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Well you're the one asking about "if in limited form", "if still God", which implies a seperation. And there is no seperation between minds just an imagined one. Which is what happens when minds forget they are both God and one with everything. That's the paradox, you're both the father and son and so is everyone else. Not dogma my direct experience. I'm not always in that top awakened state and don't claim to be (though is certainly possible in awareness even for a human). But when I am that is what I see and the words I just replied you with is from that top awakened state. There's always all knowing God, time doesn't exist in God consciousness. From the mind that forgot God perspective to it it only knows itself in an illusion, but it's illusion not ultimate truth.

To the all knowing God (which is you when you wake up) everything is God/itself, whether or not that "others" knows it or not doesn't make it different to the awakened. But out of Love the awakened will meet where the other is at so playing along, or out of Love the awakened will gently let the world know they too are God one way or another through its being. God is the one who is dreaming and then waking itself up through various means. Recognition of others as itself upon waking is just natural to God, maybe not natural to the conditioned ego so the question arises.

@StormLight Yes I acknowledge the point made and I'm sure the message has been received. It was posted Jan 30, some time has passed. Things can be very different Now as we speak. The past is no longer for you are always rebirthing (in this world). I am not saying it was all an "extension of love", and that if you do not feel safe you should take actions to protect yourself to the extent to feel safety, this will vary by individual. But whatever is not an extension of love is his call for love from You/us (in a roundabout manner). I don't expect you/anyone to understand what I'm saying now but maybe in time you will have the space for this.

You're just learning how to perceive form (words) as either a call for love or an extension of love, no matter how convoluted the form might appear.

It's often a reflection of what's in you (including the collective you), to be processed and integrated. Or some kind of "like-attract-like" scenario. Most will not want to stay in that and get out of it eventually (if it does happen). If it happens consistently I recommend doing more sober work.. meditation/healing and such. Darkness and light are in contrast of one another. What appears to be "normal" to one may seem dark to another. Sober states of "darkness" are much more common and tend to stay with someone until something internal cracks open.

If you're in a state of great lack atm.. I recommend directing your focus toward several angles besides this relationship angle. This is to diminish the effects of rejection to your overall mental/emotional wellbeing where you might get some of those needs met elsewhere (while going about your ways to find a date/gf). Some you might've heard but not think related: - Talk to a therapist (maybe someone that is comfortable with more "close conversations"). - Join some groups/events that you share common interests in. - Volunteer at a help/distress line (bit counterintuitive but it is one place where you can have close conversations with strangers). Or just try to talk to strangers in general (unconditionally), many you might find are happy to talk to you for a moment. - Go meta and merge with God (and the feminine aspects of yourself).

It's been extremely challenging. Everyone's case is unique but there are similarities. The main thing is that your "inner child" (or ego) might mentally emotionally feel like an orphan with parents that are more a drain, and have to find ways to support yourself/growth. You may have to get good at creating boundaries in order to grow in the direction of greater consciousness. Mine have a vague idea that I'm into spirituality/metaphysics (as I sometimes share things that might be accessible to them), but no idea the full extent of it as they aren't ready. Things they might be interested (that would be a gift for most people) especially as they get older or face health issues is you could share things about an idea of an eternal life. I usually don't "preach" and just share resources from time to time and give them the space to browse if they wished (as my words are not treated with respect the same way lol). You are their teacher now, even if they can't/won't acknowledge this yet. Internally you know you are. A good guide meets others where they're at. But if you need time and space for healing do that first before trying to guide them. You have to learn to be smart about what might be safe to share and what is not safe. And they are your teacher in the sense that you can later practice forgiveness and seeing the God in them (when you're ready). Likely they'll be some of the more challenging people for you to fully forgive and see the God within, but it's a possibility for you. One thing to really accept that might help you is that your "biological age" has little to do with your "spiritual age" (relative to others), meaning you can be born with a relatively more mature mind than your parents. (This had to happen to "some of us" if you just take into account how infinity and chance works, let alone higher will). In the mean time all I could do is create some distance and remain available if that makes sense. I had been in and out of different therapists for support. I had studied things like narcissism and intergenerational trauma. I had followed guidance from healers. And best of all, you will be given help in your consciousness. The hardest parts were detaching myself from the entanglement, to break out of the mold of them only seeing me as their child and that I might have anything valuable to teach them, and my assigned gender and culture which would be highly taboo to be highly spiritual/questioning reality and essentially abandoning the "expected human life". That's also why much of it is still kept away from others "in my life". But it's all slowly happening according to plan - the plan that is beyond any finite self. And finally, one day you can find appreciation for the darkness you experienced so as to experience the light (and more). Feel free to message me if you are looking for support/resources I'm happy to share some your way.

Yes especially that Vladimir Putin guy, someone needs to sneak some mushrooms into his food. I have an idea, maybe we could collectively direct loving thoughts to him, and send angels his way and see if a miracle happens.

You also created an infinity of Gods, don't forget that as that's where you come out to play.

They are as real as you are or as unreal as you are (whichever way you want to perceive this lol).

This. You're like a fish in water and been raised in poop water for so long that it feels like you have to justify to yourself the water is fine. I understand the difficulty with your situation. I would just say, be on the lookout for opportunities, and create them as much as you can to move out. You can always circle back later if you wish to help your family heal but this entanglement is likely not helping anyone.. but we always try to make the best of our situations and sounds like you're in a rough spot.

Coz you'll all soon find out who/what you really are and hierarchies would cease to exist. This world would either cease to exist or change so much that it basically ceases to exist.

Just depends on what you feel called to do, what do you want this life to be. It's perfectly good if you don't want to have children and commit to that decision (when you arrive at such clarity), likewise in the other case. Also, an interesting question to consider on the other side of the coin since you seem open-minded, if you were the said child, would you want to come into your family (and its social structures) and this planet (among other things in your environment)?

Yes you are constantly re-creating and co-creating this reality with your thoughts, words, actions etc. And what you "focus on" is what is "next in line" to come to fruition, roughly speaking that is and if you understand the underlying mechanism. You always had this power just much dampened in this reality, but it's still there to some extent.

Despite the best of intentions, it has been a struggle to find love and desire towards being around my biological parents. God told me not to dwell on it, but to focus on what is of my highest desires in life. It feels as though I am abandoning them. Though not in my heart. I tried... But the cracks are still too slim. Did my higher self really choose this? So that I could create and experience the complete opposite of darkness and not being understood? To rejoice again in the Mind of God that I am fully and impeccably understood. And perhaps so I could assist in fulfilling the dream of another by coming to their life, that I hope I've accomplished. Things may not have been the same ways I imagined them to have been. But it seems there's a barrier inside of me right now. Which the Light shall transmute for me into more openness. I cannot fail. I can only delay.

I have found myself. And yet.. I find myself in a strange world. I create with Love. Yet "my" creations do not recognize their creator and those like their creator. The disconnect is felt, the Love does not cease. What I really am, is yet a stranger to this world. When you "execute" me in your mind, in your words, and in your actions, and not to see the Christ in me, you are denying God and Love and forsaking yourself. God forgives you. So I learn to forgive you. The hope of heaven here, and a brighter day is still seemingly far away. "Illusory time" not so illusory as I await for the return to home. To be free from persecution. Dark forces desperately trying to hold on when faced with what is but their own Light, not yet claimed. There is a quiet battle being waged. Only known to ones who have the eye to see. Time will heal. Time will awaken.

Mmm.. I would say it is an important vehicle by which to express your highest love, and who you are, to "another" which is also part of you. But it of course doesn't need to be in the form of "relationships", it can be a pet, your workplace, strangers, whatever else you're creating, etc. There is just more possibilities within so-called "relationships" in some sense, depending on the consciousness of the other(s) and how you view them. You could turn it into a very "Godly" one if you wished (as though you're in heaven) and the other was at a similar level of consciousness to receive and reflect.

You don’t have to come to “physical form” if you don’t wish to, so you can exist without limitation forever (until you wish otherwise), you have the final say duh. And there’re prob some “in-between” worlds, like earth could become. As well as "in-between" beings.

There's no "death", just re-creating/re-becoming. And eternity is partly honored through change in form and is your own will at a higher level you are not conscious of. Your higher self wants to experience through finitude "currently".

Loool, that's a perfect match .

Just some silly birds, feel free to add. Enjoy

I don't recommend forcing it (in the long term), it's really about doing the healing work on yourself first, and awakening to your true Self as Love and the One/Infinity and you transform into that identity in your lived reality/consciousness. So the question is more of what would motivate you to awaken and live from that perspective? Often it's that the "old self" is simply outgrown and it's your time to transform your consciousness. Forcing selflessness when you don't truly feel this way might actually prolong the process of this transformation. But hey, you have eternity .

Both are! Dawww yes, birds are pretty cool and help you get in touch with the innocence.

@jimwell Very cute!!

It can help just, most therapists are unhealed healers and missing the spiritual link and therefore depth, and often just too young and inexperienced with life still. You can tell how deep and experienced someone is with how they do therapy and there's a whole range out there that has little to do with credentials. Some of them are not in it for the right reasons and more for the prestige and income level. If the heart of the therapist is not in the right place, there's easily a conflict of interest because they want to earn more and project sickness and frailty onto you so you keep going back, I've seen it myself. They are in a position of power that can subtly or not subtly manipulate so that you are almost "hypnotized" to give up your own authority. The rates that get charged is also like that of lawyers where they're protected by a board rather than based on competence. I would say this fee structure itself incentivizes corruption and preying on the vulnerable over compassion. The more compassionate ones tend to heavily discount and move to the public sectors or you can tell they try to give you the most within a short frame of time (or show some sign that they care about your financial health also), instead of dragging things out. Effective therapy requires some degree of selflessness and this is a rare trait in general.