai Ofcourse she is still special, it could be any person in space and time that I've could met but my path seemed to lead me here. I understand that the longing part of physical completeness is making me suffer in someway. Being fullfilled for what already is in the present moment might be the solution but can be quite hard. There is a difference between seeing someone not for months instead of some days/weeks. All I wonder is how others deal with this? Again this can be different for every person, theres not one right approach. Gotta love the addiction right? ?
  11. @egoeimai Yeah, its awful. ? That we are all here doesn't make it better lol. The illusion still persists of being away
  12. @Scholar Your predictions are based on absolutes, concepts/symbolic interpretations which want to reflect reality but are far from it. So lets say there is a "tree" and we give someone a saw to cut it down, the tree will fall down so your believes of what happened are true, but only within your own perspective of you think that is actually happening. You see, reality is non-discrete like leo mentioned in his last video, which means concepts like a tree have no absolutue value. Is the tree really cut down or is that just your interpretation? You assume that there is a tree and it is seperate from the other entities that inhibit your perception, but actually there is no tree. It was never cut down, but you labeled that action to be so. These preconceptions you hold will eventually happen and hold true within that perspective of some sort of absolutes. You create a construct of things where things can only happen according those these things, when you get rid of this there is nothing to predict.
  13. As long as you believe the predictions reflect your actual reality, they will hold true as a genuine interpretation of what you think that happens. Believing is experiencing, you change your mindset. Still those believes can be far from the truth but be experienced as 'real' expectations.
  14. @Loreena What is that lol? ?
  15. What do you guys think about this topic? Is there an ideal ratio/length?
  16. @Loreena Thank you! Spread the hugs
  17. I had this simple insight that in moment peoples actions or state of being would be perceived the ugliest or most imperfect this is your chance to change someones entire life. Instead of getting angry or having feeling of despises what the other person would normally think to receive, showing unconditional understanding and love is how you change someone for once and all. We are all perfectionists, wanting to write that perfect story of who we are, where we are going and why things have been done by some logical way. Since we are all in this pursuit we like to surround ourselves with success and like to step away from those who are not able to attain such achievements that are likeable in your paradigm. Try to flip the switch and give any person that seems so imperfect that hug or compliment, these little events go so deep you wouldn't even know what it will do with their whole future life and outlook on life. Reverse psychology is very effective and empowering, so next time try it out! It's not only amazing to see, but your will have a big impact on your surroundings almost waking them up
  18. Meditation and contemplation of what you want to get out of it and how you will realize that in the future. Getting great insights is one thing, but making them a everyday reality is the hard part.
  19. These two have influenced me for most of my life and still do to a very large extent. I don't know how to come to terms with anxiety & awkwardness and from time to time these make me feel depressed and sad. I try to not think about any negative feelings but often they just come out the blue and overwhelm me. Most relatives or friends tell me i'm one of the smartest people they know and that's nice and all, but most of these positive things don't seem to help me out. I feel out of touch, like there is some void draining my energy and giving me the feeling of falling without knowing how to ground myself. Self-Actualization is a very powerful tool and gives me good insights in why people do what they do and why act like I do, but it also shows me that this whole cultural play (when you see how it works) can be so exhaustive. All these things you have to do or follow to be part of the "club" or be "successful", they make me feel like wearing a mask all the time just to be there for my family and friends whereas my other part know it will not be able to do this my entire life. Does anybody feel the same and how to they deal with this? I'm lucky to have found a person who shares a similar mind and someday wants to travel the world with me, but before i'm really able to do that I have to work through ALOT of difficult shit. All I hope is that I'm able to do that and break free of what's holding me back for so long. I hope you guys can help me with this, I just don't know what to do..
  20. @Sevi These general things are often overlooked and can be the root cause of having low energy. By getting those right I think you will lower the intensities of all other issues/interpretations. Plus being healthy is inspiring and adds to self-esteem and the feeling of doing something good. Having more clean energy can be that catalyst that fuels all development and inovation, not only focusing on that one problem Maybe that problem/issue can look so big because were too focused on it. I appreciate all your input thanks alot!
  21. There is nothing to be achieved, only a journey to be taken.
  22. @Sevi & @Shin Thank you both for replying! I have thought about how to make progress regarding to (social) anxiety and for me it would probably best to get a solid clear scheme what I should do every day. Currently I'm working from home and postponed my study so it is too easy for me to not actively work on these things. Several things that seem to have impact on overal well-being are: Sleep patterns (waking up early and going to bed early makes you start the day less drowsy). Good diet (I haven't eaten meat for 2 years now, only eat fish sometimes, some diary products, bread, etc.) Enough sunlight everyday (even sitting in the sun for 10min is great for energy). Excersise, doing small workouts at home but also bicycle outside and getting fresh air. Reading a book, I notice that this help me organize my thoughts and prolongs my attention. Working on something creative, could be art/music/science or working out a simple business idea. Cheering up other people, sharing is caring and makes me more socially active. Setting an intention for the next day, puts your mind already in the mood to do stuff. NoFap, I know how powerful this can be and hope I can prolong my streak. Are there any other things you guys do yourself or would like to add? I want to research a little and try out a proper diet for this month, would love to know what you guys eat or want to suggest. The awkwardness is just a result of my low energy/anxiety and rather wanting to be somewhere else so these steps would probably help alot. EDIT: Oh yeah, i'm going to cut out coffee and tea completely these two ALWAYS drain my energy and make me jittery.
  23. @Max_V I doubt that those workshops have a minimum age. You can always ask for sure. A workshop about breathing techniques would be cool for example, you have to check out Wim Hof - The Iceman if you haven't already. These are nice things to put you in a pro active meditative habit and can be fun to do. From there you can start to deal with deeper philosophies or contemplation, having that meditative mind is very helpful here.
  24. Hey Max, if your not good at reading there are many different ways to learn. You can watch videos for example, listen to talks or visit exercises/workshops that focus on becoming more mindful/aware/conscious. Direct experience is the most profound anyways.