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Purrrfect ?

If she's a narcissist, it's common they will re appear and all of a sudden they're the perfect person you've always wanted the to be. It's called hoovering. Yeah, stop doing that unless you want to suffer.

Stop listening to her, stop all contact, get out of this relationship! Don't negotiate with terrorists. She will never change, even when it appears she does. You're selling your heart and soul for a cold bucket of KFC. She will come back to you after some time and appear to be the perfect woman all of a sudden. DON'T FALL FOR THIS! Break contact, permenantly.

Hope you doing okay bro?

Thank you guys. I've actually made nice progress this year in so many areas, including my work ethic. It's just that at this moment the money is laggin behind, but there's also more potential than ever before. I had this solipsism insight this week which was fantastic but it did leave me cold and alone afterwards. Last night I realized I need more self love and how precious life is. I need to love myself for every thing I do, I realized it breaks my heart when I self criticize like I do sometimes. I need myself here (my heart), I need myself now more than ever, I can't do it alone (without love).

No what's that?

Thank you so much. Do you have any daily routine to remember your WHY and the bigger picture? How many times daily do you switch between big picture and "to do" stuff?

@Ajax thank you, very valuable. I guess what I mean is that everything in my life is starting to point to me doing some sort of coaching and helping others but transitioning from my work from home business scares the crap out of me.

You coach right? How did you build an effective network that generates money like you said here?

You kinda look like him from afar, you ever wear sunglasses while picking up girls?

Yes, moda is great

In the name of radical honesty I'm going to have to come back on my earlier replies here. I think @Schizophoniayou might be onto something when you said autism is an energy imbalance. I recognize it when I talk to aspies, I used to be like that too. After flaming you in this thread I went out last weekend and did 1.5g of blow and there might be something to be said for the fact you're less autistic on the stuff. But it just seems like such terrible advice since most people aren't going to be able to handle casual use and spend time reflecting on their lives as much as I do. But to be honest, I have no fucking idea. So now I say: "I don't know".

@Sandy6 that's a great insight thank you

OP is more legit than Leo. Maybe you should start a YouTube channel, this actualized stuff ain't going nowhere.

You see this guys? He said weee instead of love you too. This guy's legit.

Amen fucker, love you

You guys look in the mirror you can reach Clown Consiousness, it's even higher.

Have you already tried? An hour seems really long.

That alien stuff is just a joke to test how stupid you are. Just live your life and stop worshipping teachers. Stop looking for the next " spiritual goodie". Leo said he was gonna work on his sense of humor and sprinkle in false stuff on purpose. Well he's an alien now. Jesus fucking Christ guys.

You gotta admit that second one is funny af.

@mr_engineeryou understand why people say this?

If she's on benefits you gotta overthrow the government just to date this bitch

So get a job in customer service it'll cure autism. The goal is to learn to socialize, read social cueues and respect your own and others boundaries while enjoying your time. It's like you wanna learn to bow hunt and somebody's like "why not use an AK-47?" or hey just burn the entire forest down. I do, because you don't control stimulants, stimulants control you. It should be obvious I'm speaking from experience, not closed mindedness. Your ego wants to use stimulants, of course, mine does too, that's not open minded that's self serving.

Now imagine someone with no natural social calibration on cocaine talking to you "because this cured his autism bro"

Yes it makes you talk to people, so what? That has nothing to do with becoming social as an aspie. I'm the last guy to judge people for their drug use but cocaine as self help advice is really dumb.