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Hey man, I wonder if you ocassionally still game there in vegas. Could you share your routines, habits, frames, style and mentors? I know you are not a player, but while we are one the road to enlightenment we still need some sex. Explain your game to us in a simple way, step by step.

@Pell@Roy To get laid by being yourself is easier said than done. You still need techniques, planning and social awareness to make the right move at the right time.

@Pell Nice one. Will read it.

@Leo Gura Actually you are right and thanks for your advice. But, I dont crave sex as much. I dont feel needy towards sex. I can probably sometimes, but its not the root of my neediness. I have a massive ego and I feel neediness towards trying to show her im the best as cheesy as it sounds. I feel needy towards trying to make all the tricks and escalate from one stage to the other. Cuz if not, why are we dating? My mind gets calculative and hyper aware as to not fail the opportunity to prove my game. But again, this only happens after I have being thinking about pickup, learning about it, setting my mind to do cold approach and then setting a date. My anxiety is towards not failing. I have never been needy with my family and it had happen in very few occassions that I have been needy. Even with my closest friends of years ago. But this doesnt always happens, is suddenly ocasional. I figured out I cause my own neediness. Its self created by expectation towards perfectionism. I will watch your videos on this 2 topics. Cuz the thing also is if Im not aware of certain things to get her attracted, like touching her and flirting, the relationship will set into a friendly frame or boring one. But doing the touch has to be done in a perfect natural manner to create tension. Meanwhile, if im not thinking about anything, just being, I getter better results in general. But still, there are a few things that are to be planned like finally getting her to your bed and not messing it up. That last move makes me get anxious as for what will be her reaction. Making me needy and switching the whole frame from abundant to scarce. Its a tricky thing. Thats why I call it a "weird neediness". For example, lets say the girl shows signs she likes me and the dating is doing good. My mind goes like, you gotta turn her on now and quick. You dont have time to go on 3 dates to get laid. Be the best now! And there starts my neediness. I dont want to wait. Its like results now! Even if I consciously know it takes time. Is not the sex. Its like, you have invested too much energy on learning this stuff. Get the result now! If I get on more than 3 dates without sex or at least a blowjob, she might friendzone me. So I have the pressure on to prove and sexualize as quickly as possible as to not waste my precious time failing. Any suggestion toward this specific aspect?

@Leo Gura My major problem is a weird neediness. For example, if a set up a date with a girl from instagram/tinder or even one that I knew in person from which I did not felt anxious, after going in the date I get anxious. I dont know why my mind starts calculating about doing stuff and then it gets even trickier when I think that I should not think this or even anything but thats also trying and needing to not think, do or accept. Is fckng tricky and weird. On the other hand, when I meet girls in person I dont feel needy. For example, yesterday I randomly met a girl I know very little. We started vibing. After a while we started flirting, touching and I ended up kissing her and having her hug by my side. I dont understand this. I instinctly attratcted her and even flirted without a thought or rationalizing and it worked wonders. But, if I consciously set a date or get my mind set up into pickup i get needy. The thing is, if I go into a date with a girl, I obviously need to be in the mood and do some playful stuff to vibe and attract her. If not, it will get boring, which also happened the other day with another girl. How do you set a date, dont get anxious in the date as to not making it bored, and then get laid. Or even less, to get out of the needy state while in the date. Or did you just went on a date if you where prepared into the mood? Consciously settings dates while being unconcious is fckng tricky. This is when you start seeing all the glitches in the matrix.

Try to find out why she still with her boyfriend. Must girls prefer being with someone they are not even much attratcted rather than being alone. Thats enough to find out if you can keep going. If you have lasted too long to even kiss her after building chemistry, forget about it.

@herghly 1. To save time and energy wasted randomly on a unconcious habit. Every time your sexual energy is release, your body has to invest alot of energy to reset itself. This also applies for eating alot. Wasted energy. 2. To not attach yourself as the only way to have sexual pleasure. You can fap on once in a while, but if you make it a habit you will feel like a loser whos not capable of getting a pussy. 3. Faping kills your drive to take action. From an evolutionary perspective, being a survivor (succesful) is what makes you attractive to women. This creates motivation to improve yourself and then fck girls (make babies) and pro create. 4. Sexual energy transmuted makes you more intelligent. 5. If you are into enlightenment this kundalini is crucial.

Some stuff that helps me are the following: -Mindset: Have a positive perspective of how strong you feel everytime you resist your urge. And remember that saving this energy makes you more powerful, productive and intelligent aswell. -Compund effect: Dont think about lasting a year without faping. Instead, think everyday and everymoment you feel the urge, resist. From each present moment to present moment it will compound till a year. -Sex: Make your self the commitment to only cum with a girl or if you get a wet dream. Meaning, your cum will depend on others. This will make you feel lighter free and motivated. -When you feel the urge to fap, inmediately change your thoughts focus and go around someone in your house. This will force it to stop. -Get a cold shower. It will force your focus to the moment. -Dont bring your Phone to the bathroom and don't stay much inside there. -Stay busy around the day, so you don't have time to fap. -Exercise, so your sexual energy dont get stuck. -Socialize *Lastly, challenge yourself with your friends to see who lasts longer. Everytime someone looses they have to pay you something.

@Leo Gura Any recommendation?

@Anna1 Very helpful post, thanks! Thou, the unnecesary stuff like cheating, being manipulative, hitting on her while being taken is ok, there's stuff that if its replaced completely for being "spiritual" it would kill sexual chemistry and Attraction. Still, I want to hear Leo's response in field. That post was more like an inner game suggestion. Which is a great start.

Uncontrolled thought causes self Consciousness. You can think all you want, but if you are not very skilled at understanding your mind, everytime you go into a social enviroment with brainstorming momentum that you created while being alone, you will be percieved as an introvert by others, thou triggering unto you that frame of mind even if you are an extrovert. Notice, if you enter a social enviroment in a relaxed zen state of mind and very present, your mind won't trigger self conciousness. Your attention to the moment won't give space to the mind to judge. By which, other people will percieve you as social and trigger that frame into your unconcious, making you feel even more carefree. Tip: Prepare yourself to enter social enviorments in relaxed zen States, while being present on your body. Then always socialize first with people you are close in order to warm up and calm your subconscious. After that you will feel carefree to talk to anyone. Try to forget about the place you are going by focusing on something completely different a few hours before the event. This will create momentum for your mind to enter a short term frame (bubble) of mind for a while.

@Annoynymous "We hate what we don't understand". Redpill is extremely beneficial for survival and reproduction. It has mundane wisdom. Just watch out who you listen and don't believe randomly. Because this knowledge tends to be very radical, you need to be open and very independent minded to find out the truth of what is being said. Something that might help alot is spirituality. When you start to have mystical experiences, you see the relativism in everything. You can literally change your reality in this second just by altering your interpretations of things through thoughts and beliefs. But this requires advanced knowledge to manage. At the end, everything goes full circle and you might find yourself ending where you began. Stop listening to every one in this forum about redpill. They have not investigated well enough neither experienced it. Nature has laws about Attraction and Women will always fall for alpha fuckboys. When ppl hear this they start crying... There are many ways you can balance your game, but at the end its the same roots. And game doesn't go only for women. You need social game, family game, work game, dating game, appearance game etc. Game means being conscious about the underlying mechanics of what seems fate and being strategical about it. Coach red pill is good. If you want to know a Seduction mystic, check seductive instinct a.k.a. Arash Dibazar. Thats advanced game.

If you know what you truly want right know you will experience a joyful Shift and save time. I used to be in the same spot as you. Look, right now you as infinite conciousness want to explode. You want to test your potential in the finite. What your soul really desires is self actualization. If you where financially independent, you wheren't in this forum asking. You would be playing with reality, learning, growing your self as a person and having many experiences. Thats what the system wants you, to not do shit, be stuck, have a narrow vision and run away. I would not recommend you to go crazy finding your passion and ultimate life purpose right now. You need to learn how to think independently, deeply, rationally, strategically in the middle and stop generalizing the truth. Look for the fastest way that suits you in order to just replace your income and have control of your time. Not to get rich, just to get out. Then after that, you will have more time to build a business and then after that you can start looking for that ultimate passionate life Purpose. Is better to escalate this way than waste your time jumping everywhere. Then after years of you playing with reality and being free, you will know if you want to liberate yourself. You are generalizing happiness. You can live a pretty good life without being enlightened too. No need to go extreme so fast. You will hit many walls like this. Telling you from experience. Nevertheless, for high success you still need Presence/Mindfulness, Meditation, Mind and emotional control, good sleep, diet and exercise, self organization, a clear cut vision of what you want, why the fuck you want it and what the fuck will happen if you dont achieve that. A sense of urgency is a must to get high quality results. Contemplation in order to constantly eliminate limiting beliefs absorbed by the external. Social skills and a magnetic personality. Lastly, understanding and experiencing Law of Attraction. Trinfinityacademy.com (Empowerment Section)

I think this is just a subconscious belief picked early from childhood or some urge of our survival mechanism which is afraid to die. I still sometimes get visions and feelings of me dying. Who knows.

Do you have a partner and he doesnt satisfy you?

Im curious to know at what stage do you consider President Jose Mujica of Uruguay to be. He is consedered the poorest president. He is a wise guy who lives very modest. @Leo Gura

Be present (centered/grounded/mindful) and Flow. Others will notice you are enjoying the moment and not having an inner judgement. Add to this, looks, social proof, status, talent, humor and they will love you.

@Alyosha The thing that many people don't get about game is that each style has a consequence. Models style is my favourite as well mixed with a little bit of dark game in order to make it spicier. If you play the honest vulnerable guy only and don't understand Attraction well, you might fall in the nice guy accidentally. On the other hand, hardcore red pill pickup artists hyper macho dark player game is the most attractive one. But, if you fall on this side you have to deal with the consequences: negativity, ego imbalances, emotional baggage, more illusion and karma. This guys get laid very fast playing this style but only because they get paid to do so. Ocassionally going dark and player helps for when you feel you need to calibrate your past image and actions. You need to be vulnerable but still higher status than her for she wanting to fuck you. In order to do inner switches you need high observational abilities of the invisible. You basically become mystical of your psychology and press the right buttons of your ego keyboard. This is what mystery does.

@Meetjoeblack I completely get you. This was me a time ago. You have been conditioned to believe instead of intuitively knowing and judging from logic, while at the same time lacking emotional control for everything you feel and comes to your mind when it comes to women. Nature and Attraction have rules you must follow as an order if you want to succeed with people. For example, if you cry in front of your girl one time, it might pass. But if you continually do so, as crude as it sounds, she will leave you. Why? From an evolutionary perspective, her unconcious mechanism is always judging your behaviour and strength, in which the mental and emotional are more important than the physical. You are suppose to be grounded as a man. Women live in mental and emotional fantasy. If you gently tell your gf to please suck your dick because you dont want to be rude, she won't. Surprisingly, if you tell her to suck your dick in a confident way as an order, she will. Even if she refuses, if your dominance persists, she will be attratcted to do so. This is the counterintuitive nature of Attraction. My advice would be to enjoy your relationship while it lasts. Then stay single till you work on yourself and knowledge, test it with some women, then try again.

Apart from all the knowledge I have collected from other sources, this is by far the most simple direct nonsense book I have seen. If you want the truth about how the counterintuitive nature of attraction works, here it is. I realized you don't have to be the highest alpha or wait till you are rich or even be physically fit. Dating is a very relative thing that depends on your culture and the specific woman you are dating. Tom cruise might be a 15 out of 10 in usa because he portraits the values of that society. However, his value might be alot lower if he were to live in an african tribe. His strength might be low as well as his survival skills. His looks will only portray femeninity. The total opposite of his current country. Still, you want to study your culture so you can play it on your favor with what you got in this moment. For example, my country is very classist and im a good looking guy. I don't let ppl try to trick me into believing im weak for my beauty. Instead I portray this as status and exclusiveness, followed by the clothe the elite uses. Back to the topic, here is the book. Theres no way you won't get laid at least with a 7 or 8 using this, mixed with your current knowledge of your personality and culture. If you don't, you just have to keep practicing this. Lastly, the best of this is that everytime you don't know what to do, the answer is in the book.

I wonder if anyone has experienced this level of samadhi ?

@Spiral Wizard Contemplating with a journal. If you want to be an expert in contemplation check out peter ralston and his book of not knowing. Just as you write down your present beliefs which create your current unconcious frame, you want to rewrite your new frame to an empowered one. Down here ill show you an example from RSD Max. Each frame has to be carefully contemplated and visualized until you feel an emotional state triggered by such perspective for it to go into your subconscious. This takes time and repetition. Not an easy job. But hey, you are God all powerful, after all this is what you wanted to experience, hard work and limitation.

You might waste alot of time seeing endless videos about pickup on youtube. First, you need to learn about women's psyche and their biology. How they think and to what they are attratcted. The red queen is a good book. Also, red pill knowledge can help. Second, you need to work on your inner game. Which means to get rid of as many insecurities and false beliefs you have about women, sex and relationships. You can be alpha and still suck with women because of old beliefs pulling you back. This has been my biggest struggle. I would get girls but still I felt something preventing me from flowing with them. Check out leo's video about contemplation, comprehension has many degree s and what is actuality. Third, you need to work on your personality by creating new habits and beliefs. This needs to be mantained constantly as you are not real but a constant process. Women are attratcted to anything that serve their survival, strength. And masculinity which polarizes their feminine energy. With out these two you can attract them on a personal level but sexual chemistry wont occur. You can become alpha by practicing mantras, visualizing or using a vision board, doing physiological incantations, taking constant action, challenging yourself, exercising, listening to masculine music, surrounding your self with strong masculine men and putting yourself out there to many experiences, which can develop a strong will and courage. The inner game process is the most important and it might take a period of 6 months to 1 year to see good results. Lastly, learning game. After understanding women and having developed your Attraction level, you can now choose a style, appearance and techniques to make the fish bite the trap and begin the process of experiencing your world. Books to read: -The red queen -The evolution of desire -The way of superior man -The power of now (there needs to be a balance between truth and illusion in order to play well). -The mystery method -The game Extras: -Almost any book from Carlos xuma. -Atomic Attraction by christopher canwell -Models -Law of Attraction. You need to understand how your mind works and how to percieve other ppls frequencies for better social skills and understanding of them. Your focus creates your frame work and by time your going onto creating that reality. So be aware of your focus always, practice shifting it to another direction for when need it and how to control your emotional states. Having control of your frame is the key for persuasion and seduction. If you learn how to have an unshakable frame while having still eye contact you can get away with almost anything you want and even dominate others. I recommend to only use Psychological dominance over ppl who want to dominate you as self defense (unless you want to lower your self control (conciousness) and build some negative karma). Even if your physically weak and a strong rich men wants to fck with you, if you hold a strong frame while not blinking and you declaring some command, he will be intimidated and fear you afterwards. To truly get everything im saying, this must be contemplated and experienced.

I agree in this. I think leo still does pickup ocassionally, so I don't see anything wrong with him sharing his journey and basic routines.

@Felli I have been thinking about this too. This type of people might achieve enlightenment easier than normal ppl. That friend of yours already understands what awakening is?