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Lol this got me
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Sacré bleu!
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Not sure why but this video just triggers me. Actually a lot of his content does.
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Lol. But seriously if a thread says it's got 2000 views and only 100 actual people read it, big difference.
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Are crawlers counted under views for a topic on here? What percentage of the shown views are actual people? Just curious.
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Yeah exactly, it's a question for Leo. I just want to know if a thread says 100 views how many people have seen it.
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Day 17: I've identified another major issue here. I wake up in the morning, do my morning routines (yoga, reading etc) and after that it's time for work. But work doesn't happen. My thoughts are going in the right direction, I am well equipped for this battle, yet I'm still procrastinating. What happens? Master Mind: That's where the idea for the master mind is born. At a core lizard-brain level I am motivated to be around other people and receive all the social inputs that I am programmed to enjoy. But waking up and sitting behind a computer screen for 8 hours all by myself does not tap into that need whatsoever, and when the task at hand is not part of my routine yet (like editing my shorts) it becomes frustrating and I quit. Then I might try to find a coworking space, or go for a little walk, because those activities do seem to stimulate the primitive need for socialization. But this socialization is flawed because it takes away from my work instead of adding to it. So what if I could tap into my primitive need to be social in a way that actually contributes to my success? This is why Napoleon Hill stressed the Master Mind idea. Now that I'm thinking about it, I actually have 2 ideas. One for a Master Mind group of myself and other people who are starting an online coaching business, and the other a master mind for people who are selling on Etsy or Shopify that is 100% online and I charge money for. Procrastination: As a result of procrastinating, I found this video on procrastination, very interesting: I still think the Master Mind is a wonderful idea but watching this video also gave me some perspective on what's going on right now; I am procrastinating. He says "[long-term procrastination] can be a huge source of unhappiness and regrets". Wow, definitely played a role in my business so far and why it didn't work out. Rage: God I'm so annoyed right now. I am physically unable to do a full work from home day because of all the fucking noise. This could go on for months to come because the entire neighborhood is under construction in every way possible. I need to completely rethink my whole strategy: what is work in the first place and why does it require me to sit at home at my desk? Work is whatever gets me money. I think I can have a huge advantage over my competitors by simply focusing on creating as much content possible. I'm a natural entertainer and nobody else in this industry is, they're all super precise work from home people, literally the opposite of me. So focus on content, I need to rethink how and where I work. If it's all about creating content then why carry a bulky laptop around? Just do it on my phone.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Web_crawler
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"Going down the slip and slide with no water hurts your butt" ~ Butters
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Thank you! This really motivated me to keep going on Saturday. Day 16: Saturday felt shitty like I posted here, but I pushed through it and ended up getting my first short video live on a brand new Youtube, TikTok and Instagram account. So after that at the end of the day I felt pretty good and the rain outside literally cleared and I enjoyed some sunshine before sunset when I went for a walk. Couldn't sleep for some reason so woke up Sunday after only 2 hours of sleep at like 3.30 AM. Thought I had this one in the pocket but fell asleep again after just a few hours. DId Uber Eats at night. Whenever I do the Uber Eats I just get annoyed, feels like I'm wasting my time. Proactive approach / action bias: So this is the theme for me right now. It's not like I lack the skills or knowledge to make my business succeed, that's not the biggest hurdle, it's that I've been too inwardly oriented these past years. This was nice, but now I need massive action bias, and that's what this whole journey is about. For this journey to succeed I must get pleasure from actual results and putting myself out there, not just from the mental masturbation of thinking about it. I must cultivate a loving relationship with Stage Orange and see the beauty of money and personal / business success. And it is really beautiful. Success at Stage Orange can bring so many people opportunities, money and happiness that does not get reached by just sitting at home and thinking somebody owes you something. That's one of my biggest problems. Actions taken: Created a Fiverr gig Created FB page and Group Created Instagram, Youtube and TikTok Shot, edited and uploaded my first video to those platforms Contacted another booker for possible comedy spots near me Sold that old website I was talking about so made some money there Did Uber eats but I'm sick of it Next actions: Continue shooting and uploading shorts Shoot long-form videos for Youtube at some point Do cold outreach on Instagram Create a website for my consulting and coaching Then create a funnel Learn way more about Etsy so I can optimize my services Keep looking at my finances, keep finding creative ways to pay the bills and balance everything Trap #40: Appearances Don't be fooled by appearances. What is business? What is success? What is lifestyle? It's a mental state, it's images in the mind. There is no objective reality that can be viewed objectively from any state. No, there are only those states. This morning I started the day from a place of feeling lack and nothing got done.
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Stage Orange is fantastic, here's an example: Michael Jordan's partnership with Nike in the mid-1980s was groundbreaking. At the time, there were doubts within Nike about whether an African American athlete could achieve mainstream appeal. However, Jordan's charisma, talent, and undeniable marketability shattered those perceptions. His Air Jordan sneakers became a cultural phenomenon, defying expectations and generating enormous revenue for Nike. Jordan's success not only revolutionized sports marketing but also reshaped the way athletes and brands interacted, setting a new standard for endorsements and brand partnerships. Try that in stage Blue, it's impossible, there would be almost no social mobility.
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This is honestly great, classic pickup advice. Edit: well I hadn't seen the whole video yet when I posted. The beginning stuff about tinder and IG is honestly good though, after that it gets a little murky lol. Edit 2: OMG I shouldn't have shared this before I watched, part 2 is just mental 😂 he's a good salesman though.
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You guys are gonna die when you see this:
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Day 14: Recovered by being home alone with my 'autistic pains'. Honestly there has to be a word for it, it just means I get overstimulated in public to the point where it hurts and I just want to be home. Yesterday I had reached a pretty extreme version of that over-stimulation and I'd like to avoid this. Now shall I be completely honest? I feel that many people in public spaces want a part of my energy. I can just 'feel' people somehow reacting to my subtle movements, I can 'feel' girls energy like they're micro flirting with me. There's no way around this, I'm almost always hyper-aware of the people around me and their micro movements, and this costs me energy. The only solution would maybe be these glasses: Only €0,94 on AliExpress that's a steal! The solution is obviously not just sitting at home. Being in public doesn't just cost me energy, it also brings me energy. So on the one hand I'm completely wasting my energy by being out in public, on the other hand I'm gaining energy, confidence and overall happiness by being in public. Maybe the solution is to only go places that make me money, that add to my arsenal, instead of just random places to work on my laptop. Had a coaching call yesterday morning which just disturbed my flow. This was some serious stuff about my childhood and whatnot, I haven't been able to really focus on my work since. But I HAVE to focus on my work, I have no money in my bank account right now and no income so that's why I need that action-bias. I have to admit that I'm also quite disturbed by the fact that I don't have a romantic relationship. Just a girl who understands me, cares about me and I care about her. But most of my interactions are superficial and I have no interest in getting to know people. As I said here before there is a caring part of me that is completely underutilized right now, and starting an online business does not tap into that part of me. So how the F do I tap into that? Offer life coaching? I'm annoyed by my own indecisiveness right now, that's literally what I wrote under trap #1. I was doing fine on Thursday, you have no idea how good Thursday felt. So I shouldn't fall into this trap of believing thoughts that come to me on a low day like right now. Just stick with the program. Trap #39: External validation Made me think of this as another trap. I go out in public, many people look at me or want part of my energy, but on a day where fewer people look at me I may go "hey what happened? my energy must be off". So it becomes external validation. On the other hand; when fewer people look at me my energy might actually be off. But don't let this external validation lead me. Update: I just went for a little walk in nature and I realize that I'm simply dealing with some ego backlash here. Which brings me to the following... Plateaus: What if getting to my €10k pm income is a lot easier than I think? What if there's only, say 3 plateaus to get to that €10k I have to break through? For this example let's say there will be these three plateaus. First: starting my online coaching and consulting and content. Creating videos, funnels and getting clients. This is my current plateau. Second: expanding this into IRL seminars. Third: investing all my money back into the business to grow it. Yes these are kind of hypothetical but my point is what if this whole journey is simply breaking through plateaus?
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Yeah the girls weren't attractive to me either. Some of the advice on Tinder and Instagram was good. The underlying problem with the whole video is it's still just driven by his need to impress or control narcissistic women, and I don't think men on this forum will resonate with that. You can also just go to a club, find a cute girl, dance, take her home, no need for all that fluff. He doesn't seem to want or understand genuine energy connection with people.
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Plot twist: it's the same home!
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Warren Buffet eats breakfast at McDonald's every day and he's a stage yellow billionaire so.
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So glad you survived to tell the story ❤️
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Butters replied to enchanted's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Watch Leo's video on stage turquoise. -
OMG
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Butters replied to koops's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
No babe, YOUR body is God 😘 -
Day 13: I'm doing well this week but I am starting to notice a pattern. On Tuesday I was high energy, Wednesday low, Thursday high, Friday low. I need to figure out how to better conserve energy because this doesn't work optimally. So yes I need massive action right now but also this requires some contemplating; why do I seem to lose energy in public? So many people look at me and want a part of my energy, perhaps I delude my energy. I feel so shitty today, just my skin hurts like autistic backlash pains.
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You're missing the point. He's suggesting having an actin bias, which is good cause most people are in their heads too much and the fear of experiencing will only increase that way.
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Butters replied to enchanted's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yeah I meant in some other field but similarly "genius" as a child?