OBEler

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  1. @genandnic thanks, very well written. I can totally understand your position and I share it too.
  2. How you tell them about you great grandfather, That's not how things get handled in Germany. There is no history bonus. And yes, we make no jokes about WW2 in Germany.
  3. @Artsy don't throw the plastic bottles away you get money back. Buy Deutschland Ticket for traveling in whole Germany for free. But some high-speed trains are not included so be careful.
  4. @Psychonaut why do you make it so complicated with her and your trips. Calling her in the middle of an intense 5 meo trip? Taking malt without telling her? I can totally understand that she doesn't like your chaotic tripping. Why not make a plan before you trip that you tell her how long it takes and in that time you need to be alone. And then trip.
  5. @Emerald "Like, you always hear "We need more women in STEM." But you almost never hear, "We need more men in caring professions." And that's because STEM is seen as superior to caring professions like childcare and nursing... because on some level (even people who don't believe in innate Masculinity/Femininity) STEM is recognized as Masculine-principled." I think It's just all about what brings the most money to economy or whatever political agenda is running. If it would be child care, then every man should do that. @Xonas Pitfall
  6. @Razard86 Ok yes that makes sense, thanks. But I hope this is not an on or off switch. I hope it is possible to gradually smoothly become nothingness. How have you reached nothingness?
  7. @Alexop this thread is supposed not to help any gender but to find out differences without judging them. Don`t impose a macho lifestyle on men who enjoy a mediocre life here or do that in another thread please.
  8. @Xonas Pitfall yes women are absolutely capable in academics. Unfortunately your examples about CEOs are not really say much. Every CEO has a team around them (mostly men). A CEO can be incapable but if he listens to his team then no problem. Of course in a crisis , companies with high risk / high rewards profile suffer more. But that doesn't make their strategy less good than companies with low risk/ low rewards because in good times these high risk companies get higher rewards. That's a typical bias to just look at a certain condition in a market. You have to look at the overall picture of course. @Xonas Pitfall
  9. @Xonas Pitfall good example but it is shown by science that boys compared to girls at such an age are hugely underdeveloped in all ways. Therefore also the struggle in school, where girls get way better grades etc. later in age it got balanced out. They should do the same social experiment where every gender has grown up and their brain is fully developed.
  10. So this is penis in use? It could be that penis is linked to desire on a whole different scale than women. The desire to survive etc. but that's a strong generalization I make here.
  11. @Davino ah I understand. What Kundalini exercise do you do? I want that include also.
  12. @Razard86 yes but there is this magic which makes out of nothing really something. For me it's like you say if you watch a movie, you only see pixels changing its color. There is nothing there. But with your mind you create really something out of it. Moving pictures. You get Emotions, Meaning, inspiration etc. in the end, yeah just blinking pixels. But that's not the full picture what's happening. You describe reality just technically. I feel you miss a complete dimension: magic.
  13. I was just trying to understand why @princess arabia wrote women don't want to speak openly what women think of men. I was just making assumptions, because I had no idea. She said, because women are not angry at men. Do you think that's the reason?
  14. @Emerald I was talking about the whole Internet. Forums, podcasts etc. I know that this forum is not representative.
  15. @DodoHow I would explain that to me was that you were in an awakened state, you saw the interconnectedness and at the same time a deep psychological pattern/archetype in your ego was activated. The archetype for making sacrifices for the higher good. So this was a mix of ego and enlightenment, which can lead to delusional decisions. It is still unbelievable to see how you were not afraid to jump. I mean you were still in reality and knew the consequences. It needs immense force to do that. I am glad you slowly recover from that.
  16. @Sandroew on what substance were you encountered something? What was it exactly?
  17. @samijiben so you think you only can reach god through death or you come to this earth as god. Every attempt to reach god like yoga, meditation, retreats etc are useless then for you.
  18. Not with kechari mudra. It is reasonable that it takes time until your tounge is flexible enough to put it up and to stay there on a certain area with a lot of nerve ends. Until then you will not get much value out of it. So you need to train for weeks to month without much in return until you made it.
  19. He can't know that. Putting your tongue up needs weeks to month of training. Watch the YouTube video I posted here. But from what I researched it's totally worth it .
  20. @Xonas Pitfall Yes you are right , even if you just make some observations, which seems harmless at first and is from a curious, neutral perspective , it still can be used and distorted from your ego or other egos in some way and when time passes and you build on that observation further conclusions, you create then slowly an ideology and this can get into dangerous territory like the red pill, which definitely can destroy your relationship.
  21. @Joshe Mainstream calls them weird and they call mainstream weird, too. INTPs have huge superiority in terms of truth seeking compared to other personality types. They can see easily through bullshit and fake interests but still they can be biased and fall into delusions like you say if they really think they know it all.
  22. @Meeksauce I listend to such music style on 75 micro LSD. To be honest it was not scary at all. It was just noise to me even on a psychedelic. No crazy reactions. But others might react differently.
  23. @samijiben @samijiben Have you read studies about 5 meo, producing 90% mystical experiences in a group? If psychedelics do nothing, why all these god realization reports on psychedelics? Before that they didn't recognize god. I am curious how you come to your conclusion.
  24. @Xonas Pitfall no my intention was to show how different women really are compared to men. Again, differences are nothing negative per se but the narrative goes that we are so equal - which we are not - and any difference pointing out is just not taking seriously. But we should understand the differences. I assumed it is common sense how different the genders are , what I wanted to point out how radical different we are in pursuing topics and that it is not just an observation on real world but especially on the Internet if I searching for podcasts between women or generell content produced by women. My observations were that they really have almost no interest outside their personal stuff. This is a big generalization amongst women so I am aware that there are some outsiders. During the discussion I recognized that many men behave the same way, that they are just interested in their own stuff so it might be less about gender and more about personality types. The Internet, YouTube, is full of intps who also have the drive to create content so it's a bit biased.
  25. @Lyubov you are fooling yourself, you try to see something in me which I am not. You think that a solipsistic behavior is something negative, which is not. You try to categorize my observations immediately into red pill content, which might be true but that doesn't make the observations untruthful. That way you cannot see neutral on that topic, you are just biased. Again, just adress the observations directly in a neutral way, I am open for criticism. But please don't behave like a hero who wants to protect women because of "unfairness".